"She is a hor!" = ego defense?

[Bradshaw]

I've noticed that a lot of guys (in the real world and on this forum) tend to label almost every girl a hor or a slút. In a majority of these cases the guy is doing this to reject the girl before she has a chance to reject you. They are defending their ego.

Labelling girls this way protects you from facing the truth: you don't have enough skill with women, you are too scared to approach, etc.

This is a bad trap to fall into because it does nothing to help your cause: getting laid more, dating more girls, etc.

Recognize this tactic for what it is & try to avoid doing it.

 

[belividere]

A tip that actually speaks the truth? Welcome to the club of those that understand reality versus those who make excuses.

 

[Fender]

Well, all things considered, it probably were those p*ssy "beta" men that created the word slvt and started calling women that to stop them from f*cking the first alpha male they saw.

In nature, ALL animals are "slvts."

It's just that humans tend to have negative associations with the word.

Women do the same thing as well actualli. Label their friends slvts so they can hv some d1ck for themselves. Very sinister, but natural in many ways.

-inner peace-

 

[Sh0t]

I like women who like sex and get plenty.

"*****" to me is a job description. A job I think is quite noble as well. What could be a better job than giving people orgasms all day?

Send your sluts and "hors" to me.

 

[sstype]

Originally posted by Bradshaw
I've noticed that a lot of guys (in the real world and on this forum) tend to label almost every girl a hor or a slút. In a majority of these cases the guy is doing this to reject the girl before she has a chance to reject you. They are defending their ego.

Labelling girls this way protects you from facing the truth: you don't have enough skill with women, you are too scared to approach, etc.

This is a bad trap to fall into because it does nothing to help your cause: getting laid more, dating more girls, etc.

Recognize this tactic for what it is & try to avoid doing it.

My cause is not to get laid more or date more girls. My cause is to succeed at becoming someone in this society, which will in turn bring me all the women.

I call a hor a hor because that is what she is. Watch her attitude, watch her body language. Observe her arrogance around people. She feeds off the fact that numerous guys want her puzzy. Then she uses that to manipulate them into doing whatever she wants them to do.

trust me, I am not afraid of these h0rs. I just refuse to give them my attention, unlike every other guy they run into. Do you understand what I am getting at? It is not because of my ego. It is because of theirs.

 

[FollowTheWhiteRabbit]

Re: Re: "She is a hor!" = ego defense?

Originally posted by sstype
I call a hor a hor because that is what she is. Watch her attitude, watch her body language. Observe her arrogance around people. She feeds off the fact that numerous guys want her puzzy. Then she uses that to manipulate them into doing whatever she wants them to do.

The fact that shes social makes her a wh0re? I think you missed the point of this post.

Some women are just sl.ts, its true, I know a girl that would go home every night with a different guy, no joke. SHe was a sl.t.

But if your calling a girl a wh0re becuase when shes out at a club or something and shes surrounded by guys trying to get in her pants and shes being socialable with them and perhaps she chooses to go home with one of them, then you deffinatly missed the point of this post.

Yes the fact that guys will fawn over a chick they just met because shes hot will give these girls a power trip, just the same as it would do to you if you had a bunch of girls trying to suck c0ck all the time, youd be an arrogant prick too. Does does being sociallable and adventurous make her a wh0re?

Define wh0re?

I bet you would f.ck the next hot girl you met that let you get in her pants and the girl after, on the same day if possible. Does that make you a wh0re?

It took me a while to figure this out but how can anyone have the mindset of I want to f.ck every hot girl I see and then be offended and appauled when you meet a girl with the same mindset?

I think most men label women as wh0re and sl.ts because they are jealous of the fact that women can have what every man wants with way less then half the effort. Its jsut easier to say shes a sl.t and move then realize that youd be no different if you had the same opportunities

There is no need to be hypocritical here, if you think its OK to f.ck a ton of girls then why is it not ok for her to f.ck a bunch of guys?


Thumbs up to this thread!

 

[Visceral]

IMO, the guys who complain about wh0res - of any kind: attention, sexual, etc. - are the guys who are vulnerable to them. These guys don't have whatever they need to be physically, emotionally, intellectually, and materially immune to a woman's self-interested attempts at manipulation.

These guys complain about wh0res because they have no defense against them, against women who use their bodies and their feminine wiles as a means for personal gain. Thus, they constantly fall into the wh0re's trap, and get used until they have nothing left, and are then cast aside in favor of the wh0re's next victim.

IMO, the guys who complain about sluts are the guys who couldn't get or keep a woman if their lives depended on it. They complain about how a woman will sleep with anybody, but the reality is probably much closer to the possibility that they just don't have what it takes to keep a woman interested in and loyal to them.

