She likes me a lot but has a boyfriend

[NaturallyBornPlayer]

well damn, then. what the heck do you have in mind???

Well, I know what I will do, that is pick up the phone and ask her to meet me, what I don't know is how to do it to have the most powerful impact. Think I'll just use the old curiosity routine, she'll not catch on (women never catch on if you're good enough).

No one in this froum is going to tell you what you WANT to hear. But everyone in this forum is going to tell you what you NEED to hear.

How many times do we have to go through this? I HAVE other options, I AM taking advantage of them, but I can't get her outta my head. When I finally think she's out for good she just pops right out into my mind.

 

[iqqi]

fine. but you've done this before and where are you? you are seeming frustrated...warning...warning....afc....

look, keep us posted on what happens, cuz it seems like no matter what you are not listening to any of us. i love a success story...but doesn't seem like this will be one...

 

[iqqi]

one last attempt:

you have the right ingredients to hook this girl and deliver her to you. but you are not stirring correctly . sheeeeesh.

such potential...

 

[NaturallyBornPlayer]

warning...warning....afc....

You're absolutely right. I'm slowly, but surely, turning into an AFC. And by God do I hate to see it happen.
Hmmm, I posted replies to this topic all night (well, I was at the office so that's an excuse I guess ) and finally realised what I am doing wrong. And that is I am afraid of not losing her. That's gotta be the first time I care about losing a girl. This will probably be the first time I do.

With these things in mind I'm gonna apply to most twisted and perverse method I know. But I'll keep it to myself for now and I'll tell it to you after having done it.

 

[NaturallyBornPlayer]

Thanks y'all, you helped me clear my head. Gosh, what over thinking can do to a man...

 

[iqqi]

don't just use us then leave. stick around. besides, i'm curious...

 

[NaturallyBornPlayer]

don't just use us then leave. stick around. besides, i'm curious...

I'm sure you are, and I promise you I won't test your patience too much, just a couple of days. I'm not telling you what my plans are because most likely I'll improvise on the spot. So that I will tell you exactly what I did, not what I planned on doing. The principle that underlies my plan is to plant a seed that will torment her from now up to the moment that school begins again. So by that time she would pursue me not the other way around.

So, iqqi, turns out that in the end I listened to what you said, just reframed it a bit to fit my subjective view of the situation.