There's something about those moments leading up to getting with a girl for the first (and potentially only) time that make the prelude to the waltz the best time I ever have with girls.
I couldn't agree with you more bro, it's one hell of a rush, kind of like the first kiss.
But anyway, on to the subject at hand. I think what our boy was trying to say boils down to 'control'. We all have S.O.B, even women (they just hide it better). However, only a few of us men have control over our emotions, which includes our sex drive. My sex drive is usually through the roof, like most guys on here. The difference is I know when to dial it up and turn it down. It's a skill that can be learned with time.
Show me a guy who acts clingly, needy, desperate and I'll show you a guy totally out of control.
Cool
Calm
Collected
Control
These are the 4 C's of dating, as I see it. Learn to master these 4, lets call them techniques and the rest will fall into place.