"She is a hor!" = ego defense?

[sstype]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Wouldn't it be easier if guys would just stop going out with these types of women. They don't seem very attractive.

Yeah, I dont, but the thread starter here suggests that by not putting it on the line for these types of women, we are just trying to defend our egos.

I dont make the effort on h0rs, because that is what they are h0rs. If she is the type of girl that will fyck guys a few minutes after meeting them (i.e. clubs) why should I waste my damn effort conversating and trying to seduce her??

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Most of us have contempt and hostilty towards women. I'm not affraid to admit it. When the weenies on this forum say hor in the self-defeating manner it is because of their hostility/ contempt for women. How dare you not like me, women like you always ignore me, I never get anywhere with women like you, damn why dont you think im special.........blah blah blah and the rollercoaster goes like that....

Deny pu**y before it can deny you.

 

[belividere]

Good God.
this post has been mutilated. From what I read the whole premise of the tip was not to make excuses. QUITE THINKING YOU ARE BETTER THAN PEOPLE YOU DO NOT KNOW.

If you think for some reason that all girls who go to clubs are hors than do yourself a favor and dont go to clubs to get girls. Fvcking hang out at book clubs on friday night or sunday school or wherever the hors dont hang out.

Truth is that making excuses like a girl is a "hor" why even bother is self-defeating. First off it doesn't matter where you meet a girl you always need to screen them. I've tore up sluts who dont ever go to clubs and come off as innocent. Secondly, sitting in the corner and making excuses is hardly advancing you towards finding your diamond in the rough. If by chance you do meet a "non-hor", having no experience because you sat on the sidelines making excuses for approaching girls throughout your life does what good for you?

I can be a hor-mongering scumbag but through experience and heartbreak I have come to a point were I can actually recognize a hor for a hor. Sure I fvck up sometimes but I learn from them. I dont treat a hor with respect or dignity but damn I like to keep my **** wet sometimes so I utilize them for what they are worth.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by sstype
...I dont make the effort on h0rs, because that is what they are h0rs. If she is the type of girl that will fyck guys a few minutes after meeting them (i.e. clubs) why should I waste my damn effort conversating and trying to seduce her??

I can agree with that....

 

[sstype]

Originally posted by belividere


I can be a hor-mongering scumbag but through experience and heartbreak I have come to a point were I can actually recognize a hor for a hor. Sure I fvck up sometimes but I learn from them. I dont treat a hor with respect or dignity but damn I like to keep my **** wet sometimes so I utilize them for what they are worth.

Yeah, thats no problem at all. I am just saying that attractive women needed to be the treated the same way you would act around an average jane. All the special treatment they get from guys just because of their looks is turning them into egotistic h0rs.

Yeah, utilize them, but dont put so much effort into trying to "seduce" them. lol

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by Bradshaw
They are defending their ego.

BINGO!! Chicks on average get more sex than average guys, this is how society is now. There is no changing this no matter how much you huff and puff about it and attempt to rationalise it by using negative words to describe an everyday common FACT.

I myself have been guilty of this . Accept it as normal behaviour and move on.

 

[sstype]

Re: Re: "She is a hor!" = ego defense?

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
BINGO!! Chicks on average get more sex than average guys, this is how society is now. There is no changing this no matter how much you huff and puff about it and attempt to rationalise it by using negative words to describe an everyday common FACT.

I myself have been guilty of this . Accept it as normal behaviour and move on.

Of course, but realize what feeds a their ego (male attention) and withold that from her. And watch her try to get your attention

 

[belividere]

If you never take the chance to meet her than you can stand in the corner withholding your attention all day long without making any difference. This is at least what I took this tip to be.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

yep ur ignoring her doent do a thing if ur not in her life. Sitting back thinking damn she must want me, look how Im not saying anything to her...Truth is she probably doesnt even notice you.

 

[Bradshaw]

Re: Re: Re: "She is a hor!" = ego defense?

Originally posted by sstype
Of course, but realize what feeds a their ego (male attention) and withold that from her. And watch her try to get your attention

'Not giving her too much attention' should not be confused with 'Ignoring her'.

If you haven't met her yet and she doesn't even know that you exist, she will not seek your attention. She will probably think that you are not man enough to approach her. She is probably right.

A better method would be to open a conversation with her, then end it first. She will begin to wonder why you aren't following her around and being needy. Now she will seek you attention/approval etc.

There is a room full of hundreds of guys who do not have the ball$ to approach her. She isn't trying to get with all of these guys. On the other hand, she also doesn't want the guy who is desperately following her around.

The real key is: knowing when to give attention, and knowing when to withhold it.

 

[Bloke]

I always use to call my ex a wh*re. & your right, it is an ego cover up

I was upset because the girl told me she wasn't ready for a relationship Then she went back to liking the guy she'd liked for a couple of years. This guy was a w*nker, & I couldn't see why she wanted him
(let's just say I broke every DJ rule there is in the relationship & after)

Only after reading through this site I could see what she saw

I no longer call her wh*re or anything like that, as I now understand the rules

It was MY FAULT

 

[sstype]

Re: Re: Re: Re: "She is a hor!" = ego defense?

Originally posted by Bradshaw
'Not giving her too much attention' should not be confused with 'Ignoring her'.

If you haven't met her yet and she doesn't even know that you exist, she will not seek your attention. She will probably think that you are not man enough to approach her. She is probably right.

A better method would be to open a conversation with her, then end it first. She will begin to wonder why you aren't following her around and being needy. Now she will seek you attention/approval etc.

There is a room full of hundreds of guys who do not have the ball$ to approach her. She isn't trying to get with all of these guys. On the other hand, she also doesn't want the guy who is desperately following her around.

The real key is: knowing when to give attention, and knowing when to withhold it.

I agree with the first and second paragraph...

But as far no guys approaching her, you are wrong. Attractive women in the United States are hit on ALL THE TIME. At work, school, bars, clubs, supermarkets. They will run into massive attention, direct or subtle, by numerous guys in one day. You approaching her out of the blue means nothing special to her, unless you have really tight game, and can C&F, NLP, elicit value, and psycho hypnosis your way into her pants.

Dont completely shun women (and h0rs) out of your life, but realize them for what they are, and take the proper action to avoid getting fycked over again and again.