Sex and love are human needs

[Dhoulmagus]

The you don't need sex is bs. Since Ive gotten laid, I feel way better about my self and ****. There are the people that choose to abstain from sex, but they probably have a gf and hobby to compensate for that. Being unable to get laid is just mentally draining and bad for the soul. Its like a catch 22 because the only cure is sex, but the attitude it gives you will keep from obtaining sex.

 

[JoeMarron]

Holy sh!t...you made a post that not only is devoid of whining but actually makes a good point. Sex and love are human needs and this post is proof of that. No sex, no affection, no touch, men simply can't function properly with that much deprivation. It's bad enough to where dudes will go gay in prison in order to get it.

 

[Yo'Mama]

Agree 100%. I found love but stopped being interested in sex with her so i lost it. I question the decision every day and fought it for so long but i realised i needed both. But i know myself and i will never have both for very long so i will never be happy. Unless i cheat. There is no other solution.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I agree unfortunately us guys are expected to make our purpose, mission in life our first, top priority among everything else, etc., it feels like a boring thing to focus on if you are not getting laid or are single

 

[GotED?]

What has come to this place...

Did you all grow a gold plated vag!na, got in touch with your feelings - and now want to talk about it??

 

[JoeMarron]

Agree 100%. I found love but stopped being interested in sex with her so i lost it. I question the decision every day and fought it for so long but i realised i needed both. But i know myself and i will never have both for very long so i will never be happy. Unless i cheat. There is no other solution.

This may sound outrageous to the less monogamous types but I actively train myself to only desire sex with my chick. I don't watch porn, I don't look at erotic images, I don't fantasize about other women, my only sexual outlet comes from my chick so it becomes a hell of a lot easier to stay interested in her.

I agree unfortunately us guys are expected to make our purpose, mission in life our first, top priority among everything else, etc., it feels like a boring thing to focus on if you are not getting laid or are single

I don't see a problem with making getting better with women a priority. If it's something that's bothering you and you really want to get it handled then go ahead and do something about it.

 

[skinnyguy]

Agree.

Guys spend copious amounts of time trying to get women. I would say they spend at least 30% of their lives trying to get women although I may be off.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

This may sound outrageous to the less monogamous types but I actively train myself to only desire sex with my chick. I don't watch porn, I don't look at erotic images, I don't fantasize about other women, my only sexual outlet comes from my chick so it becomes a hell of a lot easier to stay interested in her.



I don't see a problem with making getting better with women a priority. If it's something that's bothering you and you really want to get it handled then go ahead and do something about it.

well maybe I've been brain-washed the wrong way, it's because according to David Deida in the book titled "The way of the Superior Man", he states that your Purpose must come before your relationship, I assume he is also implying while you are single as well, so that's where i'm getting at, and yes I'm working with David Wygant, that's me taking action and doing something about it, it's just I want to make sure I don't enter into desperation territory