Self entitlement rant

[switch7]

So a girl I fvcked last weekend stole from me. I was at her place and she wanted to get some drink and some other stuff. (I rarely drink or party) I told her she could get it but I wasn't interested in drinking and the rest of it. She complained for a while so eventually I agreed to go halves and indulge with her.

I gave her my debit card to go and withdraw money for my half. I later find out she withdrew the full amount and paid for everything with my cash.

I text her the next day asking her what the game is. She says she's sorry and she totally forgot and she will pay me back either way. I send my bank details for her to pay.

4 days later still nothing. So I text her asking what's going on. 2 days later she says she was out of the country and apologises. She then starts saying that I owe her for the drink that I had already consumed at her place (even though she invited me there) which is a ridiculous argument no way near covers the cost of what I paid.

I tell her she already agreed to pay me back and that her argument is ridiculous.

She then says she withdrew the money and gave it me which is total bs and she knows it.

So now I'm really annoyed and calling her a thief etc and she's telling me she doesn't like the way I am disrespecting her over text and that she is really disappointed with the way that I am handling this situation.

I'm fuming over this because

1. principle. It's not about the money, it's the principle of a girl thinking she is entitled to steal from someone and that her entitlement allows her to label this stealing as an 'honest mistake'. The amount of money she took wasn't a large amount (£60) and it's not important, it's the fact she took it without asking.

2. She gets everything given to her anyway, her dad is a millionaire and money is nothing to her.

3. She knows exactly what she is doing.


This girl is my ex's best friend so I am threatening to tell my ex that we slept together which will hopefully ruin the relationship for her. We also fvcked a couple years back and i'm happy to disclose that as well.

Any thoughts on how to deal with this? I've told this girl what I intend to do if she doesn't pay me and now she's trying to stall the situation.. I wondering whether to just take the hit and tell my ex.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

You got VICed, you gave some chick your debit card? Come on that's like rule number 1

 

[switch7]

You got VICed, you gave some chick your debit card? Come on that's like rule number 1

Yea, known her for years. Thought I could trust her. Plus I knew there wasn't a lot of cash in that account anyway.

 

[sazc]

You've known her for years?

Permanent ghost! You'll never get your money but permanently ghosting her for what she did will sting for the rest of her days

 

[Billtx49]

So a girl I fvcked last weekend stole from me. I was at her place and she wanted to get some drink and some other stuff. (I rarely drink or party) I told her she could get it but I wasn't interested in drinking and the rest of it. She complained for a while so eventually I agreed to go halves and indulge with her.

I gave her my debit card to go and withdraw money for my half. I later find out she withdrew the full amount and paid for everything with my cash.

I text her the next day asking her what the game is. She says she's sorry and she totally forgot and she will pay me back either way. I send my bank details for her to pay.

4 days later still nothing. So I text her asking what's going on. 2 days later she says she was out of the country and apologises. She then starts saying that I owe her for the drink that I had already consumed at her place (even though she invited me there) which is a ridiculous argument no way near covers the cost of what I paid.

I tell her she already agreed to pay me back and that her argument is ridiculous.

She then says she withdrew the money and gave it me which is total bs and she knows it.

So now I'm really annoyed and calling her a thief etc and she's telling me she doesn't like the way I am disrespecting her over text and that she is really disappointed with the way that I am handling this situation.

I'm fuming over this because

1. principle. It's not about the money, it's the principle of a girl thinking she is entitled to steal from someone and that her entitlement allows her to label this stealing as an 'honest mistake'. The amount of money she took wasn't a large amount (£60) and it's not important, it's the fact she took it without asking.

2. She gets everything given to her anyway, her dad is a millionaire and money is nothing to her.

3. She knows exactly what she is doing.


This girl is my ex's best friend so I am threatening to tell my ex that we slept together which will hopefully ruin the relationship for her. We also fvcked a couple years back and i'm happy to disclose that as well.

Any thoughts on how to deal with this? I've told this girl what I intend to do if she doesn't pay me and now she's trying to stall the situation.. I wondering whether to just take the hit and tell my ex.

So you’re b itchin about having to pay for the full drink, etc. purchase. Or does withdrawing the full amount mean she drained your account completely?
Either way write it off to another irritating life experience and never give Any woman a free money card again.
As I see it, you both screwed up there.…

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Ok let's think about this for a minute. What does telling your ex accomplish really?

Its hurtful to both girls, makes you look weak/poor and does nothing to raise your value, in fact it lowers your value.

I'm not discounting what happened with the money. But you assumed this girl places the same value on a dollar that you do. She doesn't, obviously.

This girl is a complete princess. Daddy gives her whatever & she's spoiled. She has no concept about the value of money and you're looking like a pauper since you are worried about it. In her mind subconsciously that means you aren't in her same social strata. You can't afford her in her mind. Be aware of that. It's a much bigger problem.

You agreed to this & you gave her your card to use. She treated you how she treats her father. No surprise there. Don't give out your resources so freely next time. That's your error. Expecting she has similar views regarding money is also a mistake on your part.

Do you run into millionaires all the time? If you do, that's one thing. If you don't run with millionaires then learn your lesson with this girl, get over it (never make such a mistake again) & use her to get to know her dad.

