She got too drunk

[shesabranchswinger]

How many drinks are the magic number for you? How many drinks for her?

Of course some of you do not drink and some of you younger and older guys may drink like a fish.

I was out with this somewhat composed 25 year old 2nd date. By the time she had 5 drinks a few hours in I paid up and split. She wanted to come back to my place I told her I could not and had to get up early and take care of some business.

Reason being her jeckle & Hyde personally from somewhat composure to super loose behavior. I just got a Kobe Bryant vibe and went with my gut.

 

[btownbuck2012]

How many drinks are the magic number for you? How many drinks for her?

Of course some of you do not drink and some of you younger and older guys may drink like a fish.

I was out with this somewhat composed 25 year old 2nd date. By the time she had 5 drinks a few hours in I paid up and split. She wanted to come back to my place I told her I could not and had to get up early and take care of some business.

Reason being her jeckle & Hyde personally from somewhat composure to super loose behavior. I just got a Kobe Bryant vibe and went with my gut.

Good for you man. You don't always have to reward bad behavior with your time. These hoes need to learn to behave and have a bit of class if they want to have a good time in the sack with you. Good for you. The few, the proud - the men who have a spine.

 

[lizardking82]

If you consider something not toleratable, do not tolerate it. Good course of action, IMO.

 

[The Duke]

From my experience, most girls who are social drinkers that drink 1-2 times a week and weigh around 110-120lbs, 3 drinks in 2hours with little food in them will be plenty to alter behavior. By the 4th-5th drink in 3-4hrs, most are acting stupid and drama usually ensues.

 

[Bible_Belt]

You should have propositioned her to come back to your place after the second drink.

 

[Alvafe]

From my experience, most girls who are social drinkers that drink 1-2 times a week and weigh around 110-120lbs, 3 drinks in 2hours with little food in them will be plenty to alter behavior. By the 4th-5th drink in 3-4hrs, most are acting stupid and drama usually ensues.

yeah, "alter" behavior, I call it just a excuse to do crap and blame I was "drunk", maybe because I don't really get drunk, I feel sick but I don't alter my behavior and my logic thinking is still there, only change is I feel like my head is spinning.

also remember the drunk says what he thinks sober, if she/he is acting in a way or saying things pretty sure that is what she is/think normally, only she have the excuse of the drink make her bad.

 

[The Duke]

alcohol = truth serum

 

[Reykhel]

By the time she had 5 drinks a few hours in I paid up and split

You were in a bar with her for a few hours......what were your expectations? A pot of tea and a toasted cheese sandwich and a game of dominoes?

She wanted to come back to my place I told her I could not and had to get up early and take care of some business.

Wow.

You should have propositioned her to come back to your place after the second drink.

It's what I was thinking. Why stay in a bar so long and then get pissy that she has a few drinks. Sounds like a control freak kill joy.

 

[shesabranchswinger]

You were in a bar with her for a few hours......what were your expectations? A pot of tea and a toasted cheese sandwich and a game of dominoes?




Wow.



It's what I was thinking. Why stay in a bar so long and then get pissy that she has a few drinks. Sounds like a control freak kill joy.

Dinner for about an hour and drinks for about an hour talking totaling about 2 hours. I don't like to finish dinner then say ok you ready to bang. That just doesn't seem to work well with me they usually like to chat a bit. I didn't get pissy I just didn't want to take her to my place then have her have second thoughts in the morning.

Haha control freak kill joy yeah ok buddy, you remember that next time you gamble taking home a sloppy drunk chick that you have only known for two hours. I see it as risk management and I'm not that hard up to bust a nut over a possible nightmare situation but to each his own I guess.

 

[devilkingx2]

OP sounds like he reads way too many of those false rape claim articles posted on MRA subreddits. 9 times out of 10, if a girl is comfortable enough with you to get wasted, she wouldn't have a problem having sex with you (she's not 12, she knows what would happen)

worst case scenario you sober her up a little bit at your place before the bang, stall for like an hour before the sex, feed her some food, etc.

I hope for your sake that you didn't just mess up a sure thing because of paranoia

also OP, did you by chance check up on how the local laws of your area handle this situation?

