Senior and never even danced with a girl! PLEASE HELP ME ON MY MISSION!

[Juice09]

So I am a senior in highschool, I have never danced, kissed, had a girlfriend...nothing. I know, very lame. By the end of highschool I really want to get laid, I know if I dont I will regret it for the rest of my life. I really, really need all the help I can get. I am very serious about this, If you are a troll PLEASE DO NOT POST HERE! I am a real guy and I really desperately want this.

At school, I have very little friends, I have no friends I can hang out with during lunch...I have them, I just dont want to bother anyone, I dont have fun with them... I actually sleep on the toilet...pathetic, I know, I just don't like to be seen alone during lunch and I dont have fun with my friends. I can socialize well, I just can never pull the trigger, in anything in life...I cant ask for help, I cant ask if for if I can go with person A or B...I just dont want to seem annoying.

We have 10 minute breaks in between classes. I usually walk the halls alone. I like it, I feel it might make me look creepy, but maybe mysterious to some girls? I dont know what girls like...thats not good.

Why did I even mention all this? Well it validates my next point being that I cant get girls outside of school because I cant get any people to help me. I want one from the school, its the only way. I live out in the middle of no where and don't have a car anyways, I take a school bus to school and there are no public busses where I live. So they must be from school. I spend 90% of my free time playing games on my computer and smoking weed while I do it.


The one thing I have on my side is I am very good looking, at least I think I am, well, I guess I know I am (obviously it still doesn't help my confidence) girls look at me a lot in the halls and in class, attractive ones and not so attractive ones, I can't tell if it is because I am attractive or not but I think it is.

They don't smile they just look at my face until I look at them... they look away very quickly when I get close or look at them back...or maybe its me who does that when I look at them looking at me... There are ALOT of girls who do this, often the same ones. I dont know what to do without looking creepy here, Like I said I cant pull the trigger for ****, so obviously that means I have approach anxiety with people I don't know well, I feel like I cant be sure that they are actually interested or not...how can I tell? How should I approach them? What do I do??

Its only girls who do this by the way, never guys, I am completely invisible to most guys. No guys ever mess with me though, the first and last time some guy did in the halls I gave him a world class ass kicking ( I am very skinny and 5'8 but I am a 1st degree black belt ), he was a lot bigger then me too, this isn't a very big deal with girls because it was a while back 2 years ago. I am in a very small school where everyone knows everyone though.


Please help me, I really wanted to get things going this year... I missed winter formal already...thats one thing I will never get to experience in my life now, its going to kill me if I miss prom too...PLEASE HELP!!! In any way you can, motivate me, give me advice...ANYTHING! If you need any more info please let me know.

I'm a senior this year too, I had the same problem until my Junior year. I've been there.

Thanks for affirming the reality that good looks aren't going to help you if you have no game. Neither is money or style. Sounds like your problem is that you just don't have any game, and that is the most essential part of it. I'm more concerned with your friend problem though. You need some close friends who will always have your back. Bros before hoes and all that.

Talking to women alone isn't going to get you laid, that's just the first step. How many men have "turned their lives around" in High School and began talking to every woman they saw, but never gotten laid. It happens all the time, because they're still typical nice guy's who end up getting tossed into the friend category.

Read some David Deangelo material, ****y and funny is perfect for the High school environment. Detach yourself from the outcome. Tease girls, bust on them, have fun with them. Don't treat them like they are the prize, act like you're the prize. It sounds arrogant, but try it out.

Walk around with good posture, back straight, head tilted up, and with some swagger and style in your walk. Get some good clothes too. I don't know where you live, but PacSun is a great place to get clothes. A little expensive, but you only need some t-shirts and jeans. When a girl compliments you on your clothing, you can joke that she's totally into you. Something like "I'm not giving you my number, so just stop with the compliments."

If a girl looks at you in the eyes as she's walking down the hall, she's into you. Say "Don't waste all that good eye contact, come talk to me." And start your game on her.

If you want to get laid, don't be afraid to talk about sex. That was one of the issues I had, I thought that girls would think of me as a pervert if I even brought it up. In reality, I was just desexualizing myself. You're a man, don't hide who you are.

Also, it's been said already, but don't smoke too much weed. You need a mind that is capable of thinking of good material simultaneously as you speak with women.