She doesn't show much interest

mikee

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A few weeks ago me and a friend went to a meeting with 2 girls, it was supposed to be one for each of us. the meeting itself wasn't bad but I barely spoke with the girl. However at the end when they left my friend asked her what she thought about me via text messaging and she said I was cute, so it was a decent beggining. After we spoke several times via msn, but we haven't said anything special. Yesterday we had another meeting, but they had to leave sooner and I and my friend got pissed off. In the end he talked with the girl I'm interested in via text messaging, and all she was worried about was if he was pissed with the other girl, even though he know both girls for way longer than I do and he pretty is close to dating her, she didn't mention me once which pissed me off even more.

I admit I haven't advanced much with her and I never told her I was interested, but she doesnt seem like she's much interested.
Like for example she never visits my hi5 page and she never join me on msn, I'm always the one who start our conversations.
Is it because I haven't expressed my interest ?
 

chubbycheeks720

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its not really that you didn't express your interest, its that you didn't do anything upon meeting her for the first time.

First impressions are the most important thing when meeting someone. If you don't make a solid first impression it could go down the drain.

She said you were cute but you said "we haven't said anything special." Then on the second meeting when they left early, she asked your friend if he was mad at her friend, your always starting the conversations. Sorry but she is not interested.

All of this is my assumption that you didn't make her laugh, or do anything to let her see your social value.
 

mikee

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Thanks a lot !
Am I too late to make an aproach now ?
If no, what should i do ?

btw john_JOHN sorry mate but what are you talking about I don't get it. XD
 
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