Share your personal flirtatious / kino moves

Miroku

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In an effort to make this more applicable (i.e., not theory) contribute something to my little list and let's see if we come across any bright ideas here. Keep your signature moves secret though ;). Stupid fun ones are more than welcome too, which are my specialty. A lot of this I probably got off someone or somewhere which I can't remember, so don't think I'm trying to pass any off as my own; I just use these personally. Most of these rely on intrigue and subtlety, so by all means, if you have the complete opposite...

Setting: Street / Hallway
Conditions: Crossing eachother's path from a distance (e.g., guy coming from west, girl from east).
Action: While looking away (diagonally up or down), start grinning slightly. Then stop, but allow your smirk to "leak" through once or twice while "trying" to control it. Only make direct eye contact when she's within talking distance.
Intended Result: If you got her attention you'll get EC at least. If you did it well you'll get a hi, unless you're ugly (j/k... or am I), to which you can do what you want from there.

Setting: Street / Hallway
Conditions: Crossing eachother's path from a distance (e.g., guy coming from west, girl from east). Within conversatinal range.
Action: Establish EC, hold for 2 seconds, then quickly look down her body then back up at her eyes in a fluid sweeping motion.
Intended Result: Show of interest while evaluating her. Gives you time to stop and speak with her if you want too before you pass her.

Setting: Classroom group circle
Conditions: preferably sitting across from target, never side to side
Action: Establish EC. Pause 1 second. Let a smile/smirk grow on your face naturally (not immediately). Break EC and repeat.
Intended Result: Girl blushes, returns smile, or looks confused.

Setting: Conversation (DeAngelo Stuff)
Conditions: N/A
Action: Say she has something in her hair, or that her hair is looks soft. Reach out and caress it, and play with the tip a little, while looking at it for a moment (not at her eyes). Establish EC again as you slowly stop playing with the strand.
Intended Result: Increased curiosity of whether or not you want girl. Perhaps stopping the topic at the moment too.

Setting: Walking side by side
Conditions: She tests or playfully insults you.
Action: Playfully shove her away with your forearm or bicep. Do not get aggressive obviously.
Intended Result: Easy way of establishing trend of kino. Be wary though, since not every girl is receptive to such tom-foolery.

Setting: You sitting, her standing
Conditions: You can easily spank her, and she did something earlier that you can feign being upset over. Girl has some obvious attraction and you've established good rapport and trend of kino.
Action: Do it, but make it more of a push than a slap. When she gives you the "wtf" look, say "that's what you get for <whatever> on <whatever day>!"
Intended Result: I don't know. I'm surprised I got away with it.

Setting: Exchanging names
Conditions: Reaching out hands
Action: Position your hand palm side up, not sideways. As you take her hand in hopefully the intended manner, repeat her name and say it's pretty/sexy/weird/interesting/whatever.
Intended Result: Not the usual handshake. Might notice girls you find you interested give their hands in such a way that you could kiss them once you take it in yours. Starts you off on a better foot too.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Does flirting need to be so complicated?
 

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just go with the flow, i blow my chance with this hb8 last week because of thinking about these kinda rules and regulations.
 

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I think these are fun things to do if you have enough skills and looking for some exciting things to do.

Here's one of mine:

This is for girls that have a crush on you but is very shy. During some short convo try saying some dumb things or some dumb jokes.

Like spontaneously blurt out "I'm HUNGRY" in a funny tone. Sorry I can't think of anymore example. Or just INTENTIONALLY makes some dumb jokes.

The result is her giggling like a little schoolgirl if she's really into you.

Sometime you would make some comment that isn't normally funny to other people. But they'll giggle if they like you.

This could also be use as a TEST.
 

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Setting: Shes on her way out the door
Conditions: Shes leaving
Actions: Slap that azz while shes walking away
Intended Result: Its just playful teasing that shows confidence and interest
 

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HAHA!!! *****slap baby.. it's really effective.
 

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hey I wanted to bring slapping up:D

setting:preferably when nobody watches so the girl feels comfty
conditions:she returns your C+F, or hits you softly
actions:*BAAAAATZ*(don't hit too soft)
intended results: though her comeback was nice, you show her who is her daddy. also gets her more horny if she is interessted. if not, she will get offended and you can easily next her (red) azz
 

Kourt

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Setting: anywhere
Conditions: she has marker or pen on her hands, or notes written on her hand
Action: grab her hand and be like "so, you like to write on your hands a lot?
Result: easy kino
 

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What are creative flirting tips with girls you already know?
 

So Many Ways

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Here's some stuff I've done.

Kiss the hand on intro. I've probably done this hundreds of times.

Give the girl a turn after introducing her. It goes like this. Introduce yourself, kiss the hand, then spin her around.

Impromptu game of hot hands while talking to a female. (instant kino)

Make goofy, silly faces, stick out your tongue, just stupid stuff.

Imitate her body language (this one is gold). Let's say you're talking to a chick and she is one of those that uses her hands while she talks or gets excited. Imitate her while she does that.

Slap her on the ass and send her on her way. (warning: high risk factor for this one).