 

[shesabranchswinger]

No she's still calling but to me at this age it's kind of a red flag or at the very least problems in the future so I'm nexting her. And I'm not paranoid about false rape charges but Throughout my life have known 2 guys personally that have had them brought up against them. And in the private sector I have worked with 3 guys that have had sexual harassment cases brought on them. In all those cases they were all found not guilty after and it's not a fun time getting caught up in the system or HR when you know your innocent. So if I have to next 1 chick and follow my gut feeling so be it.

But all but one of you diverted from the question how many drink is the magic number.

For me anything above 5 is asking for whiskey prick.
And for a woman I find 2 or 3 is a good number.

 

[shesabranchswinger]

You should have propositioned her to come back to your place after the second drink.

Second drink was in the middle of dinner she was still talking about her cat and the bachelor and how her boss is an assclown. At any rate by the time she was getting comfortable with me she was 3 or 4 drinks down and we had just finished dinner and I had only been sitting on her side of the booth for 10 or 15 mins.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Two drinks at the bar is much better than dinner in a lot of ways. If she says she is hungry, share a plate of nachos.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

She's a train wreck in the making, kinda sad I met 1 like this recently. 4 whisky & 4 beers in maybe 3-3.5hrs. She paid for her self. f*ck that. that's your tab! Nobody wants to f*ck a sloppy drunk that's possibly on the vurge of a blackout.

And in your case you work with her, I missed that part.

I think you are correct on the 2/3 range for a broad. If she wants more I will typically invite them back to mine. But I screen very carefully who I invite back to my place. But yeah in your scenario she sounds like a pump & dump if you didn't work with her.

Why are you messing with work chicks in the 1st place?

 

[shesabranchswinger]

She's a train wreck in the making, kinda sad I met 1 like this recently. 4 whisky & 4 beers in maybe 3-3.5hrs. She paid for her self. f*ck that. that's your tab! Nobody wants to f*ck a sloppy drunk that's possibly on the vurge of a blackout.

And in your case you work with her, I missed that part.

I think you are correct on the 2/3 range for a broad. If she wants more I will typically invite them back to mine. But I screen very carefully who I invite back to my place. But yeah in your scenario she sounds like a pump & dump if you didn't work with her.

Why are you messing with work chicks in the 1st place?

No I don't work with her thank god. In the old days I would have taken her to the hotel pumped and dumped and left her there so she could get he free continental breakfast. I have worked with 3 guys in the past that had harassment charges on them one was because of a chain email that he commented on. That's where you may have thought I worked with her.

Your correct about the train wreck let these other guys deal with it I've rolled the dice with then and got lucky enough in the past no more. And if that's how they act when you 1st meet them you can only imagine how they are when they really get comfortable with you. If anyone's ever dated an alcoholic you know what I'm talking about.

 

[Dingo]

"Drunken words are sober thoughts"

One drink too many and you get the real feelings...

It takes time to find that sweet spot of happy sexy vs. the not so fun stuff...

There is also a lesson for you Young Turks out there.... Don't f'ing drink to excess when you're out on the prowl. Always be in control.

 

[Reykhel]

Dinner for about an hour and drinks for about an hour talking totaling about 2 hours.

Personally, I wouldn't sit through a whole "dinner date" scenario with a girl that I don't know on only the "second date".......

If I was going through the girlfriend game/dating scenario......I'd prefer to keep it short and sweet especially at the beginning.

"Drunken words are sober

This is not necessarily true. Drinking to excess can impair your judgement, so you are liable to lose a sense of what is socially appropriate...........it doesn't mean you are suddenly revealing inner truths that have been hidden.

Haha control freak kill joy yeah ok buddy, you remember that next time you gamble taking home a sloppy drunk chick that you have only known for two hours. I see it as risk management and I'm not that hard up to bust a nut over a possible nightmare situation but to each his own I guess.

I hear you. I suppose it depends on the context and what you're both looking for. If you're having a chilled dinner and she's getting sloppy, she can quickly lose her appeal.

But all but one of you diverted from the question how many drink is the magic number.

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During the week either zero or two max.

Weekend........1 to 4 is good. I'd also note if she drinks water between wines. Agreed that five plus is going into getting drunk territory, which is all well and good if that's what you both want to do. i.e. you're on the same wavelength.......but not so good if the two of you are on different frequencies..........

You're probably right in thinking it's a red flag, (considering you're sexual strategy: girlfriend game) as she is displaying a lack of
social intelligence and awareness i.e. keeping at the same pace as you.

Note: The importance of a large glass of water between wines.