These guys are lacking in any or all of the aspects of true masculinty, so their women are happy, even eager, to sneak off and sleep with the first loaded slickster or muscle-bound bad-ass that crosses their path. Thus, they condemn these women and try to get them to be good and stay loyal and subservient to men who don't deserve it.

 

[sstype]

Originally posted by Visceral
IMO, the guys who complain about wh0res - of any kind: attention, sexual, etc. - are the guys who are vulnerable to them. These guys don't have whatever they need to be physically, emotionally, intellectually, and materially immune to a woman's self-interested attempts at manipulation.

These guys complain about wh0res because they have no defense against them, against women who use their bodies and their feminine wiles as a means for personal gain. Thus, they constantly fall into the wh0re's trap, and get used until they have nothing left, and are then cast aside in favor of the wh0re's next victim.

IMO, the guys who complain about sluts are the guys who couldn't get or keep a woman if their lives depended on it. They complain about how a woman will sleep with anybody, but the reality is probably much closer to the possibility that they just don't have what it takes to keep a woman interested in and loyal to them.

These guys are lacking in any or all of the aspects of true masculinty, so their women are happy, even eager, to sneak off and sleep with the first loaded slickster or muscle-bound bad-ass that crosses their path. Thus, they condemn these women and try to get them to be good and stay loyal and subservient to men who don't deserve it.

yeah, you guys are all right. I have been burned out time after time by many girls. they needed the perfect guy, and me being the flawed person I am, immediately was disqualified from their list of potential mates.

Yes, I write this because I have no women in my life, but if it is because I have been flirty, sincere, and kind to them, then obviously i have done something very wrong these past years. Girls wanted the guys that in my view, acted like "pimps" You could tell who was a "pimp" he was arrogant, aloof, and just had that vibe or aura goin on.

that is why i call them h0rs, because all they want are pimps, those that demonstrate high masculinity.


the other AFC's chasing just reinforce her value, and that is what makes her a *****y little elitist, only going for the top 5% of guys, the pimps. if you guys would just stop giving attractive women so much damn attantion, then they just might float back to earth, and start chasing US instead.

These are my beliefs, these are from my experiences, they are from my observations

 

[sstype]

Re: Re: Re: "She is a hor!" = ego defense?

Originally posted by FollowTheWhiteRabbit
The fact that shes social makes her a wh0re? I think you missed the point of this post.

Some women are just sl.ts, its true, I know a girl that would go home every night with a different guy, no joke. SHe was a sl.t.

But if your calling a girl a wh0re becuase when shes out at a club or something and shes surrounded by guys trying to get in her pants and shes being socialable with them and perhaps she chooses to go home with one of them, then you deffinatly missed the point of this post.

Yes the fact that guys will fawn over a chick they just met because shes hot will give these girls a power trip, just the same as it would do to you if you had a bunch of girls trying to suck c0ck all the time, youd be an arrogant prick too. Does does being sociallable and adventurous make her a wh0re?

Define wh0re?

I bet you would f.ck the next hot girl you met that let you get in her pants and the girl after, on the same day if possible. Does that make you a wh0re?

It took me a while to figure this out but how can anyone have the mindset of I want to f.ck every hot girl I see and then be offended and appauled when you meet a girl with the same mindset?

I think most men label women as wh0re and sl.ts because they are jealous of the fact that women can have what every man wants with way less then half the effort. Its jsut easier to say shes a sl.t and move then realize that youd be no different if you had the same opportunities

There is no need to be hypocritical here, if you think its OK to f.ck a ton of girls then why is it not ok for her to f.ck a bunch of guys?


Thumbs up to this thread!

It is NOT alright for them to have a bunch of guys. It is alright for us! that is the natural order of things! We need to be the ones walking into the club, and having hordes of bytches fawning over us, not the other way around! Girls need to be competing for us, not the other way of around!

It is ok for us to be manwh0res, they however, cannot because they are women, just emotional fickle creatures, and we are strong rocks that is their foundation. we can handle many women because we are emotionaly strong. but vice versa....that is why you see so many fycked up girls because their sex drives are on overdrive and it is emotionally damaging them.

I know girls that are like this, they sleep with mulitple partners but are also the most depressed and messed up people I have seen

 

[Visceral]

It's been argued that since men don't have to bear children, they evolved to be polygamists, having sex with as many women with good genes as they could.

Women, on the other hand, are stuck with the care of a child for at least 9 months, and so not only did they evolve to be selective, but also to balance good genes and strong masculine instincts with the qualities that make good husbands and fathers.

