Just put her in the back of your harem. Tell her to call you when she is busy, and you just go on your way macking. Actually, the fact that she has had sex with you makes it encouraging that there is still a high level of interest.Lateralus said:
Don't chase. If anything, you NOT chasing could trip her up.Lateralus said:
Dont' do this guys. When they go dead air like this, give it a month and do what I call zombie game. Just sent out a mass texts to all the girls like this to put the feelers out. Deleting all their contact details is premature.Lateralus said:
My advice in action! No contact is being non-reactive, which drives them up the wall from the lack of validation/attention. The next step here is to do low investment texting when she re-initiated contact. She'll get the point that your interest dropped because she fvcked up. It's qualification through subtext.Lateralus said:
Nice! All you have to do now is reply back with "hey, what's up. Been super busy today" or somethign thereabouts. Tell her you want to hit happy hour and can meet her x night and go from there. (replace happy hour with whatever low-investment date you wish to have)Lateralus said:Thanks for the advice. I'll go for the 3/4 rule, I'm definitely not giving any response tonight. If she needs attention tonight, she shouldn't have cancelled the appointment.
I won't give in!
Jusr received a third text: 'does it really take so long to think about this?'
Nr 4: 'Ok, you got me! You don't have to respond, I just wanted to let you know that I didn't mean it in a negative way. The date just didn't fit in today, because I wanted to take it easy after the exams. Good night.'
Women offer sex to alphas who they don't expect relationships from. On the other hand, they withhold sex from betas whom they want to have relationships with. It makes sense in the perspective that women respond to 5 minutes of alpha as a month of being with a beta. They give it up to alphas because they need to get when the getting is good, because they instinctually know he could be gone, off to better women than herself. They're no time to fuss around. With betas this isn't the case. It sounds to me that the OP tripped the alpha sex guy, but moved into beta provider boyfriend mode and turned her off. A lot of guys new to the community do this if they haven't completed the full self-improvement process. By going low-investment and cutting off contact temporarily it reframes you again as the alpha sex guy and gets them chasing again.Lateralus said:Thx, I will follow your advice, guys
Anyway, another interesting thing to add, because many of us enjoy analysing things:
At our first date, approx two weeks after we met, we talked a lot. And we got to a point that she told me she is not into one-night stands, that she had one in her life but it was horrible. She also mentioned it was almost 1 year ago she had sex.
But at the same night, it was on... at her place. At the second date, it was on also as I banged her in my appartment.
Isn't that a good example of words versus actions?
Actually it was bothering me, 'cause her actions show that the chance is very high she's telling me pure bull****.
On the other hand, after the second sexual encounter she said something like: 'Oh... it's been so long that I forgot how nice it is to lay in bed next to someone...' This remark I thought of as a positive thing.
Anyhow, it shows how much some women, impulsively, rely on their feelings and not on rational thoughts.
The main thing you need to realize....you had 2 dates with her. That's nothing.Lateralus said:
