Understand this... she is attracted to the 'crazy sh1t', and unless you are crazy... ready to deliver drama... she will lose interest in you. In the near term... yes she will appreciate the fact that you are a stable normal 'good' man, but that does not last....
After a while, she will get bored of you... she likes the crazy... and she will start trying to trigger you so that you can emotionally stimulate her. Why? Because she is comfortable with chaos. She will try to make you crazy... and one of three things is going to happen (1) She will success and you will join her other exes on the pile of ex-crazy dudes. (2) She will do this until you've had enough and leave, then you become one of the a-hole exes that abandoned her. (3) You will stick it out like a fvcking idiot and will be miserable until your end of days.