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she approaches you w/ interest, skip A2 & go straight to A3?

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what if a girl is bold enough to approach you and she's obviously interested and already showing interest? (this is rare and happens once in a blue moon) am i now supposed to go immediately to A3 and skip A1 and A2?
 

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whats A1, A2, or A3.

seems to happen to me all the time. Girl shows a lot of interest and I have the power.

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If she shows any interest at all then just skip to A-whatever and **** her right there.

but seriously, I'm not really sure what you're talking about.
 

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I'd tease her a bit and have fun but yeah - if she is willing to do the work for you, why not. She is approaching you based on looks - give her a reason to like you for more than that.... so run some A2 stuff on her but not as much as you normally would.
 

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for those of you "out of the know" he's talking about the different phases in Mystery's online apprenticeship program.

I'd say skip and go right to A3, myself, but dabble a bit in the first 2.. you can't just get right to the point with a complete stranger, even if she is really interested immediately.
 

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What are A1,A2 and A3 can any body tell me clearly
 

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A1, A2 and A3 are the phases in the first step of Mystery's M3-model.

The A-step is "Attract".

A1 - Open

A2 - Female-to-male-interest
(DHV, displaying active disinterest etc..)

A3 - Male-to-female-interest
(Reward her with IOI's for her efforts.)

After going through these phases, you can move on to the next step, which is "comfort". Here you will make a connection and build comfort with the girl, before moving into the last step which is "Seduce"
 

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If she approaches and is interested right off the bat, it seems a little counterintuitive to go straight to rewarding her for her IOIs - isn't that what an AFC who was approached would do? I'd do a little A2 then hit A3, like The Bad Ass Canadian said. But maybe I'm not understanding.

I mean, if she's rubbing your crotch or something, you should probably give her what she wants. Otherwise, wait a bit.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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IOI, what's the exact meaning of it.

I saw it before and it's probably something like interest indicators. But what do the letters IOI mean?
 

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Originally posted by Holland
IOI, what's the exact meaning of it.

I saw it before and it's probably something like interest indicators. But what do the letters IOI mean?
You've got iy right..

IOI = Indicator Of Interest
 

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I dunno man. I don't really have a prefference for paper size.
 

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Originally posted by john_1234
what if a girl is bold enough to approach you and she's obviously interested and already showing interest? (this is rare and happens once in a blue moon) am i now supposed to go immediately to A3 and skip A1 and A2?
Are you playing a game of "Battleship" with her? :D
 
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