Sex is not everything

Nicholas Hill

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Guys, I haven't posted for a while. My girlfriend and I are moving into LTR territory and I just thought that I would share something with you.

Sex is not the best thing in the world.

After all this time and so many comments about why I should or should not have sex, I finally did, and found the above to be true. Sex is nice and relieves tension, but waaaaaaaaay over hyped. Have you truly been satisfied because you had sex with someone?

Just thought I'd let all you [edit]people who may or may not be[/edit] virgins know that. I wouldn't mind being one again knowing what I know now.

Nick
 

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listen you have only had sex a handful of times with one partner.

its safe to say that you have no idea what you are doing.

after you have been in the LTR with your girlfriend for a year or so you will not know how you ever lived without sex.

the first couple of times is usually not that great.

you have to get a feel for yourself and for the lady.

the truth is it helps if both of you know whats going on.

keep up the effort, its worth it
 

Cesare Cardinali

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congrats on the lay Nicholas.

Keep at it and I'm sure you'll enjoy it much more once you two are more comfortable with each other.
 

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Yeah once you have sex you don't really feel it was that big of a deal. But, if you don't do if for a while you will start to miss it.
 

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Yep, very true, sex is VERY overrated. When I first had sex I was like WTF is that it!
 

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nick, I said that also when I first had sex or was just starting to.

Believe me, you'll learn to love it the more you have it (with as many girls as possible)
 

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First time, you're going to be so excited, up to the point when it actually starts to happen, then it'll be like, "eh, what the hell?? It was supposed to be so much better!"

Then you'll learn that it's just something that you enjoy in the moment. It's not some earth-shattering experience, it's just something fun to do. :)

Your body is designed to seek physical satisfaction in joining with another of the opposite gender. In that, it's always an enjoyable experience. It is NOT a life-changing event, so don't try to make it out to be one or you WILL be disappointed.

As much of a let-down as it is, you can't tell me you don't want to experience it again. ;) Which is natural...it's just what the body is hard-wired to do.
 

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Sex is like a holiday. Its all what you make of it. I find that if I make the sex last longer then its a little better for ya, and her. I try and say stuff like, I love being inside of you. Or I want to do this forever and never stop. It always seems to add something. I always keep from cumming until she dose. This adds challenge to make every thing better too.

As the other guys will say. After a wile you don't know how you lived with out it. Its addicting. Some guys will flame me, but I think that if you tagging the same girl, then you both will know exactly what each other likes. In time , you wont find better sex then that.
 

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What?? Sex is the bomb my friends. If your banging a hot chick who knows how to work it, it's great. YOur all right about the first couple times but to me, sex means a lot. Without it, you would just be friends with girl, to an extent. All of our parents who marry and stay married probably have great sex. sorry to put that in your heads lol. But it's true in my opinion.
 

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