She Called Me Brother During Phone Conversation

[Powerlifter]

Well, Rollo was right as his wisdom and knowledge is perfect on here. As I ****ed her hard she cried out crying yes yes daddy **** me hard. Does this mean she thinks I am her daddy now? Just playing lol!

Powerlifter

 

[HalfAddict]

Better give her a good spanking I'd wager.

 

[Rubirosa]

I interpret it as this;
She's a devout Christian and she thinks you are too, so you're her "Christian Brother"....... or..........
You're both Black and it was a sign of solidarity...........

 

[Powerlifter]

Powelifter

 

[Powerlifter]

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[Powerlifter]

What the hell. So I give this woman of whom I did not know was married a sexual comment concerning her picture and this is what she writes back to me on Facebook. This lady is my Mom's PT how would you respond with what she wrote back to me. I just told her I understood and no more worries and then unfriended her. I swear my penis never got back to hard after her response. Personally I am thinking about cancelling my Mom's PT after this, I do have that option.

Powerlifter

Althought I appreciate the fact that u find me as an attractive lady, I am a Christian woman with a husband and daughter. I am o k. with u commenting on a pic etc. But please do not put any thing that u would not say to your sister or mother on there. I wll blame it on the wine. lol But I am not allowed to have any kind of "relationship" with a patient or family member, i could loose my license. So as a professional I am asking that all of your comments be put "at bay" please. thank you I appreciate your understanding.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I think she's being perfectly reasonable. She even tried to inject a little humor to diffuse hard feelings (wine).

Sounds like you might have been hitting on someone who is a little too close to home (your mom's PT).

If her picture was overtly sexual I would definitely tell her that she should expect comments like that and perhaps she should change it, but barring that, I would just let it go. You know me... I'll call a woman out on her sh!t at the drop of a hat, but I just don't see anything wrong with what she said.

 

[st_99]

woman with a husband and daughter.

whats left to talk about or analyze??

 

[Powerlifter]

Double post

 

[Powerlifter]

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[Powerlifter]

I definitely agree.

Powerlifter

whats left to talk about or analyze??

 

[Powerlifter]

I agree Atom Smasher with you. Her telling me she was married that totally threw me but knew she had a daughter. She never gave any indications that she had a husband until my compliment on her picture.

Powerlifter

I think she's being perfectly reasonable. She even tried to inject a little humor to diffuse hard feelings (wine).

Sounds like you might have been hitting on someone who is a little too close to home (your mom's PT).

If her picture was overtly sexual I would definitely tell her that she should expect comments like that and perhaps she should change it, but barring that, I would just let it go. You know me... I'll call a woman out on her sh!t at the drop of a hat, but I just don't see anything wrong with what she said.

 

[Viagra4Soul]

a sexual comment concerning her picture

Hey Powerlifter - this is Dating 101 my friend - everyone from D'Angelo downwards talks to this one.

NEVER bring up sex yourself in this kind of context - you should be telling her the picture makes her look like her Grandma! When she responds (although I doubt this one ever would have done so), "well if you don't like that one, I have far better shots!", you respond "I don't believe you". And you wait for the pics to arrive and escalate from there. If you don't want to play ****y/funny for whatever reason, cool, but just don't make sexual comments to near-strangers - it just comes off creepy.

Mature women are the ones to bring up sex by email/SMS, when their emotionally hooked and want to discuss it. Starting the talk yourself is a slippery slope to either offending her (as here), rushing her, or at worst emotionally cornering her -and when women feel cornered, they usually head straight for the door.

Sex should be mentioned LAST, and not by you. If you want to have those type of conversations with strangers, get on F@ckbook, IMO.

 

[Powerlifter]

Viagra4Soul, I agree bro. Shame on my AFC side for breaking the golden rule here. I was only figuring since she was 40 with a daughter it wouldn't matter. But then she tells me she is married. I have sense told her all the best with her husband and daughter though.

Powerlifter

Hey Powerlifter - this is Dating 101 my friend - everyone from D'Angelo downwards talks to this one.

NEVER bring up sex yourself in this kind of context - you should be telling her the picture makes her look like her Grandma! When she responds (although I doubt this one ever would have done so), "well if you don't like that one, I have far better shots!", you respond "I don't believe you". And you wait for the pics to arrive and escalate from there. If you don't want to play ****y/funny for whatever reason, cool, but just don't make sexual comments to near-strangers - it just comes off creepy.

Mature women are the ones to bring up sex by email/SMS, when their emotionally hooked and want to discuss it. Starting the talk yourself is a slippery slope to either offending her (as here), rushing her, or at worst emotionally cornering her -and when women feel cornered, they usually head straight for the door.

Sex should be mentioned LAST, and not by you. If you want to have those type of conversations with strangers, get on F@ckbook, IMO.

 

[f283000]

For me calling them "sister" has been a foolproof way of sort of "putting them in the friendzone" for me. I'm not a woman i don't need the attention of the opposite sex to boost my ego. I am not in the business of leading women on that I don't intend on _____ I rather not hurt anybody's feelings and just make myself not available. I rather give them the "sister card" and let it hit their brains subconsciously or whatever that I have no interest in them as a lover.

I call women sisters that I don't like (specially any fatties or ugos that I may have to deal with at work) just to make sure they don't ever flirt with me and don't get that idea in their head. It's sort of a mosquito repellant.

That's what I do personally. I have no way of knowing if she called you brother because she was trying to put you in the friend zone. But i'll just say this. If she had any sexual interest in you whatsoever she would NOT be calling you a brother.

I'm guessing it was her inner feeling for you that got out rather than she doing it on purpose to push you away (as I have done). So basically she feels for you as a brother/friend which is worse than she calling you brother on purpose to push you away as a friendzone tactic women use.

 

[Powerlifter]

Thanks f283000, makes sense for sure. I am the same, I never want to hurt a womans if she has the hots for me. I will have to remember using sister the next time I come across one.

Powerlifter

For me calling them "sister" has been a foolproof way of sort of "putting them in the friendzone" for me. I'm not a woman i don't need the attention of the opposite sex to boost my ego. I am not in the business of leading women on that I don't intend on _____ I rather not hurt anybody's feelings and just make myself not available. I rather give them the "sister card" and let it hit their brains subconsciously or whatever that I have no interest in them as a lover.

I call women sisters that I don't like (specially any fatties or ugos that I may have to deal with at work) just to make sure they don't ever flirt with me and don't get that idea in their head. It's sort of a mosquito repellant.

That's what I do personally. I have no way of knowing if she called you brother because she was trying to put you in the friend zone. But i'll just say this. If she had any sexual interest in you whatsoever she would NOT be calling you a brother.

I'm guessing it was her inner feeling for you that got out rather than she doing it on purpose to push you away (as I have done). So basically she feels for you as a brother/friend which is worse than she calling you brother on purpose to push you away as a friendzone tactic women use.