Maybe it was - but more than likely it wasn't. I doubt her asking about noodles equals a sh1t test. Granted, you have provided zero details for us to be able to tell you anything substantive. Is this a first date, a plate, an LTR? Why was she irritated in the first place?
We're at a music school so you run into/dine/play/party with people all the time. Call it dating or not. For instance, I don't swipe right on students here on Tinder, because it's fruitless, I can just sit down with people in the cantina, without having to go through great expectations/formality. Has its pros and cons I guess. I have no problem with approaching, so I can do it all according to my mental schedule.
I would then call it first date-ish according to your options. Her irritation in the first place was irrational, as judged by me and a friend. I asked her to hang out, she said to message via Facebook instead, she got pissed upon that. See my second post above about irritation. I missed an obvious come on from her, and after that it was turbulence. I've experienced it before -- if a girl takes initiative and isn't received, she's flyingly pissed. In the thread "Most obvious come-on that was missed" there's tons of the "and I never heard from her again."
So we're having something that is classic for me: when-you're-interested-I'm-not and vice versa. I am often not prepared for the come ons (and vice versa), and as result it is for both of us mentally demanding due to the disappointment, and that makes things harder.
Someone wrote about research that shows that a lot of push/pull leads to less trust/poorer relationships (if I recall correctly, I might be wrong). I think that's what we're seeing here. Solution is for one of us to repair (me) and be capable, so the negative circle can stop.