Her dad might be someone you can learn from. Never dismiss people whose contacts might be useful to you. Consider the money the price of admission.

Just food for thought.

 

[sosousage]

or she just lied about her dad. lmao what a girl. if she was rich she wouldnt steal

 

[RedScorpion]

or she just lied about her dad. lmao what a girl. if she was rich she wouldnt steal

Can't say that's true. Knew a girl who was living with her parents, they were fairly well-off... she ended up being part of two different schemes siphoning money from the stores she worked at (as assistant manager). First time, manager got caught... second time, she was literally bragging about it to me, so I tried to tip off the manager to document it. Think her friend got blamed instead.

Another girl, I don't know about stealing, but she definitely likes money. Her mom makes very decent money, and she lives a princess-like attitude. One day flaunted making over 100 bucks in a day on snapchat - retarded.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

File a police report. Send her punk a$$ to jail.

 

[skinnyguy]

Sorry man but you're the dumb one for giving a tramp your debit card. No way in hell I would ever trust a ho with that. Surprised she didn't drain your bank account completely

 

[switch7]

@BeExcellent you are right I don't come across well with this girl here. Anger gets the better of me sometimes. But honestly if she had told me 'I can't afford to pay' - I would have paid for her. It's the fact she led me to believe she was paying half. After this I don't want anything to do with this girl.

@sazc I think I'll take your advice.

 

[Trump]

Love guys who say "she knows exactly what she is doing" AFTER they have sex with the girl.

Do you guys not have any life experience or do assume every girl is dumber than you? Or maybe you are so so happy a good looking girl takes off her clothes and gives you sex your brain turns to mush after having sex.

It doesn't matter her dad is a millionaire and trillionaire or has no money. You have to watch yourself after having the sex with a good looking girl. Don't let your emotions cloud your judgement.

I had a hot girl wanting to get married. I loved her like crazy but I said "prenup because of family business" she said "go right to hell." I still dream about her and but had no choice but to ask for prenup. Logic rules.

I don't know how you guys keep jobs or don't lose your life savings to some shrewd businessman. Remember men, logic over emotion almost every time.

 

[PapiChulo]

No worries at all. It only cost you 60 to get rid of her. Forget it and move on before it costs you more money or reputation.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

So a girl I fvcked last weekend stole from me. I was at her place and she wanted to get some drink and some other stuff. (I rarely drink or party) I told her she could get it but I wasn't interested in drinking and the rest of it. She complained for a while so eventually I agreed to go halves and indulge with her.

I gave her my debit card to go and withdraw money for my half. I later find out she withdrew the full amount and paid for everything with my cash.

I text her the next day asking her what the game is. She says she's sorry and she totally forgot and she will pay me back either way. I send my bank details for her to pay.

4 days later still nothing. So I text her asking what's going on. 2 days later she says she was out of the country and apologises. She then starts saying that I owe her for the drink that I had already consumed at her place (even though she invited me there) which is a ridiculous argument no way near covers the cost of what I paid.

I tell her she already agreed to pay me back and that her argument is ridiculous.

She then says she withdrew the money and gave it me which is total bs and she knows it.

So now I'm really annoyed and calling her a thief etc and she's telling me she doesn't like the way I am disrespecting her over text and that she is really disappointed with the way that I am handling this situation.

I'm fuming over this because

1. principle. It's not about the money, it's the principle of a girl thinking she is entitled to steal from someone and that her entitlement allows her to label this stealing as an 'honest mistake'. The amount of money she took wasn't a large amount (£60) and it's not important, it's the fact she took it without asking.

2. She gets everything given to her anyway, her dad is a millionaire and money is nothing to her.

3. She knows exactly what she is doing.


This girl is my ex's best friend so I am threatening to tell my ex that we slept together which will hopefully ruin the relationship for her. We also fvcked a couple years back and i'm happy to disclose that as well.

Any thoughts on how to deal with this? I've told this girl what I intend to do if she doesn't pay me and now she's trying to stall the situation.. I wondering whether to just take the hit and tell my ex.

Are you serious? It all looks a bit mean and stingy.

Don't be vindictive about past history. None of that turns out well for anyone.

 

[MrJack]

@switch7

Why didn't you just go with her to go get the money and booze? You just chilled at her place by yourself?

Her "logic" though pisses me off too just reading it though lol. Fvck that bish.

I know it's petty but I actually WOULD try to ruin her friendship with your ex and then go full ghost mode.

She's one of those girls who doesn't think there will be any consequences for her actions because she's a "princess" and girls like that need a wakeup call.

Telling the ex might not do anything though, the ex could just believe her friend over you depending on what terms you guys are on.

 

[Dingo]

Why the **** did you give her your ATM card ? Lol

£60 is a good lesson on how not to be a dumb arse.....

 

[ubercat]

BE has good advice. The money won't come back so try and get some benefit out of the situation. You had sex with her so from a blokes point of view there was some profit. I just have a chuckle at yourself mark it down to experience and be cool with her. She obviously doesn't place any value on other people's money and it's not like she lifted stuff from your pad.