Sex & Christianity

[Desdinova]

I will say if you want a trustworthy loyal women...get one who does love god..and practices her love for god..

I think the experience in this area differs. I've dated quite a few women who were "christian" and they were the most fvcked up women I've dated.

I'm not generalizing here that every religious person is like this, but I've noticed that people who have no self-control tend to join religions (especially high control ones) to provide control in their lives. They don't realize that lack of self-control is their issue. They believe it's because they didn't have god's blessing.

 

[frivolousz21]

I'm not generalizing here that every religious person is like this, but I've noticed that people who have no self-control tend to join religions (especially high control ones) to provide control in their lives. They don't realize that lack of self-control is their issue. They believe it's because they didn't have god's blessing.

true...but if she is in it from childhood there is a good chance she will be a person of god..and follow christ as an example of how to live

 

[Desdinova]

true...but if she is in it from childhood there is a good chance she will be a person of god..and follow christ as an example of how to live

...if she remained faithful in it during her upbringing. What happens here is the girl has never experienced the other side of the fence. All she has ever known is the Christian lifestyle. Women like this are also pretty rare. Many will put religion aside for a while so they can go have some fun.

What I've seen time and time again in various religions is that a young man and woman, both inexperienced in dating will meet, begin dating, and will marry each other. All they know is that one other person. They haven't had the tastes of dating other people, and haven't experienced what they like and don't like in members of the opposite sex.

Then, instead of marrying because of common interests and common future goals, they marry because they're horny Christians. The relationship eventually falls apart because they later realize they have nothing in common.

It's worse if masturbation is forbidden by the religion.

 

[frivolousz21]

well you are right!

but you sound like the NEGATIVES here!



of course we shouldnt date a women who has no expierence...

but after a good catholic dates around gets some wordly taste..and stays loyal to god....she is prime for a good women.

or maybe im just that lucky with mine.

 

[pimpfromdayone]

And what exactly is wrong with dating a girl who has no experience?? Teaching her how to be sexual is one of the best things ever. If the girl fu-cks like a porn star first time, I'm gonna be just a tad bit suspicious.

 

[Drow]

Wow, this post blew up! It makes sense though... Religion and sex have a lot to say about each other. Good points guys.

This is a topic that really interests me as someone who tries to follow the Christian life (but I guess it is not I who try, but Christ who does the work in me).

I think you can find a lot of hot virgin girls in the church (that sounds funny to say). But outside of that... slim pickings.

I say the toughest thing is just having such extreme desires (as a man) to "fornicate" to "masturbate" or any kind of release, but having staunch admonishens not to from the Bible. Maybe it comes down to personal righteousness. How much you want to truly live, or if you just want to settle..

It's good to hear that staying a virgin until marraige is something of value and not looked down upon. I figured i'd get a lot more of those kinds of responses.

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Yeah, I need to start going to church

Seriously though, I know many guys who have hooked up with girls from church. The more exposure to women (well, good women), the better.

 

[frivolousz21]

Seriously though, I know many guys who have hooked up with girls from church. The more exposure to women (well, good women), the better.

my women hasnt missed church atleast 1 day a week..in her life.

the most amaizng women ive met..

then some guy here goes out wth a AW ***** and tries telling everyone all women are bad

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
my women hasnt missed church atleast 1 day a week..in her life.

the most amaizng women ive met..

then some guy here goes out wth a AW ***** and tries telling everyone all women are bad

Not all, just many. Many men are bad too, but in my opinion, it's overrated. The feminist shi-t is really fu-cking up our country.... women are actually encouraged in many cases to be sexist against men and to learn to function without them.... that completely goes against everything that makes sense, including science and our natural roles, and including the Bible, which always emphasized how it is man who should be head of every house, it is a man who should protect, should take care of women, etc. (MEN are in charge, and that's how it should be), but many women are rejecting these ideas, and in doing so, somehow rejecting being feminine, if that can make any sense at all. It is time the world stopped judging man without also judging women and recognizing they can be equally bad. If the feminist bit-ches want equality, LET'S GIVE IT TO THEM.

 

[frivolousz21]

Not all, just many. Many men are bad too, but in my opinion, it's overrated. The feminist shi-t is really fu-cking up our country.... women are actually encouraged in many cases to be sexist against men and to learn to function without them.... that completely goes against everything that makes sense, including science and our natural roles, and including the Bible, which always emphasized how it is man who should be head of every house, it is a man who should protect, should take care of women, etc. (MEN are in charge, and that's how it should be), but many women are rejecting these ideas, and in doing so, somehow rejecting being feminine, if that can make any sense at all. It is time the world stopped judging man without also judging women and recognizing they can be equally bad. If the feminist bit-ches want equality, LET'S GIVE IT TO THEM.

I agree

just another reason to for the church girl

 

[Bible_Belt]

that completely goes against everything that makes sense, including science and our natural roles, and including the Bible, which always emphasized how it is man who should be head of every house, it is a man who should protect, should take care of women, etc. (MEN are in charge, and that's how it should be), but many women are rejecting these ideas, and in doing so, somehow rejecting being feminine

I agree as well.

 

[illmatic20]

Originally posted by Desdinova
...if she remained faithful in it during her upbringing. What happens here is the girl has never experienced the other side of the fence. All she has ever known is the Christian lifestyle. Women like this are also pretty rare. Many will put religion aside for a while so they can go have some fun.

What I've seen time and time again in various religions is that a young man and woman, both inexperienced in dating will meet, begin dating, and will marry each other. All they know is that one other person. They haven't had the tastes of dating other people, and haven't experienced what they like and don't like in members of the opposite sex.

Then, instead of marrying because of common interests and common future goals, they marry because they're horny Christians. The relationship eventually falls apart because they later realize they have nothing in common.

It's worse if masturbation is forbidden by the religion.

Actually, This is a bit off. Atleast the chrisitian women I know are virgin, but have been in relationships with guys. They are human themselves and crave it as we all do. The girls I talk to has no problem dating someone who is not a christian or has been with many women. She willing to forgive the guy or just like him enough.

About experience, If your marrying someone it more then how good they are in bed. Marriage is about chemistry and understanding. Plus what would you prefer a girl who ranks you among the many guys she been in bed or someone who has you ranked 1, because your the only. Even I admit my wife will have a hard time impressing me as I have been with others before.

Most christian girls understand relationship is a commitment and devotion towards it. When you hit rough patches they are willing to work with you rather then jump ship and that in itself is priceless. Being in a 5 year relationship and it all being over in 2 days is rough. This might be because of the bible. As it teaches that human aren't perfect and we will disappoint.