Sex question - keepin her interested

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So I'm going on 9 months hooking up with my current GF and were curious if you guys had any tips on making a girl orgasm from sex who normally has trouble doing so? Starting off way back when the sex was awful: she was super inexperienced and I had come off a LTR with another girl who was able to get off super super easily without much work on my part.

As the time has progressed it's gotten much much better but she definitely has trouble coming from sex even though she really enjoys the normal experience. I've learned her body to the point where I can easily control when she orgasms from head and, while I certainly don't mind going down on her because I love her, it's not favorite thing in the world per say and would much rather be able to bring her to climax from normal intercourse if possible.

I know the statistic that 3/4 women can't come from normal sex before yadda yadda, but the thing is she has done so before. Just incredibly rarely and it was, annoyingly, from different positions so I can't get a feel of what consistently works for her.

It doesn't exactly bother me and she claims it doesn't phase her but since I like this girl and plan to keep with it for at least the near future I figure I'd rather try and learn than just go with the flow

So, yeah. Just wondering if any of you guys have specific tips (whether its grinding more or thrusting more etc.) on girls who have trouble during intercourse.

I'm around 5''
 
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Stop going down on her, no take it further and never give her another ****oral orgasm until she has a vaginal one. Getting her off from oral is just reinforcing her focus on her cl!t. Can you get her off with fingering? If not then try that first. Give her some good dirty talk and eventually you'll get her off. Repeat with intercourse and you should be able to make it happen. Also, buy something like this http://www.liberator.com/wedge.html. You may be able to find cheaper versions of it elsewhere. That thing is revolutionary, you'll be able to hit spots that just aren't possible when laying flat. I must emphasize dirty talk again. Stimulating a woman's mind is your most powerful weapon.
 
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Thanks for that. It's good advice.

Not to make this into a sex questions forum, but could you give me some dirty talk advice. Maybe I blame it on my age but I just don't consider myself good at it. The girl in question isn't prude, but she's definitely not a slut either (I'm her first ever relationship, 5th guy she has ever slept with, the other 4 being only once. First guy to make her orgasm so I'm a pretty big deal to her etc).

But, again, she's not slutty so I can't imagine calling her a fcking sl ut would go over very well
 
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Just describe what's going on in the moment, what you want her to feel, what you're feeling, what you know she wants, stuff like that. Nothing too elaborate though, you don't want her having to think too much and distract her. One of my favorite ways and a simple way to do it is to keep getting her to say yes to me;

Me: You love it when I touch you like this don't you
Her: mmm yes
Me: Oh you're getting really wet for me right now aren't you
Her: yes...
Me: You're squirming so much babe, you want me inside you so fvcking bad right now don't you
Her: *whimpers* oh yes..
Me: You love it when I drive my c0ck deep inside you don't you
Her: Oh God yes...
Me: Oh you're ready to come now aren't you, you're about to come so fvcking hard for me aren't you
Her: OH GOD YES

Lol..I'm sure you get the idea. Say it like a statement not a question. Just let your thoughts flow out. If she's giving you good head then tell how good it feels. If she's moaning passionately then tell her how fvcking hard it makes you when you hear it. Also, this isn't exactly dirty talk but don't be afraid to make noises. If you wanna moan, groan, sigh, whatever then do it. Chicks are turned on by our moans just as much as we are by theirs. Try reading some erotica too. That'll give you plenty of adjectives to use.
 
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In my experience getting an orgasm from a woman is more psychological than it is physical (actually...in reality it's also the same for us men too).

You must realise EVERY SINGLE INTERACTION you have with your gf either CONTRIBUTES or TAKES AWAY from the sexual experience.

I don't consider sex just physical penetration (like most people), every interaction you have with a woman you're sexually attracted to is "sex".

Sex (or at least PROPER sex) is when masculine and feminine communicate with each other, whether it be verbally, mentally or physically (I know this may sound too new-agey for some people).

A question that I ask you (OP), what do you do when you want to have sex with your gf?

I hope you don't tell her "let's have sex".

If you want to use her holes you must make her prepare them for you, I'm mostly good at doing this with women I just met but it's only slightly different with a woman you're in a relationship with.

I believe most women are like kettles and you have to get them hot first. Make her anticipate sex first without making it obvious that it's gonna happen and always initiate.

Playful kino (like a play fight) usually works for me...suddenly becoming silent during a conversation whilst you look at her too.

Also, go slow...don't touch her intimate areas straight away, make her wait, make her anticipate it.

I can go on and on but I don't think anyone here will take me seriously.
 
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3agle 3yes said:
In my experience getting an orgasm from a woman is more psychological than it is physical (actually...in reality it's also the same for us men too).

You must realise EVERY SINGLE INTERACTION you have with your gf either CONTRIBUTES or TAKES AWAY from the sexual experience.

I don't consider sex just physical penetration (like most people), every interaction you have with a woman you're sexually attracted to is "sex".

Sex (or at least PROPER sex) is when masculine and feminine communicate with each other, whether it be verbally, mentally or physically (I know this may sound too new-agey for some people).

A question that I ask you (OP), what do you do when you want to have sex with your gf?

I hope you don't tell her "let's have sex".

If you want to use her holes you must make her prepare them for you, I'm mostly good at doing this with women I just met but it's only slightly different with a woman you're in a relationship with.

I believe most women are like kettles and you have to get them hot first. Make her anticipate sex first without making it obvious that it's gonna happen and always initiate.

Playful kino (like a play fight) usually works for me...suddenly becoming silent during a conversation whilst you look at her too.

Also, go slow...don't touch her intimate areas straight away, make her wait, make her anticipate it.

I can go on and on but I don't think anyone here will take me seriously.
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