She Doesn't Wanna Meet Up..hlp

[Chilz Swayze]

Ok I have been talking to this girl for some time now for three weeks now.I met her through a friend of mine,girl btw.I gamed her using the phone game,using ****y and funny,teasing,flirting and she responded well,busted.her balls and she liked it.she's one of those girls who gets it,we hit off quite right and I know she likes me even though we've never met in person.The problem is everytime I tell her to meet up,she makes excuses and I know sometimes she's lying cause the friend who introduced me to her called and told me that she likes the mystery and all that but she thinks she doesn't wanna meet up.Yesterday we exchangeed text saying:
Her:baby u've hated me a don't know why?..but I still like u and I've gat the h@t to say gudnyt.lol.
Me:I know you don't wanna meet up and I get dat *for wateva reason*..just stop making excuses for it.
Her:It's not dat i dont want I rily want 2.I've gat a very big reason that u wouldnt understand,just bare with Me pliz!!
Meon't bother
Till today..what do you i should I do about this situation..?

 

[TheJazz]

If you're starving, you eat. If she likes you, she'd meet up with you. She doesn't like you. Next.

 

[casaanova]

She's using you as an ego-booster. The PUA's call it being her "dancing monkey". You're 'gaming' her outside of real life, so she gets the rush & sexual tension of being picked up without actually having to give anything up (a kiss close, f-close etc.). She likes this setup and will try not to change it. This exact reason is why you should only use the phone to set up real-life meetups. If you and the friend who introduced you guys are close and you don't want to hurt your reputation, just put her on ice and work on different girls. If the girl who introduced you is just whatever, I would be bold and go for broke. When she texts you animated stuff like that, ignore it. You've given her enough ****y/funny. Text her "drinks at ____ bar. b there at 8.". If she makes up another excuse or doesn't set up another time, she has no interest in being anything more than friends. Treat her accordingly

 

[Chilz Swayze]

alright man..ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!!

 

[foomee]

Hopefully your next one knows how to type...

I could never date a girl DaT T@kZ lYk diz

 

[lamobatsman]

i would try one more time and say " drinks at this time. are you free on this day etc"

of she makes an excuse or doesnt counter-offer NEXT! she doesnt seem interested! 3 weeks you have been talking. i think that is more than enough time to be able to meet up.

Give it a few more days then text her wat iv said.

have you spoken to her on the phone?

 

[Greasy Pig]

Any girl who asks you to "bear with her" because of issues she's sorting out is almost certainly fvcking someone else and is trying to keep you as a fallback option.
Don't be that man. I have been, twice! And it sucks balls.
Don't waste any more time on this one.
And always judge a woman's actions, never her words.

 

[lamobatsman]

Any girl who asks you to "bear with her" because of issues she's sorting out is almost certainly fvcking someone else and is trying to keep you as a fallback option.
Don't be that man. I have been, twice! And it sucks balls.
Don't waste any more time on this one.
And always judge a woman's actions, never her words.

im learning a lot from greasy pig!!!
you never know what a girl really thinks of you.!!! only their girl mates know the truth!!

 

[Desdinova]

Any girl who asks you to "bear with her" because of issues she's sorting out is almost certainly fvcking someone else and is trying to keep you as a fallback option.

That's exactly what I was about to say.

My honest opinion about this girl, keep doing what you're doing, but don't make her a priority. Go after other women until she gets her bf issues resolved.

The reason why I don't suggest NEXTing girls who are involved is because many, many attractive women ARE taken, but they're with guys who just aren't that interesting. It takes almost no skill at all to grab their interest, but you need to have the patience to maintain it while they're in the process of getting rid of their AFC boyfriend.

Again, keep her on the line, but go after other women in the meantime.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Believe me from experience, girls who make you wait are NEVER worth the wait.

 

[Greasy Pig]

im learning a lot from greasy pig!!!

Lol, I'm no expert lamo but I've been up a few dry gullies in my time. I still have shytloads to learn but I can smell female bullsht a mile away!

 

[nismo-4]

Judge nismo knows this woman is using you as an ego booster. Nothing more. Your princess is in another castle. Go ghost now.

Case closed. Get out of my court.

 

[Night-hawk]

Go **** 5 other girls.

 

[yyc12]

The reason why I don't suggest NEXTing girls who are involved is because many, many attractive women ARE taken, but they're with guys who just aren't that interesting. It takes almost no skill at all to grab their interest, but you need to have the patience to maintain it while they're in the process of getting rid of their AFC boyfriend.

And that's exactly why you DON'T get women like that. What makes you think they won't do the same to you once she loses interest?? I'd NEVER be with a woman that leaves someone to be with me. Every time I've seen this situation play out, they ALWAYS does the exact same thing to the new guy.

 

[Chilz Swayze]

i would try one more time and say " drinks at this time. are you free on this day etc"

of she makes an excuse or doesnt counter-offer NEXT! she doesnt seem interested! 3 weeks you have been talking. i think that is more than enough time to be able to meet up.

Give it a few more days then text her wat iv said.

have you spoken to her on the phone?

Yeah I did,Made another lame excuse but I told her that I wanted her to meet my girlfriend and she got all hormonal on me.Chicks,hehe!

 

[Country Lady]

Hahahah Wow men wait for me show up out of the blue at my biz ranch and wherever. They hunt me down You are dead wrong. We want that drive. We want bounders and they we wish to tell you ours! The trill of the chase. Jezzz I am so glad I work with animals and see this right before my eyes. lol

 

[The Duke]

Chilz- you are simply food for her malnourished ego. If you eventually do score a date, it will only be becuase she was bored, needed a free meal, or her other prospect cut her loose. ;-)

 

[Chilz Swayze]

Gat your back Jack..*****es be Crazy!

 

[Desdinova]

And that's exactly why you DON'T get women like that. What makes you think they won't do the same to you once she loses interest?? I'd NEVER be with a woman that leaves someone to be with me. Every time I've seen this situation play out, they ALWAYS does the exact same thing to the new guy.

You're expecting women to dump you and then remain single for a while? Women thrive on their emotions. They hope their emotions lead them to the correct decision. If she feels it's right to be with a new guy who popped into her life, she's going to go for it. The reason she feels that way is because the new guy is getting her emotionally excited while her AFC bf is sitting on his ass, expecting her to be faithful just because they promised each other they'd never leave. She won't remember that 5hit when a new guy is making her feel awesome.

 

[yyc12]

You're expecting women to dump you and then remain single for a while? Women thrive on their emotions. They hope their emotions lead them to the correct decision. If she feels it's right to be with a new guy who popped into her life, she's going to go for it. The reason she feels that way is because the new guy is getting her emotionally excited while her AFC bf is sitting on his ass, expecting her to be faithful just because they promised each other they'd never leave. She won't remember that 5hit when a new guy is making her feel awesome.

If you really believe that, then what's the point of ever committing to one woman? oh wait.....