Seriously pissed off. What would you do?

Black_Italian

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Its not really much trouble i would just much rather have fun with her a little instead of ending the relationship. Its obviously not going to go anywhere and she tried to **** him over so he ****s her over. Then again i do have a lot of time on my hands so i got to do something to entertain my self.

Ninja out
 

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well, look at the bright side. You are DJ enough and have enough control over womans emotions that you can make them do ridiculous things just so they can be around you.

Well done!

:D
 

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He's not gonna dump her...I think if you are going to do it, you must be swift.

Thinking about it will only lead to "forgiveness". This is someone who instead of fitting into your life goals/career, tried to destroy them. Good luck with her.
 

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How would maintaining the relationship benefit you?
 

mrRuckus

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Originally posted by Centaurion

How would you handle this? Do you think I'm overreacting?

Get her to do all sorts of things to to make up for being such a b1tch and then break up with her saying "nah wasn't good enough."

If she stoops to this kind of garbage what other crazy things will she do later on?
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
;)

Thats sounds r*tarded Black Italian, but hey, each to his own I guess.


No, wyldfire, she did not come to me and talk about it. Hell, if she'd done that we wouldn't be in this situation that we are today.

You bring up a valid point about the sex though. I just assumed that humping like a Duracel bunny on Viagra on the weekends was enough. Guess I'm wrong :( I'll take that to heart.

She has been calling me non-stop since it happened. And the one time I picked up she was crying real bad, and to be honest, I'm kinda torn right now. Some part of me says (as many others on this board) that I should dump the b*tch and don't look back, while another part of me tells me to just stick it through.

I think the best thing for me to do is to cool off for a while.
Well, if you're torn then just take some time and don't do anything just yet. Process it all first and then decide. I will say this much, though...what she did was a pretty horrible betrayal and violation of your trust. It will take some time and effort to get that back...if you even can. I guess you just have to figure out if overall she is worth the effort to you.
 

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The bottom line is, her actions were inappropriate no matter what went in the background. If you stay with her don't be surprised what she might think of throwing at you next.
 

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Wow if she would do that, I caution you about breaking up with her.

BE VERY CAREFUL. She might be unstable and cause all types of harm.

She if you can't get her to break up with you by going AFC on her.

You definitely don't want to stay with her long term.
 

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Thanks for all the replies guys (and gals of course :p).

I am happy to inform you that it is over. What she did was a major violation of my trust and the faith I had in her is gone. Too bad actually, cause I believed that this might have gone somewhere. But hey, that's life.

Heh, the breakup was kinda funny though. After reading a couple of threads on here about how the chick went apesh*t with the guys stuff after a breakup, I thought it would be best to get all my stuff (couple of dvds and a laptop) from her place.

So I took LIT's advice (in another thread).

I went over to her place with a buddy of mine. She was of course relieved to see me, cause she thought I'd forgive her and everything would be a dance on roses. I just acted civil, gave her a hug and asked her how she was etc. I casually asked her if she had my dvds cause a friend of mine wanted to borrow them, and that I needed my laptop for school. When my ass was clear, I dropped the bomb.

Her reaction was totally the opposite of what I had expected. Instead of going ballistic, as I had imagined she would, she suddenly became cold, really really cold. She gave me this really cold stare, and went 'I see...'. I explained to her that what she did was a major violation of my trust and faith in her. It was really disrespecting, and if she had come to me instead of going behind my back to my boss, this would never have happened.

Her response : 'I see....'

The little voice in my head just went 'Uh uh bro, you're fooked'.

Seriously, I never knew she had this side of her. Her reaction kinda shocked me, any normal person would show some for of emotions, but she went all cold as ice on my ass. Makes my think if she's got a surprise or two up in her sleeve for me.

God knows what she will do next. So my fellow DJs, if you don't hear from me in the next week or so, I'm problem lying in a ditch somewhere dead.
 

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Well I would imagine that she was preparing for that possibility and had her damage control mechanisms up.
 

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See this is why I don't leave my stuff at strange women's houses. Even if I'm dating them.
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I would love to be in your situation. At this point I would start mind *****ng her. Play with her head convince her that your a SPY leave little bits of evidence that clue to this or convince her your an ALIEN. OK I know it sounds stupid but don’t underestimate how gullible humans really are especially females.

If you leave things laying around that hint to something shell put the pieces together and she will actually believe it. This does sound childish but she’s ****ing with your life so you **** with her head. I’ve done this before its so much fun to watch I actually convinced a smart well educated girl I was a trained ninja/assassin without ever saying a word about it.

**** with her head.

Ninja out
that sounds sooo dope!
 

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I think what you did was fine. Just change your phone number. :0


...
and move.
 

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Centaurion i just wrote 20 minutes worth of post

giving the 2 times when girlfriends have done this to me

slightly different to yours but with the same result

my stupid 5 button optical mouse went back and now i lost it all


:mad:


ok enough despair i will try and do real short version

chick 1 : rang my work pretending to be government department of child support and saying she needed to talk to me about money owed

i have no child with her

she knew i wouldn't take her call so this was the crazy b*tches idea of getting me to talk to her ?

worst part was they didnt transfer the call through

the b*tch that answers the phones kept the call and called me down the front

and infront of 3 other people SAID OUT LOUD where my lying ex gf ( broke up 6 months ago ) was with child support and the governement

it was like someone slapped me

i went to my desk and took the call and my ex gf said she was sorry but she missed me

i told her if she ever called me again i would call the police

theres more but i lost it when my mouse went back :(


CHICK 2 :

stalked me outside my pizza job

i saw her car and went over

i said what are you doing here ?

she said " i am following you "

i said " why ? "

she said : " because i think you are cheating on me "

NOW THIS B*TCH WAS CHEATING ON ME ! and instead of feel guilty she assumed i was cheating and went violent crazy mad

i managed to talk her into leaving

i then dumped her the next day. 4 days later i quit my job at dominos pizza.


I WILL NEVER TELL ANYONE WHERE I WORK OR LIVE AGAIN

sorry Centaurion theres alot more gaps to fill in the 2 stories

it has only happened to me twice with job related crazy b*tches

alot of my women have been cool

alot of them have been mental lol

I TRUST NONE OF THEM


paranoid ? yeah but with good reason !


Lost In Translation :D

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