She cheated on him with me what's next?

[OsirisII]

Hey.
So a have a this kind of situation: She cheated on her boyfriend with me.

A little back story: We know each other for 4 or 5 months but I had a GF and she has a BF so we was not interested in each other. A 2 weeks ago i broke with my GF and she called me to talk about her situation. She is saying that their relationship is not going well like he is shouting at her, mad at her, and all day long they just are more enemies than friends, but still live together. I tried to tell her that he does not deserve her, and think about their relationship. Relationship between them is about a year long and they already broke once but now they are living together. So she came to my place and confessed all the things witch are not good for her in relationship. She did it 3 or 4 times ofc her boyfriend does not have idea about this. Last Sunday she came to my place at midnight and things happened. After that Monday and Tuesday. We are working in one shift with her boyfriend so we meet just in work and we must act like nothing happened because of mutual friends. Her boyfriend has another workplace than us.
I really like her and time spent with her and she also like it. Cuddling and spooning was done in last meeting.
So what I have to do now?
She probably will not leave her boyfriend after so little time but I need advice how to earn that in not long time.
We are in contact trough phone messengers and ofc in work.

 

[badboyjmm]

Well bro, don't catch feelings.

You are dealing with a cheater and guess what ? Since she did not have the decency to end it with her boyfriend before getting involved with you, want make you think that she won't pull the same thing with you ?

So enjoy the little fling, don't mention anything about the boyfriend. If she mention that she broke up with him and wants to be your girlfriend, tell her you are not ready... Better yet, tell her that you want to keep things casual not to complicate this.

If you end up in a relationship with her... Well good luck cause you will be cheated on and that you will be wondering how did that happen.

Hope it helps

 

[Poon King]

Spin plates.

Stop focusing on ONE dumb b!tch.

 

[BusterDouglas]

Spin plates.

Stop focusing on ONE dumb b!tch.

The only plates you spin Poof Queen is when you are drying your dishes. :crackup:

 

[KimboSlice]

Spin plates.

Stop focusing on ONE dumb b!tch.

The only thing Poofter Queen spins on is is anal plug on his new cvm-puter chair.

 

[OsirisII]

Thank You badboyjmm for Your advice. I think she is into me(bodylanguage) and when we was together she mentioned her BF a lot because she complained.
I don't think she is that kind of woman witch is constantly cheating, her BF cheated on her and she stood with him.

 

[marmel75]

Wait a minute..."cuddling and spooning happened"?? So you didn't bang her?

 

[RecoveringNiceGuy]

Don't ever be a woman's therapist, especially if the problems are with her boyfriend and the boyfriend isn't you. You should say something like "Hey that sounds like a tough situation, but I'd only make things worse since I think you're incredibly sex and I'm a bit of a trouble maker. If it doesn't work out between you two give a call and we'll go have some fun". Give her some sympathy, but lets her know you're not interested in just friendship.

Regardless, if she's talking to a guy she's known for 4-5 months about her problems instead of her close friends or family, and she's a cheater, she has some serious issues. Stay far away from her.

 

[salinechow]

I think you know whats next.

Liars lie. Cheaters cheat. Lions dont eat vegetables my friend, they eat meat. -Saline

I just made that sh!t up. Im gonna copyright it. I think I just learned something from my own advice.

 

[badboyjmm]

Thank You badboyjmm for Your advice. I think she is into me(bodylanguage) and when we was together she mentioned her BF a lot because she complained.
I don't think she is that kind of woman witch is constantly cheating, her BF cheated on her and she stood with him.

It doesn't matter what the bf did, understand that you are with cheater and when the situation is brought up, don't give it more attention than it's suppose to get and focus on having fun (sex with her)

But please don't try to be in a relationship and if you know that you will be tempted, then you better run away.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Hey.
So a have a this kind of situation: She cheated on her boyfriend with me.

A little back story: We know each other for 4 or 5 months but I had a GF and she has a BF so we was not interested in each other. A 2 weeks ago i broke with my GF and she called me to talk about her situation. She is saying that their relationship is not going well like he is shouting at her, mad at her, and all day long they just are more enemies than friends, but still live together. I tried to tell her that he does not deserve her, and think about their relationship. Relationship between them is about a year long and they already broke once but now they are living together. So she came to my place and confessed all the things witch are not good for her in relationship. She did it 3 or 4 times ofc her boyfriend does not have idea about this. Last Sunday she came to my place at midnight and things happened. After that Monday and Tuesday. We are working in one shift with her boyfriend so we meet just in work and we must act like nothing happened because of mutual friends. Her boyfriend has another workplace than us.
I really like her and time spent with her and she also like it. Cuddling and spooning was done in last meeting.
So what I have to do now?
She probably will not leave her boyfriend after so little time but I need advice how to earn that in not long time.
We are in contact trough phone messengers and ofc in work.

Dear Lord. OP:
1.You are her emotional tampon. Her gay friend.
2.Once a cheater always a cheater.
3.Somehow the soon to be ex is/are always abuser/abusive.Every fvcking single time. I wonder why.


OP they(all women) need an excuse to cheat.To rationalize the cheating.You know ;the hamster.They also need a white knight to protect them.In this case YOU. Suppress your inner white knight,boy.

 

[cola]

Thank You badboyjmm for Your advice. I think she is into me(bodylanguage) and when we was together she mentioned her BF a lot because she complained.
I don't think she is that kind of woman witch is constantly cheating, her BF cheated on her and she stood with him.

Naieve . Dude, if you saw a guy shoot his friend in the back because he wasn't a good friend anymore, would you want to be his friend?

You were wrong for touching her, there are guys who will shoot you for having sex with their girl.

 

[raider87]

Actually there was a Japanese guy that cut a mans penis off recently for sleeping with his wife. Some guys will start you for even looking at their girl. Crazy, stupid mofos.