Self-control over your own penis

[Chamber36]

I just realised getting into this nofap business, the merits of it all.

I've done nofap before, if only for a few weeks. But not before I had reached the power level that I'm at now. I weigh a good solid 87 kg / 190 lbs, I just had a 1yr relationship with Ms. Psychodrama (came out relatively unscathed imo), and I noticed after I had put on some muscle, and learned some game from ms. Psychodrama, that the girls I was picking up for ONS's out on the street were suddenly 10x sluttier than before. All of a sudden they were slapping themselves in the face with my schlong, sucking on my balls, doing ATM, lol. My girl would maybe suck me off and then quickly wash her face so I couldn't see the artwork, lol.

So now I'm on to nofap. Even if only to learn how to control over my penis, so I don't chase my d*ck back to my ex.

So I'm in a new phase of my life. I've seen the perils, the pitfalls women can lead a man into. The opposite side of the spectrum. So I realise now, that not all that glitters is gold.

This new perspective allows me to more clearly see the benefits of nofap.

Nofap enhances my narc abilities even further. Being fully charged on sexual essence and yet not letting yourself be ruled by it just gives you so much power.

It's not hard to narc a ***** when you're on nofap. You tell the ***** what you want. She will respect you for it. She will show gratitude. Mission accomplished. If she doesn't appreciate the message then I suppose it's not a match.

With nofap you also become a bit more grounded. You have control over your orgasm, you're not ruled by your penis. You let the energy charge you and you become energized. Horny but energized with a good dose of self-control over your urges. This makes it easy to simply tell girls what you want. Your sex drive is on max. Your self-control is on max. It's almost like you're learning to harness the power of the creative energies of the universe (actually I think this is somewhat true. Sperm contains the same creative essence which causes the universe to expand today. Sperm is creation.)

- Sorry for the badly compiled message I'm really tired so can't format it into a smaller message -

 

[Roober]

The only issue with nofap is when you do get it... you dont last as long, at least in my case. Need to exercise that badboy to keep up my 90+ minutes sessions of hanky panky.

 

[Dingo]

If your a healthy young man you should be horny, under control and able to tear a girl up even if you fapped hours before. A few problems I see with no fapping... JMHO...

You come quicker.

You don't learn to edge.

Frequent ejaculation is good for prostate health.

Helps boost cortisol that helps immune system.

Rubbing one off feels good.....

 

[Billtx49]

Frequent ejaculation is good for prostate health.

Probably why older men are more susceptible to prostate cancer.…

 

[skinnyguy]

I'm not completely convinced that nofap is perfect.

Advantages:
-You last longer in bed
-You become less desperate for women, which means you're less likely to go for HB 3 and fatties
-Your h0rniness won't control you and you won't think about sex 24/7

Disadvantages:
-ED. It's happened to me more than once when I had a naked woman in my bed.
-Porn addiction. It becomes a drug.
-You use it as a crutch to not go out and meet women.

Overall, I've been fapping in moderation. I'm not sure what would happen if I went full nofap for months. Part of me thinks I would go crazy.

 

[Juanto]

Part of me thinks I would go crazy.

You can still bust a nut when having sex

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

What's all the hype about nofap? I don't really feel much of a difference myself to be honest.

 

[The Duke]

Keeping everything in moderation is the key to a successful life.

 

[IAmNoob]

I never tried nofap but I think I was porn addict -- In final stage I spent like two hours a day searching for new porn. I have regular schedule of masturbation, when hour came I just could not think about anything else. I stopped watching porn one day. I watch few pages since but for many months I do not event tried to because it does not turn me on anymore. When I stopped to watch porn after a while I stopped to like to masturbate. I had very little sex lately but I liked it. I do not like to masturbate tough even when I get blue balls.

 

[3agle 3yes]

Think beyond fap/no fap.

It's really about delaying instant gratification, about thinking long term and not looking for a quick fix.

Has anyone read Napoleon Hill's "Think & Grow Rich"?

In the chapter on "sex transmutation" he says a trend among highly successful men was that they had high sexual energy.

They had high sexual energy because they didn't release it.

The greatest power a woman has is her looks and body, take that away and they have next to no power.

A man who can walk away from a woman who is not good for him, despite her giving him sex is a man who has sexual control, sexual control is also attractive to women because it implies you have options.

Women like sex but in a different way to us (there's more to sex than physical penetration), the less priority you put on physical sex the more attractive you are.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I'm convinced that men have no control whatsoever over the sexual impulse. There's a reason Hugh Heffner is in his 80's and is STILL trying to get laid.

Another generalization. Men this, women that.... all generalizations.

The fact is the mass of men do not have control over their desires. But you can not go from there to say all men lack control... or that is our 'nature/ essence'. In Ethics, this was called 'incontinence'. It was left to either Reason, or a decent Upbringing [which instilled right habits], to create continence in the individual. This arose from Greek philosophy, where the virtuous can only be a small percentage who attain to a self-conscious rational control over their desires [the picture of the Charioteer]. It is interesting that the Greek word for man, vir, is tied to the word 'virtue'. From which also comes the word 'virile'. I'd go so far as to say that until a man has attained this control, he is still a boy of sorts.

I think a flaw of this site is the tendency to generalize toward the base - that men are all this, and women are all that. The fact is we become what we want to be if we have the rational desire to do so. But on second thoughts, it is hardly a criticism given that all thinking, in whatever context, tends to generalize today. But then again, if men are to be men, maybe they have to reject the dominant egalitarian thought pattern that's established itself. And this site is certainly critical.

 

[Skyline]

I've done a few no faps sessions that lasted months at a time. You tend to get turned on by any piece of female meat. The only real benefit I saw was that when you finally got laid or jerked off, it felt incredible.

It didn't make me last longer in the sack though. The thing that I did/do to make me last longer in bed is actually something simple.

My seceret..? I use a stroker. No p*ssy has ever felt as good as my $20 Sasha Gray stroker. No matter how wet I got the p*ssy, how turned on I got her, how hard I went in... I have always rated the stroker to feel x100 better and it can make me finish in seconds.

If you can manage your near ejaculation with a stroker, like how I did, you WILL last noticeably longer with little draw backs. I now last a little less than 2 hours MINIMUM. I actually get BORED sometimes.

I still get hard and everything is funtional. I just value actual vagina less, which is a good thing since I now turn down certain women because I simply jerk off with the stroker and think "well nvm I don't want her anymore because it's just sex."

I save a lot of time and a decent share of money too. Plus no risk of pregnancy or STD's.

But this is no way a substitute to actual p*ssy. Sometimes you need the real thing. The way I see it is: if you're going to use your hand you might as well use a stroker.

Just don't use it while watching porn. I've done it a few times and I had trouble getting off using my hand(which means I would have had trouble with actual p*ssy and this did happen once) and had to wait weeks to get that libido back.

As long as you can still use your hand, you good.