she doesnt do Public affection

[derby1]

I smashed outside lulz. Girl is "religious." The lack of PDA isn't a deal breaker. It's that she has rules and she upholds to them vs getting lost in the moment when she's with you.

Getting your **** sucked in public is some next level. Smashing outdoors in the day time is another level altogether.

I'm not saying drop her. I'm saying get more girls. Rollo is spot on about burning genuine desire. Her religion, rules, and whatever else of a excuse is forgotten when desire is over 9000. Desire is animalistic. It's raw. It's flow state.

Let it play out but keep it moving. Go get more girls. Pull. Go hiking with a hot young thing. Get a throater on your hike. You'll forget the no PDA girl. It's not to say her trepidation isn't real. Maybe it is. this obstacle is there &&& it's her hangup. Higher interest level would by pass it IMHO. do you really want to grapple with this? Personally it would get played out real fast for me the sec I take my D out. Any lack of compliance means #next!

this is the thing her compliance and attraction is good, she does everything I ask her to. she drives me round, pays plenty etc is extremely jealous of other women on my SM etc.

 

[BuckledWheel]

she spent 150 pounds on me for my birthday last week, and travels to mine. I believe she fancies me in this scenario.

Sounds like she’s definitely afraid of someone seeing you both? If there is no other guy involved it seems strange. Could there be another dude involved or is she on the re-bound & doesn’t want to get too close? Observe her closely, have you been to her place? It’s not you bro. The chick has something going on. She could be living a double life. Enjoy it whilst it lasts.

 

[derby1]

Update: SHE HAS AN OFF/ON BOYFRIEND.

We were the other side of the country friday, so its not as if we would be spotted, however she still withdrew affection. Must be a sub conscious behaviour.

 

[HaleyBaron]

I have a current woman I'm dating, and she doesnt do public displays of affection. everything else about her is high interest.

You're kidding yourself. Any girl will do public display of affection if she likes the guy. I constantly show disinterest whenever Im in public and the girls tries to do things like hold my hand or lean against me. She wants me to show affection but I don't like it.

Aaaand the truth comes out. As expected.

 

[BuckledWheel]

Update: SHE HAS AN OFF/ON BOYFRIEND.

We were the other side of the country friday, so its not as if we would be spotted, however she still withdrew affection. Must be a sub conscious behaviour.

I wasn’t far off. She’s still committed to him bro & possibly trying to move on but somethings pulling her back. He might be holding something over her. Have a chat with her about him, when the time is right. She’s finding it difficult making the break.

 

[derby1]

I wasn’t far off. She’s still committed to him bro & possibly trying to move on but somethings pulling her back. He might be holding something over her. Have a chat with her about him, when the time is right. She’s finding it difficult making the break.

kind of had a chat, they have a young daughter together, reckons shes scared of breaking the home up for the child. also reckons she worries about falling for me (which her other behaviour seems she is doing)

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I don't do public affection either, it's stupid and annoying. Nobody gives a fvck and you just get in the way.

 

[derby1]

I don't do public affection either, it's stupid and annoying. Nobody gives a fvck and you just get in the way.

I do, very mild but I like to look/feel like were a couple, the early days of dating should be fun. not hostile or mood killing.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Listen man, things like this will ultimately end up frustrating you. I have a very low tolerance for things, it’s either my way or the highway and trying to change her will never work. If this bothers you already, you’re better off ejecting.

kind of had a chat, they have a young daughter together, reckons shes scared of breaking the home up for the child. also reckons she worries about falling for me (which her other behaviour seems she is doing)

Haha, these women will say whatever bull**** to keep you hooked. Actions, not words.

 

[Redwood]

I would recommend focusing on something or somebody else OP. I don't believe this is going to work out.

 

[derby1]

I would recommend focusing on something or somebody else OP. I don't believe this is going to work out.

Or me

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

this is the thing her compliance and attraction is good, she does everything I ask her to. she drives me round, pays plenty etc is extremely jealous of other women on my SM etc.

Would crank up dread. get more girls.

Case &&& point. A girl setup a date. I ended it early. Walked her back to her car mid day. Took my d out and told her what to do. She started choking up on it. People seeing or the possibility of getting arrested or caught and any embarrassment was an afterthought. It wasn't until after swallowing she said it would be so embarrassing if somebody caught her.

^^^ that's the level of desire is high. PDA or her manufactured rules isn't up for debate. She just complies. No need of manufacturing dread either in this scenario due to high interest level.

The other girl gave a throater on a hike just off the trail &&& we smashed. Religion and whatever other excuse is by passed on interest level &&& desire.

You know where she stands. The same for a girl not putting out, swallowing or giving up the butt. I don't want it but it is the compliance with no end I want.

Let it ride playboy but keep getting girls. You know what she is and where she's at. Another girl will be open season. I run game in such a way, the rest of the world melts away and is gone. It's just me and her. I fully disassociate from everything. It's why I could take my D out and smash in public &&& not think twice.

She could be more conservative. Genuinely religious or whatever. If she's fully immersed in desire for you it overrides her programming &&& rules. frame it as it being hot. instruct her what to do.