So a girl I fvcked last weekend stole from me. I was at her place and she wanted to get some drink and some other stuff. (I rarely drink or party) I told her she could get it but I wasn't interested in drinking and the rest of it. She complained for a while so eventually I agreed to go halves and indulge with her.
I gave her my debit card to go and withdraw money for my half. I later find out she withdrew the full amount and paid for everything with my cash.
I text her the next day asking her what the game is. She says she's sorry and she totally forgot and she will pay me back either way. I send my bank details for her to pay.
4 days later still nothing. So I text her asking what's going on. 2 days later she says she was out of the country and apologises. She then starts saying that I owe her for the drink that I had already consumed at her place (even though she invited me there) which is a ridiculous argument no way near covers the cost of what I paid.
I tell her she already agreed to pay me back and that her argument is ridiculous.
She then says she withdrew the money and gave it me which is total bs and she knows it.
So now I'm really annoyed and calling her a thief etc and she's telling me she doesn't like the way I am disrespecting her over text and that she is really disappointed with the way that I am handling this situation.
I'm fuming over this because
1. principle. It's not about the money, it's the principle of a girl thinking she is entitled to steal from someone and that her entitlement allows her to label this stealing as an 'honest mistake'. The amount of money she took wasn't a large amount (£60) and it's not important, it's the fact she took it without asking.
2. She gets everything given to her anyway, her dad is a millionaire and money is nothing to her.
3. She knows exactly what she is doing.
This girl is my ex's best friend so I am threatening to tell my ex that we slept together which will hopefully ruin the relationship for her. We also fvcked a couple years back and i'm happy to disclose that as well.
Any thoughts on how to deal with this? I've told this girl what I intend to do if she doesn't pay me and now she's trying to stall the situation.. I wondering whether to just take the hit and tell my ex.
I gave her my debit card to go and withdraw money for my half. I later find out she withdrew the full amount and paid for everything with my cash.
I text her the next day asking her what the game is. She says she's sorry and she totally forgot and she will pay me back either way. I send my bank details for her to pay.
4 days later still nothing. So I text her asking what's going on. 2 days later she says she was out of the country and apologises. She then starts saying that I owe her for the drink that I had already consumed at her place (even though she invited me there) which is a ridiculous argument no way near covers the cost of what I paid.
I tell her she already agreed to pay me back and that her argument is ridiculous.
She then says she withdrew the money and gave it me which is total bs and she knows it.
So now I'm really annoyed and calling her a thief etc and she's telling me she doesn't like the way I am disrespecting her over text and that she is really disappointed with the way that I am handling this situation.
I'm fuming over this because
1. principle. It's not about the money, it's the principle of a girl thinking she is entitled to steal from someone and that her entitlement allows her to label this stealing as an 'honest mistake'. The amount of money she took wasn't a large amount (£60) and it's not important, it's the fact she took it without asking.
2. She gets everything given to her anyway, her dad is a millionaire and money is nothing to her.
3. She knows exactly what she is doing.
This girl is my ex's best friend so I am threatening to tell my ex that we slept together which will hopefully ruin the relationship for her. We also fvcked a couple years back and i'm happy to disclose that as well.
Any thoughts on how to deal with this? I've told this girl what I intend to do if she doesn't pay me and now she's trying to stall the situation.. I wondering whether to just take the hit and tell my ex.
