There is a girl from work I know for months, I know her well, and speak with her almost daily. I was into her for long and didn't have the courage.. until recently (Yeah i'm a loser). I asked her out for a movie, and she accepted, but later she wanted to add a friend saying she wanted to see it as well. I asked her if she knew my intentions for calling her to a movie, after a delay she replied with "ahh i'm stupid" and said she isn't into relationship right now, accepted it, told her i'm glad for her honesty.. and convo continued.. next day was kinda quiet from her, and I thought about cutting connection. at worked she even said "i'm only giving high fives, no hugs" didn't say much..
few days after me being casual about all this, and still talking with her regularly she started to change a little, at first I noticed body language havn't seen before, like her preening more frequently and blushing, and cant hold eye contact for long. one day at work I was in a break and she came (she wasn't in a break) we happened to speak for half an hour (my whole break) laughin and sh!t. but one moment there she mentioned her eating her nails something like that accidently, and said (I thought as a joke) that she does it since she met me.. I laughed and asked "what you got a crush on me or something" said "yes".. I was a little confused but laughed and changed topic.. (now I think I came dumb her once I spoke with my friend about it, he said she wouldn't just say it)
so he called me a pvssy, and dared me to ask her again for a date.. I did, and asked her for a movie again (The previous one got cancelled as we didn't speak about it anymore) after a short delay she replied "gladly, I liked their previous movies"
now my confusion is.. did she change her mind? or I'm just overthinking? tbh, I thought she joked about the crush things because I confessed to her (Lesson learnd that I shouldn't confess to girls so firmly..)
so I'm askin you the profis to tell me your opinion.. I thought about going out, see how she acts, and maybe make a move for a kiss.
should I do it, or keep it casual?
few days after me being casual about all this, and still talking with her regularly she started to change a little, at first I noticed body language havn't seen before, like her preening more frequently and blushing, and cant hold eye contact for long. one day at work I was in a break and she came (she wasn't in a break) we happened to speak for half an hour (my whole break) laughin and sh!t. but one moment there she mentioned her eating her nails something like that accidently, and said (I thought as a joke) that she does it since she met me.. I laughed and asked "what you got a crush on me or something" said "yes".. I was a little confused but laughed and changed topic.. (now I think I came dumb her once I spoke with my friend about it, he said she wouldn't just say it)
so he called me a pvssy, and dared me to ask her again for a date.. I did, and asked her for a movie again (The previous one got cancelled as we didn't speak about it anymore) after a short delay she replied "gladly, I liked their previous movies"
now my confusion is.. did she change her mind? or I'm just overthinking? tbh, I thought she joked about the crush things because I confessed to her (Lesson learnd that I shouldn't confess to girls so firmly..)
so I'm askin you the profis to tell me your opinion.. I thought about going out, see how she acts, and maybe make a move for a kiss.
should I do it, or keep it casual?