She has a boyfriend yet...

[Jaun_Don]

She calls me on the phone, invites me to parties and wants to go to the movies and always leaves xx's in her messages and tells me that her boyfriend was cool with us going to movies last week?...

Have i been LJBFd? is she keeping her options open?...I can't really understand this.

any thoughts on how I should deal with this one please?

"Thank you for the movie the other night..it was funny!! We definately have to do it again!!!
I will call you at some point during the weekend or you could call me.
xx
"
That was one of her messages.


scratches head...

 

[BlackJackal]

If this is the same girl just next her. I mean think about it dude, as long as you deal with this girl you're gonna keep wanting her. If you're gonna go to a movie or anywhere else with a girl, go with one who wants you to bone her. Otherwise there's no point.

 

[Thrud]

one of two things:

1. she's playing. and the boyfriend doesn't mind. in which case it's an open relationship. in which case, it's up to you to decide what you want...

2. more likely, you have been filed away under the 'harmless friend' category. maybe she is attracted to you, but she knows you will not make a move on her or try to make her boyfriend jealous.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by BlackJackal
If this is the same girl just next her. I mean think about it dude, as long as you deal with this girl you're gonna keep wanting her. If you're gonna go to a movie or anywhere else with a girl, go with one who wants you to bone her. Otherwise there's no point.

The Room mate?, oh hell no this is another girl.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Thrud
one of two things:

1. she's playing. and the boyfriend doesn't mind. in which case it's an open relationship. in which case, it's up to you to decide what you want...

2. more likely, you have been filed away under the 'harmless friend' category. maybe she is attracted to you, but she knows you will not make a move on her or try to make her boyfriend jealous.

what If I did make a move on her though?.

 

[Trolley]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
what If I did make a move on her though?.

Well, you would find out what her true intentions are. And possibly get smacked around by her bf

 

[Thrud]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
what If I did make a move on her though?.

if it's situation 1.

a. she might go along. in which case you're screwed because you're now entering into a territory of crap where you're not only going to screw up your relationship with her, but her relationship with the boyfriend. and possibly get your ass kicked. and chances are even if they break up, she still doesn't know what she wants.

b. she might not go along. in which case she'll say she didn't mean to lead you on, and you'll be too embarassed to see her afterwards. she most likely wont tell bf.

if it's situation 2:

a. she'll slap you lightly and tell you to stop being stupid, and wont tell her boyfriend. this is where she would explain she just wants to be friends. one of those "you're a really nice guy, but i'm taken" things.

b. she'll freak out. throw a vase at your head. storm out. call the police/boyfriend.. and get either one of them to come and get your ass.

 

[BlackJackal]

Do you want to be with this girl or do you just want to pole her?

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by BlackJackal
Do you want to be with this girl or do you just want to pole her?

I'd like to be with her, it would be appear that enjoys spending time with me.

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
I'd like to be with her, it would be appear that enjoys spending time with me.

What is wrong with this picture? She has a bf, yet wants to do bf/gf things with you? WHY??????

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by jprjrjr
What is wrong with this picture? She has a bf, yet wants to do bf/gf things with you? WHY??????

maybe you could tell me please, this is bewildering to me.

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

You need to make a move on her. Something that will cause her to make her TRUE feelings for you known. Sure it may be tough stepping over the line into a situation where she may no longer want you to be her FRIEND (which is the $ucky position you're currently in), to something more, but at least you'll know what to do once you know for sure......

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Originally posted by BlackJackal
Do you want to be with this girl or do you just want to pole her?

Haha. Poler her??? I like that term. Perhaps if more of the guys in here stopped actin' like girlie men, and accept that they want to "pole" these chicks, there would be a lot less stress and confusion.

 

[Lost In Translation]

ok lets looks at what you have given me to work with

She calls me on the phone, invites me to parties and wants to go to the movies and always leaves xx's in her messages

thats some toy $hit right there. is she 15 years old ?

xx don't mean $hit. chicks do it to lead guys on.

and tells me that her boyfriend was cool with us going to movies last week?...

YOUR MOST IMPORTANT CLUE

now the focus of our investigation will be on what she said / did

and tells me that her boyfriend was cool with us going to movies last week?...

she told her boyfriend another man is taking her out

and he was cool with that ?

no man is cool with that

UNLESS she told him in a certain way

chick : " my friend Mark is taking me to the movies on friday "

bf : " hell naaaaw woman ! you not going no where with no man unless it's me ! YOU HEAR ME WOMAN ! "

chick : " don't be silly honey MARK IS GAY / MARK IS MY F...

F...

F...

F R I E N D

now if a woman is trying to CREEP and play her bf out on the side

she going to be telling her man she doing it ?

NO WAY !

but she telling her man you taking her out ?

YOU ARE IN THE FRIEND ZONE

the cute little xx

she is talking to you like she talks to her girlfriends

ie. LIKE A B*TCH !


Jaun_Don after helping you on your other thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80656

i gotta ask you and be honest

HAVE YOU READ THE DJ BIBLE ?

you letting these women play you into the friend zone

you need to read the articles in the bible about how to avoid the friend zone

this woman is using her BOYFRIEND as an ACE to block you

and she is going to keep using that ACE any time you try and bust a move or call her out

she is just wasting your time and money

NEXT HER !


and damn kid school yourself and learn the game before you try again

you sound like you got heart to try but you need to learn so you see through these womens bull$hit and know what to do to PROTECT YOUR HEART

all the best


Lost In Translation

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[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
ok lets looks at what you have given me to work with

She calls me on the phone, invites me to parties and wants to go to the movies and always leaves xx's in her messages

thats some toy $hit right there. is she 15 years old ?
xx don't mean $hit. chicks do it to lead guys on.
and tells me that her boyfriend was cool with us going to movies last week?...
YOUR MOST IMPORTANT CLUE
now the focus of our investigation will be on what she said / did
and tells me that her boyfriend was cool with us going to movies last week?...

she told her boyfriend another man is taking her out and he was cool with that ?

no man is cool with that
UNLESS she told him in a certain way
chick : " my friend Mark is taking me to the movies on friday "
bf : " hell naaaaw woman ! you not going no where with no man unless it's me ! YOU HEAR ME WOMAN ! "
chick : " don't be silly honey MARK IS GAY / MARK IS MY F...

