At a party I was hosting (celebrating a special event in my life) I instantly clicked with a HB8 whom I spent escalating with that night. I kino'ed, I flirted and playfully teased all night and she responded. Dancing, she basically had her legs wrapped around my hips and arms all over me. Where ever we went we'd be holding hands, waist or something.
Yet I held back. First it was because she called me her new best friend (didn't stop me but I thought I shouldn't rush and look desperate so I just kept up my game). Then it really hit me when a close friend told me she had a boyfriend. I never know what to do in these situations. Now to be honest I didn't want to make a fool of myself that night nor cause any trouble as it was my party.
But I don't know if I did the wrong or right thing. Should I have gone for it? Or at least gotten her number? What would you guys have done? I pulled back and started looking for other options but none really interested me. Every time I'd then bump into her, we'd get close and then I'd bail. Call me stupid, call me moralistic, but I don't want to take another guys girl because I wouldn't want it happening to me.
Yet I held back. First it was because she called me her new best friend (didn't stop me but I thought I shouldn't rush and look desperate so I just kept up my game). Then it really hit me when a close friend told me she had a boyfriend. I never know what to do in these situations. Now to be honest I didn't want to make a fool of myself that night nor cause any trouble as it was my party.
But I don't know if I did the wrong or right thing. Should I have gone for it? Or at least gotten her number? What would you guys have done? I pulled back and started looking for other options but none really interested me. Every time I'd then bump into her, we'd get close and then I'd bail. Call me stupid, call me moralistic, but I don't want to take another guys girl because I wouldn't want it happening to me.