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Rollo posted this link on relationship game in another thread:
http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/08/26/relationship-game-thoughts/
The first line jumped out at me:
"If your girlfriend is complaining about your selfishness, you’re doing it right."
This jumped out at me becaue I had just been thinking how a lot of the mindset that is advocated here can be summed up by saying "be selfish".
Be the center of attention, be the leader of your group, take what you want, all that stuff.
So here's the question: Do women find the trait of selfishness attractive?
A selfish man might work harder to better himself and make sure he has all that he needs. He is invested in himself. I could see how that might appeal to a woman who is programmed to seek a high status providing male.
One other thought:
It's kind of funny when you ponder how minute and insignificant our existence is compared to the scope of the universe (or multiverse), and compare this to pickup advice telling you to walk around thinking you're the sh!t all the time.
http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/08/26/relationship-game-thoughts/
The first line jumped out at me:
"If your girlfriend is complaining about your selfishness, you’re doing it right."
This jumped out at me becaue I had just been thinking how a lot of the mindset that is advocated here can be summed up by saying "be selfish".
Be the center of attention, be the leader of your group, take what you want, all that stuff.
So here's the question: Do women find the trait of selfishness attractive?
A selfish man might work harder to better himself and make sure he has all that he needs. He is invested in himself. I could see how that might appeal to a woman who is programmed to seek a high status providing male.
One other thought:
It's kind of funny when you ponder how minute and insignificant our existence is compared to the scope of the universe (or multiverse), and compare this to pickup advice telling you to walk around thinking you're the sh!t all the time.