She is always flirting.

[Reno89]

I have this chick and she is so desperate to be my GF. She keeps calling herself that. However, we work together and there is another coworker at the job, who is now her supervisor, that she used to sleep with. I am working in another department, and I see her flirting with other customers and laughing with the supervisor. I am cool with that. However, she was hitting him in a flirty manner. I play it cool and not mention it. How do I deal with this situation?


Ps, this is putting me in a bad place. I am stressed out dealing with this, but sometimes too stressed to feel like going out to find other options.

 

[bcolon]

Attention wh0re. Nothing more. There should be no reason for you to stress over ONE girl. Let alone this girl. Start seeing and talking to other girls. This is the CURE for this "boyfriend and girlfriend"-itis your feeling.

In the meantime since your new. Please check out the DJ (Don Juan) Bible.

Link: http://www.nick-hill.com/djb/

This collaboration of many articles from this site gives you ALL the answers your seeking right at your fingertips.

Again, move on from her because it will only make you feel worse and when she finds out your like a little puppy to her. She will either take advantage of your feeling or just drop you because your showing DESPERATION!

Girls can sniff desperation miles away. They hate this.

Hope this helps.

 

[Iceberg]

I have this chick and she is so desperate to be my GF. She keeps calling herself that. However, we work together and there is another coworker at the job, who is now her supervisor, that she used to sleep with. I am working in another department, and I see her flirting with other customers and laughing with the supervisor. I am cool with that. However, she was hitting him in a flirty manner. I play it cool and not mention it. How do I deal with this situation?

Ps, this is putting me in a bad place. I am stressed out dealing with this, but sometimes too stressed to feel like going out to find other options.

How do you deal with the situation?

If you want her, then get her outside of the office for some drinks and stop playing "flirting games" with her. I'm assuming that you're not actually dating her (as in, sleeping with her) because it sounds like you're not.

If you don't want her, then proceed as usual. I mean, if she's not actually YOURS, then why shouldn't she flirt with whoever she wants?

DISCLAIMER: Most people would recommend AGAINST dating in the office.

 

[Reno89]

@Iceberg, we have been sleeping together for the last 5 months.

@bcolon, She is the only one that wants a relationship

 

[wilford]

Hehehe i think you are being played! I hope the puzzy is worth it!

 

[SoSuave666]

Doesn't seem to me like you are "cool with it" if her flirting is making it so you can't go out and find new women. If it's bothering you, walk away from it. Women will run jealousy tactics because they know how the human brain works. These things increase attraction. They only work if you let them though. Right now, you seeing her doing these things is only hurting you. Either cut her off, find someone new, or pursue her as more than an FB. I don't understand how you can not want a relationship with someone then get upset when they flirt with other people. You sound like a woman.

 

[omega05]

So she wants a relationship, you don't, but you're jealous of her flirting with others...

 

[Reno89]

So let me get this straight. Even though she is feeling up on another dude while I am around, I should not feel disrespected?

 

[bcolon]

Are you in a relationship or locked in one with her? If not, you shouldn't care.

 

[Reno89]

So, if she is feeling up on another dude in my face, I should just let it go?

 

[bcolon]

Yeah. If this girl likes you a lot she is teasing you or playing games with you to get you:

a) jealous
b) desperate for her pvssy
c) lost interest
d) use you as an 'make me feel good tampon'

Go ghost. Once you do that it's either she likes you enough and she will call and want to be around you.

 

[bcolon]

If she doesn't contact you then you know your answer. If she does then continue to smash but do not dwell on this girl. Spin more plates.