Share you major challenge with women!

[DoubleBarrel]

Hey man,

I recently began thinking about where the majority of guys are hung-up on their path toward getting better with women... or getting what they want from this site, so I ask you this:

What's your current biggest challenge when it comes to succeeding with women and dating? What area are you currently frustrated with? Please be as specific as you can.

Thanks in advance!

 

[j0n24]

Getting a sugar momma for long term. I had one that went on for about a year and it is extremely eye opening when people throw money at you for no other reason than being able to make her feel good.

I just can't find any where I am at so it's a frustrating thing for me.

 

[BeDJ]

Women can fvck a guy within 30 minutes of meeting him. Why do I have to wait when that guy didn't have to? The sooner you fvck her, the faster the Disney happy ending fades away.

 

[TheWanderer88]

I'm still scared ****less of asking girls out. I seriously don't think there is anything more scary in the world.

 

[Gunner26]

Think it's got to be making that first move with girls that I know. If they are complete randoms, I don't care and just go for it, but Christ if I know them, I usually wimp out.

When there is even a slight risk, I don't enjoy it. However I am working on it, and as they say, no risk, no reward, so here's to me taking more risks in the future and making that first move.

Gunner

 

[Mr Wright]

I wouldn't say it's a major challenge but it's just to become more consistent with hotter girls. That will take practice and plenty of screwing up.

 

[nismo-4]

Keeping a woman interested, usually. Stop her from flaking.

 

[GS750]

My hurdle is cold approaching. One I get a rapport going I have no problem asking them out, its just the initial approach where I stumble the most. I chicken out too much.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

My problem is getting these girls to stop blowing my phone once I'm done with them.

 

[DoubleBarrel]

Thanks guys. These are great. Keep 'em coming!

 

[TheGambino]

Getting hb9s and hb10s in your bed by bein the most alpha you can be

 

[corner boy]

Getting to know women I really desire. For this I need to overcome approach anxiety. So I'm kind of really only in the beginning of a long way to go. I think a big issue is also to develop my personality; kill the beta in me ^^

 

[Dgwizdal]

Banging girls is easy - have that part nailed. Its holding onto them that's hard when they start pushing for more than FWB/FB after a few months. Can't seem to open up at all or show a sweet side / give them reassurance.... Just makes me squirm with betaness even though I know it is essential for maintaining an LTR. I can't get the thought out of my head of always maintaining attraction and the chase instead of opening up a bit and building rapport. Whenever talks of feelings, reassurance, or future comes along I avoid them like the plague. I feel as though any nice gesture of mine that comes unwarranted/undeserved/and portrays reassurance because I feel like it will start a beta backslide. I've had 3 plates tell me I'm incapable of "love" and "missing out on sharing something real" "emotionally unavailable" in one form or another in 3 months lol and these are chicks that I was halfway interested in. Why am I completely hesitant to emotionally invest in even the slightest. Help?

 

[Bizzle13]

Sticking to my guns and not getting too comfortable/invested in a chick. Also keeping standards high when going through a dry patch. Suppose I could approach more but I feel I need to work on myself more first. Once you're happy with you no longer will you seek happiness from companionship/women/sex, it's just a bonus.

 

[Alvafe]

my major challenge?

is I care enough to invite girls out, it happen not as often as I should and normally I don't care, that is of course 1vs1 the group setting is pretty ok

 

[zekko]

Here lately I've been having trouble thinking of things to talk to them about. Which is strange, because I don't remember having that problem before. Part of it is maybe I'll be tired when I'm around them, so my energy isn't up and I don't feel like talking.

Truth is, I know that what you say isn't even that important, but I like to be fun and playful, and for whatever reason here lately I've been having trouble getting right into that.

 

[apprenticedj]

Cold approaching/opening sets.

This isn't a problem with women, it's more my own personal problem. I often rely too heavily on women making it easy for me. Sadly the hotter ones, HB8-10's, don't do this so it limits the quality of tang you'll get.

I guess my issue is confidence, how boringly common that is around here.

 

[Smoovejoe]

Initially the approach. Now I don't really find them a challenge. I see them as equals.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Hey man,

I recently began thinking about where the majority of guys are hung-up on their path toward getting better with women... or getting what they want from this site, so I ask you this:

What's your current biggest challenge when it comes to succeeding with women and dating? What area are you currently frustrated with? Please be as specific as you can.

Thanks in advance!

I would say my biggest obstacle is going out and meeting women, not because I dislike going out, but because i've never really had a large social network, always had a small social circle, not many close friends, and one of the most common ways people meet their significant other or potential hook-ups is through their mutual friends, friend of a friend, social circle, etc., considering my social situation that's not really an option for me and hasn't been in the past, and I also have a very hard time telling if a girl is actually interested in me or she is just being nice and friendly

 

[adam225]

Challenge ??? NON, I simply don't care enough anymore to make another person into a challenge. It either flows with ease or it doesn't. What's the point if it's a battle ? It's not like you're winning some kind of prize....

When ever I'm out I'll just be myself and speak to them as I am. Either like me for who I am or don't bother with me lol... I honestly couldn't care less....