So I am pretty frustrateded with this chick, but i am not sure if I should show her that I am. Lately, she has been responding less to me and I have been the one initiating most contact by calling her, except for the occasional text she will send me. I have taken her out multiple times and we had a good time, BUT I know she is dating someone else right now (not sure how exclusive).
Whenever I used to call in the past and I reached her voicemail, she used to take the time to call me back the same evening or atleast text me and tell me saying she is sorry and will call tomorrow. Well I called her at 6pm today (after 2 weeks of not talking over the phone with her), and left her a voicemail, but I did not receieve a call back NOR a text, I personally take this as flat out rude and disrespectful. Call me stupid if you may, but I do not take **** from women lol.
I have a feelign she is going to call me tomorrow pretending like nothing out of the ordinary happened. Well, I am thinking of giving her this line at the END of the conversation (i'll be really friendly frst):
"hey dana, I am going to be blunt with you, I do not like being ignored, and I do not want our contact to be one sided. If I am going to be the only one initiating contact by having to call you first, then I think you should tell me right now so that this will be our last conversation ever. Please also stop text messaging me if this is the case."
Should I re-word this? I want the upper hand now. I want to be in control lol.
OR am I over-reacting and should I let it fly this time? Maybe kill her with kindness instead, and keep initiating contact and being sweet to her?
The thing that annoys me most that I know she was up late past midnight. 6 hours is plenty of time to atleast get back to me via a text.
Whenever I used to call in the past and I reached her voicemail, she used to take the time to call me back the same evening or atleast text me and tell me saying she is sorry and will call tomorrow. Well I called her at 6pm today (after 2 weeks of not talking over the phone with her), and left her a voicemail, but I did not receieve a call back NOR a text, I personally take this as flat out rude and disrespectful. Call me stupid if you may, but I do not take **** from women lol.
I have a feelign she is going to call me tomorrow pretending like nothing out of the ordinary happened. Well, I am thinking of giving her this line at the END of the conversation (i'll be really friendly frst):
"hey dana, I am going to be blunt with you, I do not like being ignored, and I do not want our contact to be one sided. If I am going to be the only one initiating contact by having to call you first, then I think you should tell me right now so that this will be our last conversation ever. Please also stop text messaging me if this is the case."
Should I re-word this? I want the upper hand now. I want to be in control lol.
OR am I over-reacting and should I let it fly this time? Maybe kill her with kindness instead, and keep initiating contact and being sweet to her?
The thing that annoys me most that I know she was up late past midnight. 6 hours is plenty of time to atleast get back to me via a text.