friv, for the sake of us not getting into an argument i'll forgo commenting on your post
i think its normal for hte sex drive to go down. i mean, after ive been with a woman for 6 months, or roughly 60 bangs, it starts to get old.
i mean, sure its still nice, but i don't want it from her every moment of every day.
i assume the same goes for women as well. for them its probably even worse, because many of them see sex a tool to keep a guy interested. so once they've got him, their motivation for it changes.
but i guess it also comes down to what you consider often and how hectic your lives are.
if you're only getting it once a month or something, then ya, something is wrong.
95% of the time i find its that the woman doesn't feel "sexy" anymore. a woman needs to feel "wanted" to get in the mood usually. try dropping some comments like "wow, you're ass is looking good today" and then walk away.
do that for a while and she'll start feeling like you really want her.
ive also found that women in their 30s want it a lot more than younger women. women in their 30s, if they are really into you, will give it to you 2-3 times a day for months.
J