Ok so last night she called me up and we cleared things up and had a nice convo. Like 10 mins later we were both online and i imd her. We talked a couple mins, and i realized she was blocking me.
I have 2 screennames on all the time, so i saw that she was still showing on my other screenname, and i imd her with the other one and was like wtf? What the hell did u block me for? I told her if ur not interested just flat out tell me that, dont block me thats retarted.
So she says, "u and the other guy are iming me at the same time! i cant take it right now. I blocked both of you! I'm so confused, between work,this, and life i genreal im so stressed right now. im sorry i just need space."
So im like ok watever, u coudla just said that rather than blockin me. Shes like stop it! why r u freakin out. So im like "how am im freakin out? u the one who just blocked 2 guys for iming u. Im totally calm ur the one freakin here. So then i said fine whaver u want, and she said im sorry just gimem some space. have a goodnight.
Ok now i know i been handling the whole thing wrong and continue too, but whats done is done. What im tryin to figure out is why she didnt take the out that i gave her, i made it easy for her. I told her if she rather be with the other guy, or if shes just not interested to just tell and not to worry bout hurting my feeelings cuz its cool. But she didnt bite, she said "i just need time to think"
Ok aside form my pathetic groveling AFC behavior, what do u guys make of her behavior? I know girls will go to far lenghts not to hurt a guys feelings, even lead him on soemtimes. But this seems a bit extreme, i dont think she'd let me go on and on so much if she didnt actually like me. I assume she lieks him more than me. I'm the backup plan right? I also assume this guy isnt as into her as she would like, and shes probably just hoping something happens, but she doesnt wanna lose me in case he drops her. Shes never even been on a date with this guy she just works with himmshe said, so it sounds like a crush.
And yes i know i should have other options and say the hell with this girl cuz shes playing games. bla bla bla. but i think shes worth it. What is ur assesment of this? Is she either
a. avoiding hurting my feelings
b. trying to keep me as a backup
c. telling the truth and she likes us both equally and cant decide
d. testing me
e. a female commitment phobe who doenst like to get serious with guys.