Senior DJs 20 and older: How can I become better?

[NSUballer]

Im 20 in college and play football. Im in good shape 6'1 225 broad shoulders and built. Basically im a phyical specimen. most women think im attractive( i know this because ive been told that alot). I can talk to almost anyone. Especially after a few drinks. I dont have trouble with girls most of the time. Had a GF a few months back and she was pretty hot. But that went south.

Now Im at the point where I only go after HB7 and above. I refuse to settle for less. Im not a mean person and Ill talk to all kids of girls but I wont get involved with any girl I dont think is Attractive enough for me(girls would always tell me Im too cute for my EX gf). Im sure alot of attractive females think this also. The thing is I dont like having to chase girls. Its fun sometimes when they respond like you expect but some dont. Some girls seem like theyre into me one minute but act like theyre not the next. Is this some kid of defense to project that theyre not easy? I have trouble with girls like this. I dont like girls that are too easy but I dont like the ones that are too hard to get. How can I overcome this?

 

[L777]

Im 20 in college and play football. Im in good shape 6'1 225 broad shoulders and built. Basically im a phyical specimen.

You won't improve until you stop posting your stats and attractiveness on every single post. I'm sure you were 'cool' in high school, but thats different to being actually, a cool person. I know people bigger than you (rugby players) who are the nicest guys you will meet, never show off or anything, would never boast, and get laid with the hottest of hot girls.

Seriously man, just learn to become cool, I'm sure if you are as godly as you make out (and I have my suspicions) that this should be easy for you.

It just seems that everything you do on this forum (even your name) is geared towards telling people about your size, looks and the fact that you play American Football....which comes off as deeply insecure. Things like this don't impress ppl, it makes ppl think worse of you, and that goes for ppl in real life as well. You'll probably find out one day when you don't make it as an American Footballer and are in the real world, away from the "frats" or whatever.

If everyone did what you did you'd be surprised how many ppl have achieved amazing things, have good bodies etc, but most ppl have the social intelligence to not do that. Does that answer your question? If not then you still don't get it.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

^^^2nded

First you are like "my gf was hot" and then later "Everyone says i was too cute for my gf" then you tell us you like to get girls that arent too easy and arent too hard. This aint Goldilocks and the three bears dude. What you need is to submerse yourself in DJ skills and ideas, coz it seems like you are coasting by on your looks and when a chick is not impressed by that you are SOL. Every compliment you give yourself is based on physical features and every comment you talk about people giving you is superficial also.

Read the bible, and get some knowledge on game that doesnt rely solely on looks. Practice gaming chicks while sober.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You won't improve until you stop posting your stats and attractiveness on every single post.

:crackup:

I'm sure you were 'cool' in high school, but thats different to being actually, a cool person.

:yes:

It just seems that everything you do on this forum (even your name) is geared towards telling people about your size, looks and the fact that you play American Football....which comes off as deeply insecure. Things like this don't impress ppl, it makes ppl think worse of you, and that goes for ppl in real life as well. You'll probably find out one day when you don't make it as an American Footballer and are in the real world, away from the "frats" or whatever.

It's a bit different here in the states, we're typically a bit more superficial (especially the young people). Americans usually define themselves by external means (look how great I look, look at what I have) and it does impress most people. I think we have a morbid tendency to compare ourselves to other people in order to gage our personal happiness.

 

[Jlaix]

Im 20 in college and play football. Im in good shape 6'1 225 broad shoulders and built. Basically im a phyical specimen. most women think im attractive( i know this because ive been told that alot). I can talk to almost anyone. Especially after a few drinks. I dont have trouble with girls most of the time. Had a GF a few months back and she was pretty hot. But that went south.

Now Im at the point where I only go after HB7 and above. I refuse to settle for less. Im not a mean person and Ill talk to all kids of girls but I wont get involved with any girl I dont think is Attractive enough for me(girls would always tell me Im too cute for my EX gf). Im sure alot of attractive females think this also. The thing is I dont like having to chase girls. Its fun sometimes when they respond like you expect but some dont. Some girls seem like theyre into me one minute but act like theyre not the next. Is this some kid of defense to project that theyre not easy? I have trouble with girls like this. I dont like girls that are too easy but I dont like the ones that are too hard to get. How can I overcome this?

