Sex Is Actually A Very Minor Concern Of Life

[TheException]

In my college years, I was obsessed with trying to find some tail....

I hated going to house parties with no chicks

I hated going home early when I was in the process of "picking up" a chick

I hated getting c0ckblocked by your supposed "best friend".

It seemed to me, I lived to get drunk and have sex. I would honestly have no fun with "just the boys" anymore. Once I had sex for the first time, I was alllllll about it. Nowadays, I really don't give two sh1ts about sex.

Before you lose your cool, let me explain what I mean....

I always used to think sex was the barometer of a healthy relationship(and I still partially do, especially in the beginning of the relationship), but I find once you actually have sex for the first couple times in your life.....it becomes "no big deal". Like sure, its fun as hell, and biologically I love to fvck women on a regular basis, but it no longer has the sparkling allure that it once had. Sex becomes like everything else, the more you do it......you become desensitized.

So what am I trying to say?

SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING. A man's purpose or life mission should always take priority above all else. Since starting my own business, I can honestly say this is true. I love having sex with my girlfriend and still have the male urges of course....but I find myself being more hungry for my business to succeed. Where once a "dryspell" would p1ss me off.....I no longer ACTUALLY care. Sex is not some rare commodity that is hard to find. I can have sex whenever I want. It's actually very ironic. The less I care about sex and the more I care about business.....the more my girlfriend finds me attractive......and the MORE we have sex.

Always keep your heads pointing in the right direction guys. It's hard on a forum where we discuss sex, chicks, etc but the forum is MORE than that. It's about self improvement and being the absolute best. Part of being the best....is achieving your life mission. Trying to up your sex from 2 times a week to 3 using a bunch of "manosphere" techniques is very minuscule in the grand scheme of things.

 

[sylvester the cat]

I'm the opposite. Back in my college days sex wasn't very important to me - no doubt because it wasn't very hard to get. It's as I've got older that I've taken more of an interest in getting it. Not dependent on it. Interested in the mechanics of getting it. The act of sex itself I find quite ridiculous and laughable but the stuff that leads up to it I find quite fascinating. The games and art of warfare just to get a girl to remove her knickers etc.

 

[VladPatton]

It's a temporary feel-good fix like most things.

 

[mr. kennedy]

The act of sex itself I find quite ridiculous and laughable

Care to elaborate?

 

[sylvester the cat]

Care to elaborate?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0A77rohcyg

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

"sex is like air: no big deal unless you're not getting any"

 

[marmel75]

It's one of the main human needs physiologically and has many health benefits. So I very much think its important and not to be relegated to "no big deal" status.

And without a doubt it is much more important than being a "minor concern". Ever watch what happens when animals are in heat? Try telling them its "no big deal". We are nothing more than animals with more intelligence. All the same base behaviors still pertain to us.

 

[jimmy18]

OP, if your GF got hit by a bus tomorrow, your concern for sex wouldn't be so minor anymore

 

[JohnChops]

Well I am in college now and I like this mentality. I have been like this, for the most part, since day 1 in college. I didn't want my head to go in the wrong direction. Funny, the semester I had a GF for, was the first semester I had one. I was sex addicted, we did it twice a day almost everyday and I lost focus in school. I didn't do bad, just not the usual perfection im used to. Then eventually, I got my head back on straight, only took 2 months, dumped her and moved on.

Personally, I'd rather be advancing in my extracurriculars or studies than go out. Truth be told I went out last weekend to celebrate, but thats about the only time you'll see me go out these days. Less = more. For the most part.

 

[skinnyguy]

"sex is like air: no big deal unless you're not getting any"

agreed 100%

AFCs think and talk about sex on here all the time. However I doubt professional athletes think about it that much because they can get it without putting in any effort at all.

Lack of sex really leads to an immature perspective on things... The whole "game" thing for example.

 

[No.Danny]

agreed 100%

AFCs think and talk about sex on here all the time. However I doubt professional athletes think about it that much because they can get it without putting in any effort at all.

Lack of sex really leads to an immature perspective on things... The whole "game" thing for example.

Ohhh skinny....... you almost had me.
I was like great post skinny,
And then ....... :crackup:

 

[ThaMack]

live life an sex will appear women love to have fun even if its doing homework together find a way to get her touchin an laughin. paperball fight after you finish your hw. who cares if she gets hers done its about what you want

 

[TheException]

It's one of the main human needs physiologically and has many health benefits. So I very much think its important and not to be relegated to "no big deal" status.

Well, not to get to "scientifically" on you but actually it's not.

On Maslow's Hierarchy, there is "sustaining the population". This is not really a factor in modern society as our population has exploded. There may be sexual competition to find high quality mates, but the need is not associated with having sex, but rather having children. You want to produce good looking offspring.

And sex provides the same benefits of physical activity. There isn't research showing there are benefits exclusive to sex alone.

And without a doubt it is much more important than being a "minor concern". Ever watch what happens when animals are in heat? Try telling them its "no big deal". We are nothing more than animals with more intelligence. All the same base behaviors still pertain to us.

Not sure how being in the heat has anything to do with sex...

We get urges to have sex, sure. But we also have urges to simply bust a nut asap. Our bodies are biologically thousands of years in the past. Sex is a tool to reproduce. It is only recently that we have begun having sex for simply pleasure.

OP, if your GF got hit by a bus tomorrow, your concern for sex wouldn't be so minor anymore

Don't mistake the point of the thread as me relaxing because I have a girlfriend....it's much bigger than that.

Personally, I'd rather be advancing in my extracurriculars or studies than go out. Truth be told I went out last weekend to celebrate, but thats about the only time you'll see me go out these days.

agreed 100%

AFCs think and talk about sex on here all the time. However I doubt professional athletes think about it that much because they can get it without putting in any effort at all.

