Quick question for you guys.
I'm currently spinning plates, and one of the plates I'm messing with has a lot of the "warning signs" I have seen a lot of guys on this forum say they would never pursue. Here's the list...
The girl I'm currently dating:
(1) Has ALL guy friends (ok, she technically has ONE female friend... but her one female friend is such a manly-woman that I refuse to give her "girl" status simply for having a p*ssy... I could swear I saw a 5 o'clock shadow on her friend's face the last time I saw her).
(2) Drinks at least 6 large bottles of beer every night. I drink every few days and not usually more than 3 bottles. She also smokes like a chimney.. 2 or 3 packs per day. I don't smoke. Ever.
(3) Is more sexually experienced than I am. Like, WAY more. That in itself didn't seem like an issue to me until we once talked about our views of marriage and she mentioned that she doesn't know if she could ever see herself "having sex with just one person" for the rest of her life. I don't necessarily disagree with her viewpoint, but I've never met a female who would word it quite like that... that's something a guy would normally say.
(4) Talks with other guys a LOT when I'm around. I live in a Middle Eastern country where, if natives see foreign girls (the girl I'm seeing was born & raised in France), they'll hit on them immediately because they're believed to be easy lays (which they generally are, relative to girls who are actually from this country). They even do it if the foreign girl is with a guy... they're pretty shameless here. On dates, though, even when a 55-year-old man with rotting brown teeth comes to our table to talk with us, she'll talk for a long time and give the guy whatever contact information he eventually asks her for... phone number, email, facebook... normally all three. I know she loves being able to practice speaking Arabic--her father is from this country--but it's become a tad ridiculous.
I know it's ultimately my decision as to whether or not I keep seeing this girl... however, I don't want to repeat other guys' mistakes by not taking the abovementioned warning signs seriously enough. Can someone tell me what I should expect from a girl like this later down the road if things were to get more serious?
I'm currently spinning plates, and one of the plates I'm messing with has a lot of the "warning signs" I have seen a lot of guys on this forum say they would never pursue. Here's the list...
The girl I'm currently dating:
(1) Has ALL guy friends (ok, she technically has ONE female friend... but her one female friend is such a manly-woman that I refuse to give her "girl" status simply for having a p*ssy... I could swear I saw a 5 o'clock shadow on her friend's face the last time I saw her).
(2) Drinks at least 6 large bottles of beer every night. I drink every few days and not usually more than 3 bottles. She also smokes like a chimney.. 2 or 3 packs per day. I don't smoke. Ever.
(3) Is more sexually experienced than I am. Like, WAY more. That in itself didn't seem like an issue to me until we once talked about our views of marriage and she mentioned that she doesn't know if she could ever see herself "having sex with just one person" for the rest of her life. I don't necessarily disagree with her viewpoint, but I've never met a female who would word it quite like that... that's something a guy would normally say.
(4) Talks with other guys a LOT when I'm around. I live in a Middle Eastern country where, if natives see foreign girls (the girl I'm seeing was born & raised in France), they'll hit on them immediately because they're believed to be easy lays (which they generally are, relative to girls who are actually from this country). They even do it if the foreign girl is with a guy... they're pretty shameless here. On dates, though, even when a 55-year-old man with rotting brown teeth comes to our table to talk with us, she'll talk for a long time and give the guy whatever contact information he eventually asks her for... phone number, email, facebook... normally all three. I know she loves being able to practice speaking Arabic--her father is from this country--but it's become a tad ridiculous.
I know it's ultimately my decision as to whether or not I keep seeing this girl... however, I don't want to repeat other guys' mistakes by not taking the abovementioned warning signs seriously enough. Can someone tell me what I should expect from a girl like this later down the road if things were to get more serious?
