Sex & bl0wjob questions (virgin female - advice needed)

[LoneWolf]

So my new gf is a virgin. I've never been with one. I've had sex many times but this was totally different for me...

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The sex:

She was very small/tight down below. I can only put one finger there, probably the index and pinky, but not all the way in as it gets too tight the further I go... at first It was hard getting her wet. She tends to dry up often, so I gotta start sucking her nipples again and kissing to get it wet again. This is the first time she's been sexual mind you so it could be nerves or something. It was slightly painful at rare times where I might of tried to stretch her down there to open it up and put my penis in which did not get in at all. I only touched the opening with the top of my penis. At this stage I could not imagine putting my penis into her... she's so small and tight (asian btw) - The condom was an issue too, when I put it on I go limp after a few minutes of trying to put it in and failing. It turns me off and I get exhausted.. the condom dries up and so does she and we give up. We tried to have sex 4 times I think in one week. So I just stuck to foreplay etc. She said she was sore after a while of fingering and trying to put my penis in... so we had to stop.

Also, I'm not sure but at some point she said "You're gonna make me cuum." And let out a loud moan (pretty loud) and she removed my arm away and her whole body kind of jumped. I take it that was an orgasm? I never seen one so I was a little surprised.

The question:

What would be the best way to have sex... do I keep trying and trying? Do I need lubricant? At this stage is seems impossible to fit my penis in!

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The bl0wjob:

So this is the very first proper attempt at a bl0wjob for me. I never got the chance to get any from previous girlfriends or girls. I tried lying down for a while as she sucked away, it felt awesome ... I also tried standing up too.. she would suck for at least 15 minutes at one stage and I kept getting to the climax point where I would bl0w but never did. It would JUST stop there. I know many people can't ejaculate from bl0wjobs but I just thought I'd ask...

The question:

She really wanted me to bl0w but I couldn't. I even tried taking over with my hand a couple of times but no good. At home by myself I can easily ejaculate when I masturbate myself. It really sucks. Do I really NEED to ejaculate from a bl0wjob? Should I just take it as a warm up for sex and have fun with it?

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Thanks for reading guys...

 

[Strelok]

Regarding the penetration problem, lube can be really helpful especially is she dries often.

Lube is gonna help for lubrification and also will help her to relax since she doesnt have to worry anymore about feel pain or dry up.

Regarding the *******s problem, I suggest you try to lay down and have her suck you, I find that when girls blow me while Im standing it needs more time to come (a great thing for me actually).
The more you're relaxed the sooner you come.

 

[runner83]

Sex:

Use lube to assist and if the condom is a distraction, go in raw instead. If she's a virgin, you shouldn't have to worry about STD's..


Blowj0b:

I normally last a fair while as well. Towards the end, to assist in getting over the line, face fvck her.

Chicks love you being dominant rather than just lying there passively and letting her call the shots.

 

[Desdinova]

Go buy yourself some KY - best lube I've ever used.

Sex threads belong in the "Anything Else" forum...

 

[luckster]

Go buy yourself some KY - best lube I've ever used.

I second this.

Blowj0b:

I normally last a fair while as well. Towards the end, to assist in getting over the line, face fvck her.

Chicks love you being dominant rather than just lying there passively and letting her call the shots.

And this. If I just lie there and let her suck, a BJ that reaches climax can last up to 40mins+ or so for me... once you're at that tipping point where you feel it, the face-fvcking will do it.

 

[LoneWolf]

Sex:

Use lube to assist and if the condom is a distraction, go in raw instead. If she's a virgin, you shouldn't have to worry about STD's..

Well I WAS thinking about this but I'm scared she would get pregnant... even pre-c/um can make a woman pregnant. I feel though that I would probably get in without the condom.. just risky.

 

[HGKnights]

I took the virginity of an ex-gf of mine (she took mine as well haha) quite a few years back. What I did, is I pretty much stuck to fingerbanging her and using tongue to try and loosen it up before I introduced sex.

Another thing is rub your penis against her *****, it's quite sex, but it'll loosen it up a little, and it still feels good.

 

[LoneWolf]

With a condom though? I wish I could do all that without a condom but it's risky.

 

[HGKnights]

no happy hat, i usually grinded it with the shaft, not really the end.

 

[LoneWolf]

Precum can sometimes get them pregnant.. that's why I'm scared to get too close with no condom. I wish I could but I don't wanna end up with a baby. I have precum always dripping out of my penis when we're naked so I know that if I rubbed up against her naked, no condom, she'll get some of that clear precum stuff in her.

 

[CuriousGirl]

I'm quite surprised lube seems to be the only answer for the sex problem, yes extra lubrication will help but it really won't work wonders and won't relax her. If you find this is the case then let me know and I'll give my advice.

 

[LoneWolf]

I tried some chapstick but after heard it wasn't the best lube lol. Apart from that it may just be that she was scared and nervous about me finally entering her. She's never had any man touch her before or even kiss her the way I have. She has been missing out a lot.

Anyway, it was really frustrating and exhausting for me the two times/nights that we tried to have sex. I just got fed up and pissed off because it just would not go in and I'd go limp after a while. The times I was hard and ready to enter, the best that happened was me getting the top of my penis just touching the entrance of her vagina and trying to push in but it was just too small/tight to go in. I felt so lost because all the other girls I've had sex with, I just went and slide my penis in with such ease. I think we just need to keep trying. Just sucks when you're horny and want sex and it doesn't happen

I even fingered her so much to get her decently wet and I'm sure she had some sort of orgasm because she let out a loud yell and shook her body.

It's all about relaxing and loosening up right? The lube is just part of helping? Could it be that she might just be too tight being asian?

 

[Leporello]

You've never seen a girl cvm?

An orgasm is basically a muscle spasm. If you were inside her you'd feel to tighten at the moment of orgasm, but if her body jerked in a spasmodic way it's a good sign.

 

[metoo]

Jeez, you guys never heard of vibrators. Use one on her, at about 1 oclock, facing her, the **** at 12 noon, ok? the vibrator is outside of her love hole, but inside of her outer lips, basically. Eat her as she holds the vibrator, maybe even 69, with her on top, if she is ok with that. Make certain that you know what her cums look like, then get her NEARLY ready to ***, then pop her cherry, she will want it so badly at that point that the cocaine and amyl nitrate wont be necessary. They are illegal in most countries anyway, and have been known to cause serious health problems, especially in petite women and first time users.