You, sir, are very perceptive. Once realising what the perfect husband/father is (from the warped female perspective), I'm not willing to go to that extreme to fit the model that women have. I'm simply not inclined to enter that frame. Maybe I just don't want it that much; call it a 'sticking point', if you will, but it's where I draw a line in the sand.
Women are quite frankly crazy, neurotic, and sick. As I said in a previous post, my uncle was the better husband, yet he got ditched (I might point out that this alpha male has since cheated on her several times, and she has remained with him lmao). Consider the PUA technique of social proof and how it actually makes very little societal and logical sense to a woman's security:
http://no-maam.blogspot.co.uk/2004/06/bonecrcker-172-social-proofing-has.html
You're right; I have enough experience with women now that I know the overwhelming responsibilities/obligations that falls on a husband in a marriage. The 6th iron rule in
The Rational Male is
Women are incapable of loving men the way that men want to be loved by women; women love opportunistically. Now, I've only just finished this book, but I had this figured out through experience by the time I was 21-22, and that pretty much ended marriage as an option for me. Just like with any woman or situation, if i'm not going to get what I want, I won't invest.
The main benefit from a marriage or LTR for me would be able to just be myself and switch off from game. At least with the randoms that I pick up off the street, I can switch game on and off when I like. Gaming 24-7 is too much, and completely undesirable to me. I have a lot of respect for you and others that aren't tools, partake in marriage from a masculine frame, and make it work, but I really don't think it's what I want - at least not right now.