You sound like you have potential...forget sosuave and head over to the real seduction community. venusianarts.com/forum, fastseduction.com/discussion, themysterymethod.com/forum

Trust Me.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

^^^^lol

 

[L777]

You sound like you have potential...forget sosuave and head over to the real seduction community. venusianarts.com/forum, fastseduction.com/discussion, themysterymethod.com/forum

Trust Me.

not more routines junkies. Can't you get laid using your own charisma and personality, rather than Mystery's?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

not more routines junkies. Can't you get laid using your own charisma and personality, rather than Mystery's?

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Gangster Of Love]

not more routines junkies. Can't you get laid using your own charisma and personality, rather than Mystery's?

To answer the question. Well, I think most know the answer.

 

[Jlaix]

not more routines junkies. Can't you get laid using your own charisma and personality, rather than Mystery's?

Dude, you are behind the times, I'm with RSD, we use no canned material.

Sorry, bud

 

[L777]

Dude, you are behind the times, I'm with RSD, we use no canned material.

Sorry, bud

Sorry 'dude', I don't follow individual PUAs no matter how much the community worships them...good for you.

 

[NSUballer]

Well I hate to sound so conceited but im just being honest ON THIS FORUM. I dont act like a ****y @sshole In real life bc im not like that. Im just being honest so I can get some real feedback from someone that just might know what Im talkin about.

Im not insecure at all believe it or not. I have no reason to be. I just finished a beast workout so im feelin good about that at the moment. And I got a call from a HB7.5 as soon as I walked in the locker room. No insecurity here. And as far as being "cool" I think im ok there really. I have alot of really good friends and I know alot of people and get along with almost anyone. But as far as im concerned there is always roome for improvement.

 

[NSUballer]

And how can I "not make it" as a footballer. I play on the second highest level of football next to the NFL. As far as im concerned Ive already made it. I would really like to see one of your footballers or rugby players try to play football here in the US and see them get smoked. American football is far more advanced than those two sports. I would also like to see some of our footballers play your rugby. Reggie bush would have a field day with them

 

[Jason88]

And how can I "not make it" as a footballer. I play on the second highest level of football next to the NFL. As far as im concerned Ive already made it. I would really like to see one of your footballers or rugby players try to play football here in the US and see them get smoked. American football is far more advanced than those two sports. I would also like to see some of our footballers play your rugby. Reggie bush would have a field day with them

Yeah you better be playing in the SEC if your playing in the second highest level of Football next to the NFL. If you are playing at Northwestern State... I got news for you..there's community college teams around my area that play at a higher level than you do.

I'm not trying to start anything...but stop trash talking to the Brits and acting like you're basically in the NFL.

 

[L777]

And how can I "not make it" as a footballer. I play on the second highest level of football next to the NFL. As far as im concerned Ive already made it. I would really like to see one of your footballers or rugby players try to play football here in the US and see them get smoked. American football is far more advanced than those two sports. I would also like to see some of our footballers play your rugby. Reggie bush would have a field day with them

lol don't get me started on football vs American football. Our game actually takes skill to play.

And rugby players don't wear pads and helmets...I think that's a bit soft tbh.

 

[L777]

Yeah you better be playing in the SEC if your playing in the second highest level of Football next to the NFL. If you are playing at Northwestern State... I got news for you..there's community college teams around my area that play at a higher level than you do.

I'm not trying to start anything...but stop trash talking to the Brits and acting like you're basically in the NFL.

Wahey. Sit down lad

 

[Jason88]

Wahey. Sit down lad

And about American vs. European Football... First I have tremendous respect for Soccer...and it really takes different skills to play both sports.

As for rugby and no pads... It really doesn't matter. I've played both rugby and football and have seen far more serious injuries in football. Whenever you have football players running 15-20yards full sprint and just laying the wood on someone, then pads really don't matter. Also players lead with the helmets and once you get ear holed by someone else's helmet then you can start judging which is worse.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Just because what they teach doesn't work for you doesn't mean it can't work for others. It's funny how you're teaching the OP about insecurity. Every time someone mentions a website outside of sosuave it seems you're always the first one to try and put them down by labeling them a "routine junkie".

He uses his insecurities and hating tactics to create "Natural" charisma. Who needs these routine monkeys.

 

[Wyldfire]

NSU...it is the girls job to get you to want to ask her out...but it's your job to take action on those signals she sends you. If she sends you signals and you just sit back and wait for her to come to you then you'll be cuffing your puppy an awful lot. Approach, watch for signals of interest and when you see those signals then ask her out. Females want the male to lead in most cases and it requires some effort on your part. No, you don't need to bend over backwards but you do have to ask them out, plan the dates and engage the other person.