I dont get it. this girl always went out of her way to talk to me, flirted with me, asked me what my mother thought of her future daughter-in-law, said I was her favorite guy at work, joked around about us in a relationship, etc etc. I asked for her phone number, and she said "what?" then "no" in a surprised, caught off-guard kind of way. My question... what the hell happened?? she genuinely seemed interested in me. I've never felt this way about anyone before, and I'm really pissed about this. I feel almost betrayed.
She flirted heavily, but rejected me
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rgeere
Master Don Juan
Dude, you are taking things far too seriously ... Relax...
the funny thing is, she flirts with me just as much now as she did before I asked for her phone number. do you think maybe she said no to create some tension but really was interested? because if this girl wasn't interested, she wouldn't have done half the things she did. she only flirts like this with me, it's not like she does this with other guys.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Just because she wouldn't give you her phone number doesn't mean she has rejected you. Look at her actions, not her words.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Apparently you need to go read the DJ bible; if you had you would know know that you shouldn't take everything a woman says literally nor should you always take everything she does personally.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
That, and her signs say that she is otherwise interested. There could have been a host of reasons why she wouldn't give it to you, and not all of them are against you.
TheCarGuyA4
Don Juan
Man maybe she just doesn't like giving guys her number, try just asking her out instead of her number...and for futue reference, when someone is taking the time to give you advice...don't tell them to eat you.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
Dont say Ive never felt this way about anyone...thats B.S talk. Love is Conditional - Go read the Quick Tip.
AND now...
Try asking for her number again, if she says "no" again , ask her why not? Then let me know what she says...
AND now...
Try asking for her number again, if she says "no" again , ask her why not? Then let me know what she says...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
And that's exactly the problem, personalization and assuming that everything a person does is against you. He wouldn't have said 'eat me' otherwise.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Like I said, for any number of reasons that probably arn't against you. She could live with her parents and shy of boys calling, or she was PMSing and didn't want people to talk to her outside of work...
I am not saying these are the reasons, but they could be.
Blue Phoenix
Master Don Juan
Those girls are called ATTENTION WH0RES!
There's nothing left to say.
There's nothing left to say.
Blue Phoenix
Master Don Juan
Don't give your attention to her!
well lately I've been ignoring her. I mean, she'll say hi to me, and I will completely ignore her. I don't want to give my power away to her. cuz she will think "wow he's really upset over this"... but I dont wanna be with anyone else. cant stop thinkin about her.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Just ask her out dude. If she's at your work, u don't have to make it an official date at least for the first time. I find that lunches are great with people at work. Just say "Hey, Krissa, I'm heading over to Quizno's, why don't you come along" then if things go well you can suggest dinner or something more "date" like.
