The deal is that I've been feeling this one girl a lot. The problem is, obviously, she has a bf. But the thing is that she hasn't seen him in FIVE MONTHS! And he lives about 15 minutes away by car. Oh and by the way I'd post this in the high school forum but more people view this forum =). She obviously likes me, she even told me, she tried SO HARD not to kiss me one time. I was provoking her but she held strong lol, I also grabbed her a$$ and told her "I know you like that". She does...I tell her things like "wouldn't be nice to be kissed, and touched, and pleased?" She WANTS me to do these things but apparently she "loves" her bf. Should I keep trying? Or see how things play out with her bf? FIVE FREAKING MONTHS!!! lol She needs some type of lovin!
She has a bf but is attracted to me
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Buddy....
you are giving in too easy.
She "knows" that she has you....and desire is indirectly proportional to availability.
So you need to raise the stakes....
You need to create false walls....ie....till now she has been telling you that she cant be with you becoz she has a bf.....now...you need to come up with some kind of bull****...why you cant be with her...even though you like her....(make sure its convincing )
You need to raise your own value....
that should work .....
good luck
you are giving in too easy.
She "knows" that she has you....and desire is indirectly proportional to availability.
So you need to raise the stakes....
You need to create false walls....ie....till now she has been telling you that she cant be with you becoz she has a bf.....now...you need to come up with some kind of bull****...why you cant be with her...even though you like her....(make sure its convincing )
You need to raise your own value....
that should work .....
good luck
I kinda understand what you mean. But I think my value is good enough for her. She just tells me she doesn't want to cheat on her bf. Which she already did because she kissed me, even though it was a peck on the lips. She really thought long and hard whether or not to do just that...so I don't know. Im thinking I should back off for now, or get to know her friend lol. She's fine =)
MushroomGod
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BFs mean nothing, you've shown her too much interest. I bang a girl on and off that has a BF she lives with and a kid with him. She doesn't give a shvt and neither do I. When she wants it I give her a good fvck and leave it at that.
MushroomGod said:
Yea I guess so =/ No harm in just goin for it...
Now that I think about I've never even gone after a girl who was already taken...weird. But anyway more replies would be appreciated greatly. Im gonna see whats up with her tomorrow.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Wow, you are the best friend any girl could ever have. She gets to have fun with you, receive sexual comments from you, go out to dinner with you, gets her ego stroked constantly, and doesn't have to kiss you or give you sex since she gets it from her bf ? Sweet deal!Chrom3y said:
I never know why guys think its ok to give money and spend time with a hot girl without getting anything back. If you sold your car, wouldn't you expect to receive money in exchange for it? If you sold your house, wouldn't you expect to receive money in exchange for it? How come when you sell yourself, your money and time to a hot girl, you don't expect to receive anything back for it? (i.e sex)
Ok seriously, dont be a douche with your sarcastic replies. I have never done anything for this girl and she is abstinent FYI. She tells me about giving me head and that she would do it for someone she cares about. I could be that guy since her bf hasnt even hugged her in FIVE MONTHS!! So hop off...
sodbuster
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He's an imaginary BF just like all 13yr olds have one of the Jonas brothers as a BF.It's not about him,it's you. Make a move or stop seeing her.
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ROTFLMAO!!! :crackup:DonJuan11 said:
Seriously, OP, you showed too much interest and now you took a one way trip to Wussville, Louisiana.
That's 10 minutes from Sexless, Arkansas.
And 30 minutes from Ego-Stroke City, Mississippi!
You need to get on your game.
OP. Here's the only advice im going to give you. Girls lie and if they are telling the truth, the truth could change in a matter of seconds. You're young and you will get burnt a few times(based on what you posted). You'll probably become bitter then realize how sh1t works.
Read the DJ bible.
"I tell her things like "wouldn't be nice to be kissed, and touched, and pleased?" "
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Don't ever pull that wussy sh1t again. Don't say sh1t like that. Either do those things or don't.
Read the DJ bible.
"I tell her things like "wouldn't be nice to be kissed, and touched, and pleased?" "
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Don't ever pull that wussy sh1t again. Don't say sh1t like that. Either do those things or don't.
RandallLambert
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He wasn't being a douche, he was actually being the only one on this thread giving you some sound advice. Listen kid, you lost this one. She has a boyfriend, all that stuff like "she's trying so hard not to" and "she wants me really" is just your ego trying to justify the fact that you've been rejected plain and simple.Chrom3y said:
If she was going to fvck you, it would have happened, but it hasn't, so it's not going to.
This isn't the first post like this on SoSuave and it certainly ain't going to be the last. Why not find yourself a nice girl with no current ties and see how that works out for ya?
Umm...thanks for the replies...? Yea...anyway Im not trying to justify anything. We talked before and she has liked me since the beginning of the year. She asked me why I never made a move and it was because I was with another girl at the time. And to the guy who asked why they haven't seen each other in 5 months...idk. Neither of them have a car so go figure =/. But Im gonna make moves anyway just for the hell of it. And about the douche comment...lol...Idk whether to say sorry or not man. I just would really prefer a normal reply than sarcasm.
BlackJackal
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Young man let me tell you now. Dont let this little girl hype ur head up to much. Remember at some point everything shes saying to you, she once told her bf the same. It aint hard to get a girl to cheat, but once you do, dont expect to have a trusting relationship.Chrom3y said:
You're young man. And I can tell you that there is no point in taking this situation seriously. Just enjoy the ride.
You're so right man, thanks. Im actually interested in her friend now so I'll see what happens with that. But really, I need to focus on myself more than anything now. The best thing I've ever read on this forum has got to be J0n024's field report logs or w/e you call them. Thats true motivation right there, if you haven't read it yet then GO NOW! I have my prioritied straight now(in my mind at least). First comes me, school would come first but its summer. Im going to work out and improve my confidence and image. Then comes my personal interests and hobbies, mainly sports, gotta practice for next season. Then comes the jobs, gotta have that money for senior year and a car which will expand my oppurtunities to have FUN. Then comes the women at the bottom of the list, because from what I've read, its when you put the pvssy on a pedestal is when you never get it. Gotta just have fun and live life and the pvssy will follow as a good bonusBlackJackal said:
. I dont know when I will start but when I do I will definately log my approaches, even if its one a month. PS: Anyone who hasn't read snowplowman's approach log or w/e go read it. He and J0n024 are some of the best motivation you could possibly get from this site.
"You're putting the pvssy on a pedestal" Gotta love 40-year old virgin lol
She isn't going to break up with him for you. In fact, you don't want to be in a relationship with her. You can see how she behaves when she's in a relationship, she's close to cheating on him, she'll do the same to you. The best you can hope for is some action on the side while she is still with the boyfriend. Just do everything you normally would to attract a woman. Get alone with her, and make your move.