She asked me to hang out. What do I do?

[duke104]

A girl I've been talking to recently has been giving me pretty low interest levels. I asked her to hang out last week and she gave me some BS excuse so I just said ok well let me know whenever is good for you. I've been ignoring her texts the past couple days and she just texted me saying she's free tomorrow night. It would probably be a good idea to say no cause she usually gives me some excuse when I ask her to hang out. But then again she's tough to get out so who knows when I'll get another chance like this. What do I do?

 

[f283000]

Go out with her! You'll regret it if you don't you'll always wonder what would have happened/what it could have led to.

Just go out and have some fun.

 

[MusicMan450]

Simple. Hang out, but take control of the situation. Go where you want to go. She should be happy to hang out with you. Through being dominant and confident in her presence, you'll be able to gauge her interest, which, if you do it right, should go skyrocketing.

Remember, BE THE PRIZE, and don't slip into oneitis with this girl. If she shows low interest after tomorrow night, I'd next her, move on, and show her that her low interest really doesn't effect you, as it shouldn't.

*edit* And, like f283000 said, just have fun. I realize what I said sounds really serious, but as long as you're having fun, it'll happen by itself. Good luck, brah!

 

[Chickfight]

Say no, this is obviously an AW. Show her you're not to be taken for granted and hold off a bit longer. Say "Can't tomorrow, but maybe some other time." and let her contact you again.

 

[Tiguere]

Say no, this is obviously an AW. Show her you're not to be taken for granted and hold off a bit longer. Say "Can't tomorrow, but maybe some other time." and let her contact you again.

Easy with the ego there buddy.