She Blew Out the Pull, what happened?

[nicksaiz65]

I mean, they don't hurt, but if you value your time, I'd say they're a bit of a waste, yeah, especially if you're spending a pretty penny going out this often.

The only times I can recall going out during the week were during college syllabus week, and on vacation each year in Ocean City - because I'm literally on vacation and don't have work. However, I usually have to wait until Thursday onward to see any level of quality when it comes to the women.

I've slept on it, and I think I'll keep doing them because
A.) Solo sessions are awesome, and I'll do them during the week and weekend.
B.) Was going through some of my old FRs, and I forgot that some of those were during the week. I have a few from Monday & Tuesday. Of course, I screwed up the close at the time tho.
C.) Work sucks! Going out is the high point of my day.

In regards to cost: The most expensive part of going out a ton is actually the parking. Even just $10 a day, every single day, will really add up.

I've gotten around this by using the cheap library parking though.

 

[SW15]

For those who don't know, I am African American myself.

I've actually found the opposite situation. It seems that white women are the most receptive to me and black women will typically reject me.

In the most general terms, you have had the opposite of most men's experiences.

The typical male has the greatest success attracting women within their own race/ethnicity.

I've found in nightlife venues, approaching the big groups to be difficult. Still working on it.

Big groups are often difficult. Mystery Method was geared towards bigger groups but Roosh found that groups of 2-3 were his sweet spot.

I tend to think smaller groups of 2-3 are better than the larger groups in nightlife venues.

In non-bar approaching, there are so many situations where a man can approach an already isolated woman.

I cannot remember the last time I had a one-night-stand or a same-day-lay during the week. Weekends are when people don't have to worry about getting up the next morning for work, just got their paycheck and can have a little fun, etc.

It's more difficult to get same night sex off of a bar approach during the week, but it can happen.

Non-bar approaching rarely ever results in same day sex. It is usually setting up drinks dates at bars for future nights.

 

[BPH]

I've slept on it, and I think I'll keep doing them because
A.) Solo sessions are awesome, and I'll do them during the week and weekend.
B.) Was going through some of my old FRs, and I forgot that some of those were during the week. I have a few from Monday & Tuesday. Of course, I screwed up the close at the time tho.
C.) Work sucks! Going out is the high point of my day.

In regards to cost: The most expensive part of going out a ton is actually the parking. Even just $10 a day, every single day, will really add up.

I've gotten around this by using the cheap library parking though.

Fair enough.

Where I'm from, the spots to go out are barely good enough to justify the time and money on the weekends, let alone during the week.

If I lived somewhere like Miami or Phoenix, I'd probably be out much more often. But here it's still somewhat cold, and there really isn't anywhere nearby where hot women are common.

 

[SW15]

If I lived somewhere like Miami or Phoenix, I'd probably be out much more often. But here it's still somewhat cold, and there really isn't anywhere nearby where hot women are common.

Phoenix has its share of attractive women. However, Phoenix nights are not warm in the winter. While daytime highs in the winter months are pleasant, jackets are needed for going out at night when it will be in the 30s/40s Fahrenheit.

There's still a big drop off between daytime highs and nighttime lows in Phoenix, though it is not as big as it used to be when there was a lower population and less development in the area.

 

[New_Journey]

This was a black woman.. historically me and black women haven’t gotten along too well. Not sure if that’s relevant but, black women and I have historically never gotten along.

Yeah, cause they throw the biggest $hit test and you always fail.

We invited them back to an afterparty.

For how long did you guys build rapport? You don't know those girls and you invited them to after party?

but the girl I was talking to refused to even hold my hand.

You tried to hold the hand of a girl whom you don't know, haven't even kissed and have the mindset of " black chicks and I don't get along" wtf is wrong with you?

She was yapping my ear off, but she wouldn’t reciprocate my flirting at all. Then we reached the car and she threw a million objections.

Her to my Roommate:
“You’re driving? Aren’t you drunk? What’s 7 * 4?”
“That took way too long to answer!”
“I thought it was 5 mins up the street! We have to go in the car?”
“Why are we in a parking garage?”

She then blew out the set and dragged along the friend.

$hit test. You didn't know how to seduce her, and she's c0ck blocking your friends because you svck at seduction and she's disgusted by you.

My friend was like: “Damn!! What happened?”

Tell your friend that everything that happened was your fault for not being a seducer. If I were your friend, I would never invite you out again, and will tell you " when you know how seduce women, let me know, because obviously you're dragging me down, good luck"

 

[SW15]

For how long did you guys build rapport? You don't know those girls and you invited them to after party?

That's a good question. On a street approach late at night, I would guess that the party invite happened within 10 minutes.

I've never done night time street approaching in a bar district.

In daylight, my daygame approaches are usually at best 5-10 minute conversations with a invitations to meet at a bar for drinks in the near future.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Yeah, cause they throw the biggest $hit test and you always fail.


For how long did you guys build rapport? You don't know those girls and you invited them to after party?


You tried to hold the hand of a girl whom you don't know, haven't even kissed and have the mindset of " black chicks and I don't get along" wtf is wrong with you?


$hit test. You didn't know how to seduce her, and she's c0ck blocking your friends because you svck at seduction and she's disgusted by you.


Tell your friend that everything that happened was your fault for not being a seducer. If I were your friend, I would never invite you out again, and will tell you " when you know how seduce women, let me know, because obviously you're dragging me down, good luck"

This has worked just fine in the past. We’ve gotten girls from the street, to the car, to our apartment. However, with this specific girl, she gave a ridiculous amount of pushback. Nothing that can be done on that: she’s not attracted to me.

Everyone has archetypes. When I look at the data from nights out, I seem to just get a better response from white women. It is what it is.

I think there is something to be said for passing $hit tests, but for this particular girl, not much that can be done.

 

[nicksaiz65]

That's a good question. On a street approach late at night, I would guess that the party invite happened within 10 minutes.

I've never done night time street approaching in a bar district.

In daylight, my daygame approaches are usually at best 5-10 minute conversations with a invitations to meet at a bar for drinks in the near future.

Yep, you’re right. About a 5-10 minute conversation.