 

[Bradshaw]

I am not advocated dating girls who actually are slúts. Nobody should place their body into a situation that would increase their susceptibility to disease.

What I am commenting on is the fact that when I go out with friends to a club, their excuse to not approach any girl is that "She is a hor", or "I can just tell she is a slút". A room full of hundreds of college girls and every single one of them is a slút?

You do not have to date every girl you talk to. Look at it as a way for you to build up your skill with women. This way, when the perfect girl (a non-wh0re) comes along you will know what to do.

The point of this thread is not to defend girls who have bad reputations. It is to attack the excuse many people use to protect their ego.

Remember, the more girls that appear to desire you, the more other girls will desire you. Do not cheat yourself of this 'social proof', by hiding behind a tactic designed to protect you ego.

 

[pressure0354]

Wonderfully put. I've noticed the same thing. Girls do it to. I personally think it shows lack of confidence and jealousy.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

You guys over think every freaking thing!!! Where I am from we use B*** and ***** constantly.. Not because we are trying to protect our ego, but, just cus 'we dont luv them ho's," we dont get all afc and blame the ho when we get rejected, we dont use ho or B*** in a self defeating way, "yeah she's probably a ho anyway." We use ho to describe women and girls of a certain age with certaint characteristic, and as a catch all description for women we don't know well. It isnt nice, but it isnt used how the original poster believes it is......

I don't understand why so many guys here get offended by the use of b/h. I'm guessing that my skin is thicker cus B's/Ho's 'ound here call us *iggas.

Example: I might call my friend and say " hey man, I met this really fine B/ho today, she is this and this and really smart." We use it without malice, maybe cus we be some real *iggas:cheer:

Honestly, if we meet a women that really deserves respect, we never use all this b/ho stuff.

 

[Bradshaw]

Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
You guys over think every freaking thing!!! Where I am from we use B*** and ***** constantly.. Not because we are trying to protect our ego, but, just cus 'we dont luv them ho's," we dont get all afc and blame the ho when we get rejected, we dont use ho or B*** in a self defeating way, "yeah she's probably a ho anyway." We use ho to describe women and girls of a certain age with certaint characteristic, and as a catch all description for women we don't know well. It isnt nice, but it isnt used how the original poster believes it is......

I don't understand why so many guys here get offended by the use of b/h. I'm guessing that my skin is thicker cus B's/Ho's 'ound here call us *iggas.

Example: I might call my friend and say " hey man, I met this really fine B/ho today, she is this and this and really smart." We use it without malice, maybe cus we be some real *iggas:cheer:

Honestly, if we meet a women that really deserves respect, we never use all this b/ho stuff.

Did you read my first post or my response? (or should I say did you understand)

I was only talking about a certain crowd of guys that I hang out with all tend to use this as an excuse. I didn't say don't call a h0e a h0e or anything, because if that's what she is then there is no denying it.

What I was commenting on is that many guys find an excuse not to put themselves on the line to approach a female. In this crowd that I hang out with, this is the most common excuse.

 

[sstype]

Originally posted by Bradshaw
Did you read my first post or my response? (or should I say did you understand)

I was only talking about a certain crowd of guys that I hang out with all tend to use this as an excuse. I didn't say don't call a h0e a h0e or anything, because if that's what she is then there is no denying it.

What I was commenting on is that many guys find an excuse not to put themselves on the line to approach a female. In this crowd that I hang out with, this is the most common excuse.

No, I dont have to sacrifice my dignity for puzzy. That is all it is, just flesh consiting of labias and flabias, etc. etc. It is not financial success, it is not becoming someone important, it is not the fountain of youth. it is not worth getting rejected over time after time.

 

[Bradshaw]

Originally posted by sstype
No, I dont have to sacrifice my dignity for puzzy. ..... it is not worth getting rejected over time after time.

For some reason, I don't have this problem.

 

[josekortez]

Many of the women around here are hors and sluts. Heck, it's hard for me to even find women in my area that haven't already been impregnated by some random guy. Trust me, I look all the time.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

And all this time I thought it was just women that were bitter and held grudges. Oh well, live and learn...

 

[sstype]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
And all this time I thought it was just women that were bitter and held grudges. Oh well, live and learn...

lol, whatever you say....

you guys just cant see it can you, read Lost in Translations posts. he exposes the true ways of these "women"

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by sstype
you guys just cant see it can you, read Lost in Translations posts. he exposes the true ways of these "women"

Wouldn't it be easier if guys would just stop going out with these types of women. They don't seem very attractive.