She is drawing circles around me! What should I do! I'm SHY ARGGGH

[maulseller]

First off this is my first post Now let's check out my problem!

We went to bowling other day with 2 friends. We started to play some billard's than 2 attractive girls just came and sit to the nearest table while we are playing! They ordered 2 drinks for themselves and started look at us during we are concentrated on the game! I just saw them and warned my friend - He said I must talk with them cause they have high potential!

I said that I'm takin the blonde one and he said OK cause he already had a girlfriend! Problem started from this point! I became so shy! I dated with pretty good number of girls in the past but this was different Love at first sight!!!

Girls kept looking at us while we are not lookin, and we kept looking at them while they are not lookin! This lasted for like 30 minutes and they got the bill and left the place! I thought they just bored

After they left the place (meanwhile I must say that the bowling-billards house is inside a mall) We quickly paid for the game and left the place to follow them!

While leaving door securtiy told the following words to me and I just fainted


" Two girls came to me and told to say "hi" to you guys while leaving! " This was a message!!! Just after leaving we saw them and we started to run away with some quicker steps I don't know why? They followed us to the outside and drew 2 circles at the grassy area near the mall! We entered to the mall again and so do they! This kept going for like 20 minutes and we lost them!!

I STILL DON'T KNOW WHY WE RUN AWAY FROM THEM BUT I THINK WE ARE SOO STUPID NOW !



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We went to the mall again on the following day and SUPRISE!!! They were there! We ran away they followed us, they ran away we followed them! This should stop now and SOMEHOW we must get to know each other better? How will this happen? What should I do? I'm sure I'll see them again in the same place tommorow- but you know I'm not sure of what to do- all I know is I'm in love with her!

(p.s I'm 17 and she looks like 15 or so)

 

[chlywly]

Ummm, do not pass GO do not collect 200 dollars,

 

[maulseller]

??

 

[suavedave]

what country are you from?

 

[Nicholas Hill]

Bad news my friend...

You CANNOT be in love with any of those girls. How is that possible?

You missed the opportunity to do anything on the bowling day. Tsk tsk - you should have learned your lesson. THEN, you miss an opportunity AGAIN the NEXT DAY! Other guys would love to get a second chance, if only to redeem themselves...

Now that you think about those girls so much, a problem has arisen. You have what we call one-itis, and this has several characteristics amongst which is pancake butt (sitting on backside thinking too much about something while not doing it). One-itis is your fixation on a single chick. You haven't even spoken to her, and she's your world. You say you're "in love" with her.

You should thank me for replying before too many others have had the chance - I know several people who would have loved to fry you had I not come and explained what you did wrong first.

Welcome to the board, good man. I highly suggest you do what many people will tell you to do and read as many articles, especially the "must reads" in the DJ bible whos link is at the top of this page. You need to change your entire mind, and that is not possible by just reading this.

Nick

 

[The Business Man]

NEVER fall in love with a girl you don't know. You are just setting yourself up to be hurt. You might not run into them again, so until you do you should forget about them and seek out other girls. The girl(s) seem to have some IL in you, so next time you see them make eye contact and wave them to come over to you, or walk over to them one. If they run again, forget about them because they are just playing a silly game. When you get talking to them, ask for her number and call her later. Of course, I don't know what kind of a date you would set up with a 15 year old.

The lesson is, don't be afraid to approach ANY girl. None are better than you, nor better than any other girl.

 

[maulseller]

Thanks a lot for your advice!

The problem is... I need her bad!

"I fell in love" was the wrong word I think, but I really liked the way she looked..her face,her body, her clothes, her hair!

And the point is..she was soo close to become my new girlfriend! Only if I had talked with her

What should I do next time? This is not big big city and there are several main places that people usually go...I believe that I'll see her again soon!

 

[Good_ol_boy]

"What should I do? I'm sure I'll see them again in the same place tommorow...:

You could run away from them again. That way you'll NEVER meet them!

 

[maulseller]

I know what will happen if I run away from her again

The reason I'm here is to collect some weapons for the war

I have no problem with my looks, I have good clothes,I have a style, I'm pretty good at talking, I also know the other ways..kino, eye contact that will attract girl..

Problem here is this is the first girl that I met in street, she is totally a stranger! This is not a girl that I always see in school everyday

 

[Mr. Blue]

Hey dude!

Just dont think too much of her and focus your mind on the Bible, just as Mr. Hill told you.
This was the wisesd advice you could get and dont be too much in love for your task now is to establish a base you can work on.


You need to change your entire mind, and that is not possible by


Yes, he said everything...

 

[busterchaplin]

You're taking the metaphor of "The Hunt" a little too literally.

 

[maulseller]

Is there still a chance for me?

 

[digitalrat]

Read the post that explains the difference between Lust and Love.