Exactly. Professional athletes get sex because of their fame. Fame comes from the hard work put in to excel in their sport. I think it's very very rare that there exists a professional athlete who doesn't workout and want to be the best(Albert Haynesworth). This is what makes them super attractive.

Lack of sex really leads to an immature perspective on things... The whole "game" thing for example.

I wouldnt say "game" in general is a bad perspective.....the ManoMasturs(Manosphere Masturbators) though, most definitely.

As with anything, there are good things and bad. The key is being able to determine which things here on sosuave are worth listening to and which are not.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

In my college years, I was obsessed with trying to find some tail....

I hated going to house parties with no chicks

I hated going home early when I was in the process of "picking up" a chick

I hated getting c0ckblocked by your supposed "best friend".

It seemed to me, I lived to get drunk and have sex. I would honestly have no fun with "just the boys" anymore. Once I had sex for the first time, I was alllllll about it. Nowadays, I really don't give two sh1ts about sex.

Before you lose your cool, let me explain what I mean....

I always used to think sex was the barometer of a healthy relationship(and I still partially do, especially in the beginning of the relationship), but I find once you actually have sex for the first couple times in your life.....it becomes "no big deal". Like sure, its fun as hell, and biologically I love to fvck women on a regular basis, but it no longer has the sparkling allure that it once had. Sex becomes like everything else, the more you do it......you become desensitized.

So what am I trying to say?

SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING. A man's purpose or life mission should always take priority above all else. Since starting my own business, I can honestly say this is true. I love having sex with my girlfriend and still have the male urges of course....but I find myself being more hungry for my business to succeed. Where once a "dryspell" would p1ss me off.....I no longer ACTUALLY care. Sex is not some rare commodity that is hard to find. I can have sex whenever I want. It's actually very ironic. The less I care about sex and the more I care about business.....the more my girlfriend finds me attractive......and the MORE we have sex.

Always keep your heads pointing in the right direction guys. It's hard on a forum where we discuss sex, chicks, etc but the forum is MORE than that. It's about self improvement and being the absolute best. Part of being the best....is achieving your life mission. Trying to up your sex from 2 times a week to 3 using a bunch of "manosphere" techniques is very minuscule in the grand scheme of things.

Its different if you are single and not currently getting laid, it's an annoying paradox because if you focus on your life mission and purpose and forget about women, while yes it will make you active in every area of life except women since women will usually not actively pursue a guy

 

[Bingo-Player]

are you seriously trying to tell me you don't feel like a god after you've given some pussvy a seriously good pounding bareback and come in it ?

LOL

there is nothing better and I've had some of the best cocaine & ecstasy on the planet

hell the only thing thats better is the thought of getting it

 

[pumpkin-head]

Sex is the major function of man to exist. If you feel sex isn't important you are unable to get laid.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Well I am in college now and I like this mentality. I have been like this, for the most part, since day 1 in college. I didn't want my head to go in the wrong direction. Funny, the semester I had a GF for, was the first semester I had one. I was sex addicted, we did it twice a day almost everyday and I lost focus in school. I didn't do bad, just not the usual perfection im used to. Then eventually, I got my head back on straight, only took 2 months, dumped her and moved on.

Personally, I'd rather be advancing in my extracurriculars or studies than go out. Truth be told I went out last weekend to celebrate, but thats about the only time you'll see me go out these days. Less = more. For the most part.

Wish I was getting laid in my early 20's

 

[TheException]

Its different if you are single and not currently getting laid, it's an annoying paradox because if you focus on your life mission and purpose and forget about women, while yes it will make you active in every area of life except women since women will usually not actively pursue a guy

Well.....you still have to pursue women. I don't think focusing on a life mission, means you have to avoid women.

are you seriously trying to tell me you don't feel like a god after you've given some pussvy a seriously good pounding bareback and come in it ?

LOL

there is nothing better and I've had some of the best cocaine & ecstasy on the planet

hell the only thing thats better is the thought of getting it

:crazy:

Sex is the major function of man to exist.

Biologically speaking, I can understand what you're saying. However, we have evolved past that. We are no longer a bunch of ape-like men grunting and running around killing wild animals for food. We have evolved to the point, that we now have societal functions.

 

[Mike32ct]

Its different if you are single and not currently getting laid, it's an annoying paradox because if you focus on your life mission and purpose and forget about women, while yes it will make you active in every area of life except women since women will usually not actively pursue a guy

Correct. I'm not sure that forgetting about puzzy leads to puzzy.

It's only true if the activities you engage in turn women on.

1. Forget about puzzy and learn MMA - may lead to puzzy

2. Forget about puzzy and collect rocks - probably never see a puzzy lol

But this idea that just being independent and forgetting about women will attract them is BS to 100th power. Women don't care what you do in your life UNLESS it directly benefits them or turns them on.

The problem is that your life purpose or favorite hobby or dream job might not be a turn on to women. If it isn't, it has no effect on attracting them.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Correct. I'm not sure that forgetting about puzzy leads to puzzy.

It's only true if the activities you engage in turn women on.

1. Forget about puzzy and learn MMA - may lead to puzzy

2. Forget about puzzy and collect rocks - probably never see a puzzy lol

But this idea that just being independent and forgetting about women will attract them is BS to 100th power. Women don't care what you do in your life UNLESS it directly benefits them or turns them on.

The problem is that your life purpose or favorite hobby or dream job might not be a turn on to women. If it isn't, it has no effect on attracting them.

Exactly, even if a man is actively working on his mission and purpose, sure women will notice it and be attracted to him but that doesn't mean they are gonna go over to him and speak to him first, make the first move on him, that's why this paradox often feels like a catch-22