She has a boyfriend. But I think she wants me...

Djprep

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I am a very attractive guy. I'm 16 years old and very confident due to the amount of girls that say I'm attractive. When I meet a girl in person I can talk about anything. There is this girl who looks at me everyday. Even when she's with her boyfriend when I was by see stares at me. She likes all my pictures on Instagram and she likes the pictures I post without a shirt on. How can I test to see if she likes me? And also we have never talked before.
 

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Djprep said:
I am a very attractive guy. I'm 16 years old and very confident due to the amount of girls that say I'm attractive. When I meet a girl in person I can talk about anything. There is this girl who looks at me everyday. Even when she's with her boyfriend when I was by see stares at me. She likes all my pictures on Instagram and she likes the pictures I post without a shirt on. How can I test to see if she likes me? And also we have never talked before.

If she wants you go for it. You think the other guy would care if you were the bf?
 

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You are a hot guy who can choose whoever he wants. And you choose to go for the one with a boyfriend (even though she looks at you). Don't be a douchebag.
 

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mangotot said:
You are a hot guy who can choose whoever he wants. And you choose to go for the one with a boyfriend (even though she looks at you). Don't be a douchebag.
I'm not trying to be a douchbag. I'm just very attracted to her
 

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Djprep said:
How can I test to see if she likes me? And also we have never talked before.
The first thing you do is actually go talk to her.
But before you do that, think carefully on what you might say.

I'm going to assume that you're still in school, so like it or not, your reputation is fairly important. Depending on the people around you, they might consider chasing another guy's girl as a bad move and could turn you into a social outcast.

Have any of your friends noticed this girl, are they giving you 'advice'?
Reputation is hard to fix once you've busted it.
 

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Cremasta said:
The first thing you do is actually go talk to her.
But before you do that, think carefully on what you might say.

I'm going to assume that you're still in school, so like it or not, your reputation is fairly important. Depending on the people around you, they might consider chasing another guy's girl as a bad move and could turn you into a social outcast.

Have any of your friends noticed this girl, are they giving you 'advice'?
Reputation is hard to fix once you've busted it.
My friends are telling me they think she likes me. But I should act like I don't know about her boyfriend.
 

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Cremasta said:
Reputation is hard to fix once you've busted it.
...and your face (OP) might be hard to fix when her boyfriend has busted it.

Realise that at your time of life now you will never be surrounded by so many unattached female choices as you are now, is it really worth it?
 
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