Tease them for any quirky or clumsy behavior.
 

belividere

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Alright I am way against the ass slap. I have seen far to many dudes try this. If anything it makes you come off as a caveman who thinks he can grab a girls ass then drag her home. If you already have good rapport and will sleep with her than it might work but I would be wary of advising this to someone without them knowing how to interpret interest level. Especially with someone you have just met. My experience as an ass-man who dates good looking girls is that they often have guys who think a playful spank will land them places even though it really makes them look like desperate idiots.

As for moves/flirting for cold approaches I have had success walking almost directly into girls. Kind of playing chicken on the sidewalk with her. Once you get close enough, depending on how crowded the situation, you will be forced to move one way or the other. At this point follow her lead and move the same way. Make eye contact. Move the other way if she follows take advantage. Give her some bullsh1t about how she needs to take you to dinner if she wants to dance or whatever. Always seems to be a good icebreaker if done well.

Another thing that I have noticied recently has gotten me conversation starters is holding open doors. I do this for anyone anyways and it seems this is less common than I had anticipated. It also proves that you can be a gentlemen from the get go and shows your worth before you start hitting on a girl which I think is good. Either way I have opened with this more times than I would like to admit and often been succesful with it.

Best of luck.
 

belividere

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Not trying to be an a$$ but I am also against the kiss the hand thing too. I have seen my friends who think that they get girls do this with my girls and LTR's and end up getting laughed at. Why? I cant say for sure but I think that it gives a girl way to much interest up front. Girls need to be respected in their heads before they sleep with someone, or they see themselves as *****s. When you kiss a girls hand what does that say? You bow down to them. When you bow down to them what does that mean? You either will treat them like they wear the pants or that you are desperate for a piece of ass?

Anyways, I'm going to get flamed to hell for this post and my last one but take what you want with a grain of salt. After all it really is just my experiences that I speak from.
 

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Sniff around, sniff close to her... put a facial expression that says "oh, now I know what it was".
 

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belividere,

"My experience as an ass-man who dates good looking girls is that they often have guys who think a playful spank will land them places even though it really makes them look like desperate idiots."

That is why i said NOT 2 soft, i didnt said be playful to steal your way in her pants, i said be a man and show her you want her! also i didnt say use this as a calculated seduction move lol, it is something that the instincts say and i do automatically if appropriate, and my instincts had never been wrong so far. but you can't teach instincts over the internet.

"Not trying to be an a$$ but I am also against the kiss the hand thing too. I have seen my friends who think that they get girls do this with my girls and LTR's and end up getting laughed at"

the intention behind it is everything. when i did that i got a happy/horny smile, but i did it just for fun and not as the ultimative seduction technique. so y the hell should that be submissive?!


I don't flame you in anyway, just wanted to state that the same actions cause different responses because in the end it all comes down to a confident/fun state of mind and good looks.
 

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Omizzi: I'd avoid or distance yourself from her for a sizeable amount of time. Or at least limit your usual interactions with her for a period. Then when you structure a moment to be with her start the kino, flirting, and imply with everything you got from the get go that for some reason you're into her a little. It helps if she makes a noticeable change since then so you can try to hint that that caused the change, and neg her at the same time by implying her previous state was unattractive.

That's what I would do/have tried anyway and it's more intended to generate the question of "does he like me" in her head. Whether it works well or not is up in the air, but that's the easiest (i.e., laziest) way I've tried doing it. There's more direct was I'd imagine, but I've yet to think up any worthwhile or remember seeing any type up here. It's very much trying to get out of the LJBF (let's just be friends) zone in principal, unless sexual attraction has been present from the outset.
 

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Setting: My friend in a bar
Conditions: He being horny and talking to her for a long while
Action: he putting his hand between her legs and saying "Are you horny now?"
Intended result: A good fvck
Real result: A nice tan on one side off his face


Setting: Bar
Conditions: Me standing in bar
Action: Girl pinching my ass
Counteraction: I pinching her ass as a revenge
Intended result: To have fun
Real result: She smiling and laughing


Setting: Pizza place
Conditions: Me ordering pizza
Action: Drunk older woman putting her hand over my back
Counteraction: A very strong feel off wanting to puke
Intended result: How the hell should I know?
Real result: Her being thrown out off the pizza place


Setting: The same pizza place
Conditions: before ordering pizza
Action: Drunk older woman leaving love note to the pizza guy
Intended result: Probably to **** him
Real result: He declining her love letter and she beginning to talk very loud


Setting: Bar
Conditions: Me making out with chick
Action: Out off the blue, she put her hands inside my pants
Counteractions: pulling away!!!
Intended result: To **** me
Real result: Me running away!


Setting: Street
Conditions: Hot girl looking into my eyes
Action: I smiling at her
Intended result: Nothing, just to boost my ego
Real result: Walking into a street light with the side off my head


Setting: Bar
Conditions: A little alcohol in the body
Action: I talking to girl for around a minute and then making out with her
Intended result: I don't remember
Real result: After making out for a little while she bites my hand


As for my major tip on flirting, just follow the flow.
 
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