Self Consious Girlfriend

[stickboy]

Well my girlfriend is very self consious...

Her breasts are not that big.. but it really does not bother me.. but whenever I go up there she starts talking about how small they are... and it really bothers me.. I agree they are small but I still love her and I love her breasts... size doesn't matter that much to me... how can I show her that I'm telling the truth? I'm very attracted to her.

 

[arlanda]

Well, I would tell her to stop being so insecure and ask her if she really thinks I would dump her because of her small tits (don't know about you but I don't care much as long as she's something else going on for her e.g personality).

I'd be brutally honest and tell her that sure I love women with big breasts, the same way girls prefer tall guys but that doesn't matter because I like this and that about her.

(not field tested, but I'd be careful about the delivery ... you don't want to make the impression that you are lowering your standards because you are afraid of losing her)

 

[stickboy]

I've already told her that I love her (her personality) and that the packaging is just an extra nice surprise... she is really good looking...

 

[dirtyvibe]

is she skinny? because skinny girls always have small tits; just tell her to get fat

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It's a loosing battle. Your interest or perception of her breast has nothing to do with it, nor will it ever. She needs to become accepting of herself and her form and sadly, nothing you can say or do can make her see herself differently.

She felt this way about herself before your started dating her and she'll keep feeling this way until she decides to feel otherwise. You may or may not choose to stay around for that to happen.