She kicked my shoes....

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So I met a chick this past weekend. The morning after the bars, the group of us were hanging out a bit and cleaning up a bit. Didnt really get to talk to much but she was cool. I kinda poked fun of her a bit and I got a feeling she may be into me a bit. Then I may have dropped the ball and made myself look kinda like an idiot. I had smoked a bowl (dont judge) and the high was a bit of a downer so I was a bit antisocial and quiet. I think I may have blew my chance. Then when we were all on our way out, I was waiting for them to walk by so I could put my shoes on and she friggen kicked my shoes. Its not exactly difficult to step over so im pretty sure it was on purpose. Was she being a ***** or could that be a sign she's interested? I know I should have said something but since I was stoned, I couldnt think of anything to say. I totally pooned out. I facebooked her anyway and she friended me but I feel like thats a little lame to go that direction to get her number. What do you guys think? Lost cause?
 
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Might be a sign of interest, might not be. Does it really matter? Proceed how you would have if you knew she was!
 

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ARrocket said:
Might be a sign of interest, might not be. Does it really matter? Proceed how you would have if you knew she was!
I agree with this. It probably wasn't a sign of interest, but don't let that stop you!
 

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camdry90 said:
Most highs from smoking dope are downers, its a drug that will continue to make you socially akward. Trust me i smoked for 5 years and i quit 6 months ago, life is much different.
a lot of people can still be social when they smoke, I thought I used to be able to too, but as time goes on, seems like I cant anymore. But it could be your attitude in general, when I smoke when im not in an amped up happy mood it makes me internalize a lot and anti social. But if im in a awesome mood before hand I'll be alright.
 

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camdry90 said:
and heres another guy who can't live without it so hes justifying how it only brings him down once in a while... have you ever walked into a room with half stoners and half ambitious people? you can tell which ones are the stoners before anyone even opens their mouth... those who cannot live without drugs are the people who need a crutch to life... why can't you have a good time without them? because there is something wrong with you. mind altering substances are useless to me, I'd rather be in control of my emotions.
so i guess you don't you drink at all?

i do agree getting stoned too much does seem to make you mentally duller...
 

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camdry90 said:
and heres another guy who can't live without it so hes justifying how it only brings him down once in a while... .
you are way out of line.

I most definitely can live without smoking dope, do I enjoy it? yes. Lifes not worth living if you cant do what you enjoy. Does it make me mellow? a lot of times yes. Does it also feel good? yes.

Does alcohol sometimes give you more confidence? yes. does it sometimes make you cry like a baby about your ex? yes.

am I gonna say you cant live without alcohol and your trying to justify it cuz it helps you pick up chicks?

again, Lifes not worth living if you cant do what you enjoy. I enjoy my brain being altered, its exciting and fun just like snowboarding or playing soccer.

people who look down on people who drink or smoke are just pvssy's or goody two shoes.

get real man
 

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camdry90 said:
Smoking up is easy ANYONE can do it. Drinking is easy ANYONE can do it. is snowboarding easy? F*ck no! it takes time to get good, it takes effort, determination, drive and when you sport the ambition to go out and become good at something it is that much more rewarding. This is when people experience natural highs, not the same high you get from lighting up a joint or downing a half case of alcohol.
do not disagree. snowboarding does take practice to get good. but can anyone try to snowboard? yes. can anyone try to drink or smoke or do any other drug? yes. It takes practice to be a good snowboarder and yes a good drinker. you cannot tell me the first time you went snowboarding you didnt fall on your ass or the first time you drank, or at some point, puked your guts out.

you "did every drug in the book" ? tells me you had a little problem.

Im not condoning drug use, however I see no problem in altering ones reality for recreation. And recreation means every now and then.

If you do a lot of drugs for a long time you are going to hurt yourself, just like any sport.

you judging people for recreational use, because you couldnt handle it, you being "a party animal" is wrong. In my opinion. As long as its not causing you or anyone else immediate harm, and its not being abused I dont see a problem. Problem is people use and abuse for all the wrong reasons, and terribly addicting substances.

and I am real excited for the next 20 years of my life thanks, having lots of fun right now running a successful business and about to graduate from a fine university.

back to the OP, i wouldnt be thinking about a shoe kicking that much, if your interested in hanging out with said shoe kicker, ask her out.
 
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