Self-respect is everything

[JohnyTheArrow]

Self-respect is everything.It's you.

That's my conclusion. Most problems with women and men can be solved by just one rule - 'self-respect'. Self-respect implies value and power.Would a king let someone disrespect him ? Would a mafia boss let someone disrespect him ? Would anyone with power let someone disrespect him ? Women are always fishing for lack of self respect because it implies you are low value.
Frame is self-respect and integrity of this action.You are the wall, the rock, the mountain.Not only it makes you powerful and loveable it makes you happy.

Here is story I will share with you.

"My crazy sister-in-law got pissed at her boyfriend for not taking off work when she got sick. She packed his stuff up and put it at the door so he'd see it when he got home. I think in her mind he'd freak out and beg for her forgiveness. Instead he got home, saw his things, put them in his car, and left."

The man had two choices.To respect or disrespect himself.He chose first option and he became a legend, if he just give in, he would be another looser who submitted out of fear of losing a bytch and nobody would share any story about him.

Some guy on the forum posted man should chase girl even if disrespected because you can still fvck her.True.But I disagree.First it will not be best sex because she won't give same service as to some she respects.Second it makes you less happy - you gave up on yourself.Third- it makes holes in your self-respect integrity.
If you instantly delete people who disrespect you , you have more emotional energy and more time for people who do respect you.
In 48 Law of Power, Robert, writes man should never rely on love in relationships with people as it never eternal feeling but on more durable -respect or fear.When woman shyttest you, she basically asks, 'do you have self-respect' ? 'do you value yourself ?' 'do you love yourself ?' and they are right because if don't have self-respect you are a disgusting ****roach.
Anytime you doubt how to react to woman actions ask yourself if you have self - respect.It always gives you right answer.Act accordingly to the rule.

 

[om1xr]

this is a good post but most people are chasing happiness and fullfilment in external things or in people but that will only bring you short term pleasure but for the rest of time you will keep looking for things to find yourself or to find a source of pleasure.

my philosophy in life combine 3 ideas:

1- everything is impermanent from thoughts to emotions to beliefs to pleasures to love to whatever else

2- whatever happen you should treat it with " WELL FVCK IT ". a girl flake well fvck it. you didn't get that job you want well fvck it and the list goes on

3-life is a playground. nothing is serious! only your mind made it so. life has no destination. the journey is the destination. period.

master your mind, thoughts, emotions and impulses and you will be happy and truly respect yourself and live a great life. either if you have a girl beside you at night or you are reading a book or just enjoying listening to music.

most of you will just read and go but for the people who will practice this. you'll go so far and get that abundance mentality and I don't give a fvck attitude that you'll get you what you want in life.

 

[Trump]

"My crazy sister-in-law got pissed at her boyfriend for not taking off work when she got sick. She packed his stuff up and put it at the door so he'd see it when he got home. I think in her mind he'd freak out and beg for her forgiveness. Instead he got home, saw his things, put them in his car, and left."

The man had two choices.To respect or disrespect himself.He chose first option and he became a legend, if he just give in, he would be another looser who submitted out of fear of losing a bytch and nobody would share any story about him.

The girl could also think you have no self respect because you didn't say anything, you accept whatever she does or says.

I don't know bro, I don't think its that black and white. As long as you are working towards the same goal and have confidence, you got to be able to take some hits and move on. And as long as you protect your assets and mental health, its all good. If you are going to drop every single girl you are attracted to who may put you down here and there, it's gonna be a long winter. Just laugh it off and move on.

Can't really show up a party or gathering and say: "Yeah I got no girlfriend but my self respect is 110%."

 

[amazingswayze]

You learn by doing things.

The girl could also think you have no self respect because you didn't say anything, you accept whatever she does or says.

I don't know bro, I don't think its that black and white. As long as you are working towards the same goal and have confidence, you got to be able to take some hits and move on. And as long as you protect your assets and mental health, its all good. If you are going to drop every single girl you are attracted to who may put you down here and there, it's gonna be a long winter. Just laugh it off and move on.

Can't really show up a party or gathering and say: "Yeah I got no girlfriend but my self respect is 110%."

There's some guys who are secure with their lack of experience with women. That may be true but I don't believe it. It's possible though.

One thing I know though, is that you don't need a girlfriend to have high self respect.

Let's dodge these sheisty ho'z and pursue the high IL one's. It's not an easy process but I guess my self respect and ability to turn down the wrong type of girl will increase with experience. I'm not worried. You learn by doing things.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Can't really show up a party or gathering and say: "Yeah I got no girlfriend but my self respect is 110%."

1.Yes you can
2. If you cant gf who didnt break self respect rule you shouldnt be with her

You sound incredibly weak, if you cant stand social pressure of being single and feeling good about it then you can do shyt in this life.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

The story about him picking his stuff up and leaving is great. Well done I say.

Still if it were me, I probably couldnt help knocking on the door (its HER place now!) and telling her to sort the final utility bills etc out and let me know what my share was. Then leave. Good story though.

 

[Poon King]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to JohnyTheArrow again.

Spot on post.

And this is really ALL most men need to know about life.

If YOU don't care about yourself, your needs, your wants, your goals, your health, etc.. neither will anyone else and neither will any woman. Simple as that.

Self-respect trumps all things related to women. Which is why I always say a man MUST be able to find happiness while being single and independent. If a man cannot find happiness without female attention.. then he is a slave and a loser. Furthermore, female validation will always trump self-respect for such a man.. BECAUSE he has framed this validation as something he cannot live without.

 

[Trump]

1.Yes you can
2. If you cant gf who didnt break self respect rule you shouldnt be with her

You sound incredibly weak, if you cant stand social pressure of being single and feeling good about it then you can do shyt in this life.

Yeah bro you are right, good post.

 

[G_Govan]

Glad to see this kind of thinking being promoted.