Serious topic: My best friend's dad has cancer

[Production6257]

I just found out today that my best friend's dad has little hope to live. What do I say next time I see my friend? Should i keep quiet and let him bring it up or should I say something? I'm kind of at a loss right now.

 

[amoka]

How did you find out his father has cancer? Would your friend be angry if he finds out that so and so told you? If you think he will be angry, then don't tell hime. Alternatively, you can say: " Hey Joy, how is the family doing?" He'll say fine.... if he wan't you to know of his father's health conditions, I'm sure he'll tell you in a heart bit...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Just be straight up with him.

"Hey, I heard about your dad. Let me know if I can do anything."

He'll let you know.

 

[Production6257]

Alrite thanks a lot guys. I think i will mention it when I see him. I appreciate the responses.

 

[Porky]

My mother had cancer and I didn't bring it up with anybody. I think I told only two or three of my friends, and to this day almost none of them know about it.

tell him you love him (it's okay) and that you're there for him, and that if there's anything at all you can do for him he should let you know.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Poooooooorkyyyyyyyyy.

I loooooooooveeeeeeeeee you toooooooooo.

Wanna get together and have some ass sex? We'll take turns.



You mean like that?

 

[dannowillbookem]

Poooooooorkyyyyyyyyy.

I loooooooooveeeeeeeeee you toooooooooo.

Wanna get together and have some ass sex? We'll take turns.



You mean like that?

shut up you moron.

id take it slow with him, if my dad had cancer and little hope to live im not gonna want it to get around.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

shut up you moron.

id take it slow with him, if my dad had cancer and little hope to live im not gonna want it to get around.

Say it like a man. You don't have to get all emotional and be like "I love you"... tear. "Do you need a hug?"

No. You just say "I'm sorry to hear that, it must be hard for you. If you need anything, I'm here to help."

See the difference?



I'll give you a hint: One is creepy and one is not.