you said you met her on POF right? do you know how many girls profiles i've read on that site where the very last line says something to the effect of "I do not hookup, no booty calls, if you're looking for @$$ then move along i'm not the girl for you. i need a man that's going to respect me, treat me right blah blah blah." probably about 4 out of 5 profiles say something along those lines. i call BULLDOOKEY on it! if a woman is talking, shes lying. do you honestly think that this girl has gone through her ENTIRE life and NEVER kissed or had sex on a first date? if you do then i have some ocean front property on Nebraska i'd like to unload on you. i've been told that same line as you but i just laugh in her face like "whatever you say sweetheart". in my experience the girls who put out these lists of things they dont do on first dates are not usually worth my time in the long run. if kissing on the first date is a major deal to her then what do you think shes going to be like down the road?
She DOESN'T Kiss on the first date...
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sounds like an immature b1tch playin games.
"if kissing on the first date is a major deal to her then what do you think shes going to be like down the road?"
That's what i was thinking too and why I was wondering if it was worth the time. It was a shock to me cause I had such positive reaction after the date and the next day.
Now all of a sudden she's texting about how she'd be uncomfortable cause i just had to go and kiss her. Albeit her text has Lols everywhere to make it look like she's kind of joking. I replied back that I thought the last aggresive was hers and that I thought that rule had to be broken. To which she replies that Chemistry is both mental and physical for her and she'd only just met me.
I left it with a joke and now I'll go non contact with for a bit and busy myself with other plates.
I'm not gonna drop her but she definitely goes to the bottom of the plate drawer.
That's what i was thinking too and why I was wondering if it was worth the time. It was a shock to me cause I had such positive reaction after the date and the next day.
Now all of a sudden she's texting about how she'd be uncomfortable cause i just had to go and kiss her. Albeit her text has Lols everywhere to make it look like she's kind of joking. I replied back that I thought the last aggresive was hers and that I thought that rule had to be broken. To which she replies that Chemistry is both mental and physical for her and she'd only just met me.
I left it with a joke and now I'll go non contact with for a bit and busy myself with other plates.
I'm not gonna drop her but she definitely goes to the bottom of the plate drawer.
Personally, I think the girl digs you. It might be that her IL is higher than yours and having realized this, she might be laying some nice ASD so that she doesn't seem "that easy," especially if she's passionately kissing you back and telling you "you didn't respect my rule lol" and especially that "she'd only just met you."
In any case, you have a good course of action: to spin more plates. Let us know what happens with this one.
In any case, you have a good course of action: to spin more plates. Let us know what happens with this one.
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It wasn't that you broke one of her sacred rules. It was that you came from a place of weakness with the way you broke it. I had a feeling her remark about "this is how it's supposed to go" was more condescending and superiority than playful back-and-forth interaction. It's the way you did it that is making her uncomfortable, not that you did it.
The best thing to do here is move on. If she contacts you again LJBFs her. The next time you come across this just hit the girl with one of those lines vatoloco gave you. Or the "bj out the question then?" thing.
The best thing to do here is move on. If she contacts you again LJBFs her. The next time you come across this just hit the girl with one of those lines vatoloco gave you. Or the "bj out the question then?" thing.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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