Serious or just innocent flirtation?

[Ayanara]

Hey guys,

FYI, I'm a female.

I've been friends with "Greg" for over 10 years now. We've supported each other through some very trying times over the past two years, which included dealing with some difficult breakups for both of us. IMO, we've always given each other straight-forward, honest advice when it comes to dealing with our respective relationships (i.e., no ulterior motives). We compliment each other often, and know that one another are a "great catch" for the right/lucky person.

I do believe we're both attracted to each other. Recently, we've began some pretty serious flirting, complete with sexual innuendo. Thing is, he's usually a bit tipsy when this flirtation takes place, and most of it is via text or email, so I'm finding it darn near impossible to tell if he's serious - if he'd really, truly be interested in "something," and what exactly that "something" would be has me even more confused. I've tried to be more blatant and obvious, to which he usually goes quiet or comes back with some coy response.

Help? Any other info you need?

 

[Jon55]

Tips, you post them here.

Questions go in Don Juan Discussion. Please try and actually read the little descriptions.

 

[afrojiggles]

mmm....why dont you break the ice and lead the poor dude on and see what sognals he may give you ??? :cheer: :woo:

 

[ARrocket]

yeah, you're in the wrong forum.

IMO it all depends on your gut feeling...do you really think he's into you, or is it just wishful thinking?

Increase the amount of physical contact....keep going until he becomes uncomfortable. If he doesn't, then you're in

 

[Ayanara]

Sorry guys. I actually meant to post this in "The Mature Man." But thanks for the warm welcome.

 

[ARrocket]

Sorry guys. I actually meant to post this in "The Mature Man." But thanks for the warm welcome.

lol it's cool. But at least you got some advice

 

[true romance]

I've been friends with "Greg" for over 10 years now. We've supported each other through some very trying times over the past two years, which included dealing with some difficult breakups for both of us. IMO, we've always given each other straight-forward, honest advice when it comes to dealing with our respective relationships (i.e., no ulterior motives). We compliment each other often, and know that one another are a "great catch" for the right/lucky person


when he flirt, you should escalate the flriting to see if he is serious.challenge him . or ask him directly...you know for sure.

 

[Nighthawk]

If you're hot, he wants to do you. If you're not so hot, he'll probably be up for doing you anyway. If you're fat and ugly, he probably wouldn't be flirting with you, unless he's desperate or into that. So on balance I'd say he's interested.

 

[The Sperminator]

I flirt with one of my good female friends all the time but I don't like her like that. Just innocent flirting.

 

[SilverSliver]

The fact that he does it while drunk may mean he needs liquid courage to flirt cause he's nervous. Try flirting with him when he is sober and see if he flirts back with you.