F R I E N D

now if a woman is trying to CREEP and play her bf out on the side
she going to be telling her man she doing it ?
NO WAY !
but she telling her man you taking her out ?

YOU ARE IN THE FRIEND ZONE

the cute little xx
she is talking to you like she talks to her girlfriends
ie. LIKE A B*TCH !


Jaun_Don after helping you on your other thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80656

i gotta ask you and be honest
HAVE YOU READ THE DJ BIBLE ?
you letting these women play you into the friend zone
you need to read the articles in the bible about how to avoid the friend zone

this woman is using her BOYFRIEND as an ACE to block you
and she is going to keep using that ACE any time you try and bust a move or call her out she is just wasting your time and money

NEXT HER !

and damn kid school yourself and learn the game before you try again

you sound like you got heart to try but you need to learn so you see through these womens bull$hit and know what to do to PROTECT YOUR HEART

all the best

You're right on the mark. This girl is just toying with him.
Wake up man! There're better girls out there.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Hey Australian, you should edit your posts man!

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
ok lets looks at what you have given me to work with

She calls me on the phone, invites me to parties and wants to go to the movies and always leaves xx's in her messages

thats some toy $hit right there. is she 15 years old ?

xx don't mean $hit. chicks do it to lead guys on.

and tells me that her boyfriend was cool with us going to movies last week?...

YOUR MOST IMPORTANT CLUE

now the focus of our investigation will be on what she said / did

and tells me that her boyfriend was cool with us going to movies last week?...

she told her boyfriend another man is taking her out

and he was cool with that ?

no man is cool with that

UNLESS she told him in a certain way

chick : " my friend Mark is taking me to the movies on friday "

bf : " hell naaaaw woman ! you not going no where with no man unless it's me ! YOU HEAR ME WOMAN ! "

chick : " don't be silly honey MARK IS GAY / MARK IS MY F...

F...

F...

F R I E N D

now if a woman is trying to CREEP and play her bf out on the side

she going to be telling her man she doing it ?

NO WAY !

but she telling her man you taking her out ?

YOU ARE IN THE FRIEND ZONE

the cute little xx

she is talking to you like she talks to her girlfriends

ie. LIKE A B*TCH !


Jaun_Don after helping you on your other thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80656

i gotta ask you and be honest

HAVE YOU READ THE DJ BIBLE ?

you letting these women play you into the friend zone

you need to read the articles in the bible about how to avoid the friend zone

this woman is using her BOYFRIEND as an ACE to block you

and she is going to keep using that ACE any time you try and bust a move or call her out

she is just wasting your time and money

NEXT HER !


and damn kid school yourself and learn the game before you try again

you sound like you got heart to try but you need to learn so you see through these womens bull$hit and know what to do to PROTECT YOUR HEART

all the best


Lost In Translation

This is only the first time she had told me about him, the thing I find odd is the going to the movies thing as friends I mean friends just hang out and do other **** right? and why did she get all dressed up and made up when she met me for the first 'date'?.

I have had more than a few realationships in my time but I haven't had a serious one in a long time, I guess I do need to read the DJ bible so I can get back on track.

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
This is only the first time she had told me about him, the thing I find odd is the going to the movies thing as friends I mean friends just hang out and do other **** right? and why did she get all dressed up and made up when she met me for the first 'date'?..

Since nothing happened between the two of you, I am pretty sure that you are deep in the friendzone. You got to understand that some women use guys like an accessory. Her boyfriend probably doesn't pay attention to her and only fvcks her. This b1tch needs attention and cannot stand being seen alone walking places. She gets her power by having guys follow her around without putting out and for some reasons alot of AW's get off on that. She is dressing up for you to give you hope, so you will stick around. Don't be surprised if one day she will disappear out of the blue because guys like you to a girl like that are a dime a dozen.

 

[BlackJackal]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
I'd like to be with her, it would be appear that enjoys spending time with me.

In that case, I'd say make a move so both of you can cut through the bull**** and get down to bussiness, you know. But to be honest I wouldn't trust her, cause if she's doing this type of thing( thats if she accepts your advances) behind her current bf's back, what makes you think she wouldn't do it to you?

It just seems like more trouble either way. Tread carefully.

 

[Lost In Translation]

why do i need to edit my posts ???

Jaun_Don
This is only the first time she had told me about him, the thing I find odd is the going to the movies thing as friends I mean friends just hang out and do other **** right? and why did she get all dressed up and made up when she met me for the first 'date'?.

ok FRIENDS go to the movies

it's not an action date

i am not going to get the girl to take her clothes off in front of 300 people am i ?

you sit next to someone without talking ?

GREAT DATE..... NOT !


why did she get dressed up ?

women get dressed up to compete with other women

not for you !

she is going to a public place where there is a good chance she will run into someone she knows

the movies

b*tches turn glamour for that $hit


why haven't you busted moves on this chick to see if she is wasting your time or not ?

all these dates ?

how many dates you been on ?

please don't tell me they all been to the movies lol


YOU ARE IN THE FRIEND ZONE


why haven't you kissed her yet ?

p.s WHO IS PAYING FOR ALL THESE MOVIES... and don't lie lol !



Lost In Translation

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